ESSAY ON THE CHARACTER, MANNERS, AND GENIUS OF WOMEN IN DIFFERENT AGES.
Enlarged from the French of M. THOMAS, By Mr. RUSSELL.
IN TWO VOLUMES. VOL. I.
PHILADELPHIA: PRINTED AND SOLD BY R. AITKEN, BOOK-SELLER, OPPOSITE THE LONDON-COFFEE-HOUSE, FRONT-STREET. M,DCC,LXXIV.
PREFACE.
‘FENELON has left us a treatise on the education of women. Since his time, other authors, more or less celebrated, have written on the same subject; and there is still room for a treatise on female education. But to supply that want is not the immediate design of this piece: the Author here only presents an historical picture, an assemblage of facts and observations, which may serve as the elements of a didactic work. It will perhaps shew, that women [Page iv]are susceptible of all the qualities which religion, society, or government, would chuse to assign them.’
After the foregoing preamble, M. Thomas proceeds to tell us, that this Essay must be considered as part of a History of the Manners. Viewed in that light, it is perhaps the most complete performance hitherto published; and it is indisputably the most elegant, and most philosophical treatise, on the female mind and female character. But, notwithstanding these excellencies, it appeared to the Editor to want a good deal more than translation to make it satisfactory to the English reader. The sentences were often complicated, and the paragraphs tedious. It had none of those larger divisions, which are so necessary to relieve [Page v]the mind, nor any of those inferior ones, which are not less essential to the perspicuity of reasoning. He therefore in some measure decompounded it; he split the sentences, broke the paragraphs, and divided the work into parts and sections: he omitted some things *, and added others. What relates to the progress of society in Britain is entirely new. In short, he is answerable for the defects of the Essay, as it now appears; though he has not the vanity to claim its beauties. Those who are acquainted with the original, however, he doubts not will give him credit for his labours.
CONTENTS.
- PART I. Of the Women of Antiquity. Introduction. Page 1
- SECT. I. Of the great and virtuous Actions of Women in general. Page 14
- SECT. II. Of the Grecian Women. Page 19
- SECT. III. Of the Roman Women. Page 32
- SECT. IV. Of the Effects of Christianity on the Manners of Women. Page 53
- PART II. Of the Women of modern Nations.
- SECT I. Of the Inundation of the Barbarians, and the Effects [Page]of Chivalry on the Character and Manners of Women. Page 64
- SECT. II. Of the Revival of Letters, and the Learning of Women. Page 91
- SECT. III. Of the Books written in Honour of Women, and on the Superiority of the Sexes. Page 106
- SECT. IV. The Subject continued. Page 115
ON THE CHARACTER, MANNERS, and GENIUS OF WOMEN. PART I. Of the WOMEN of Antiquity.
INTRODUCTION.
IF we take a survey of ages and of countries, we will find the women—almost without exception—at all times, and in all places, adored and oppressed. Man, who has never neglected an opportunity of exerting his power, in paying homage to their beauty, has always availed himself of their weakness. He has been at once their tyrant and their slave.
[Page 2] Nature herself, in forming beings so susceptible and tender, appears to have been more attentive to their charms than their happiness. Continually surrounded with griefs and fears, the women more than share all our miseries, and are besides subjected to ills which are peculiarly their own. They cannot be the means of life without exposing themselves to the loss of it. Every revolution which they undergo alters their health, and threatens their existence. Cruel distempers attack their beauty—and the hour which confirms their release from those, is perhaps the most melancholy of their lives. It robs them of the most essential, and, in some respects, the most endearing characteristic of their sex. They can then only hope for protection from the humiliating claims of pity, or the feeble voice of gratitude.
Society, instead of alleviating their condition, is to them the source of new miseries. More than one half of the globe is covered with savages; and, [Page 3]among all those people, women are completely wretched. Man, in a state of barbarity, equally cruel and indolent, active by necessity, but naturally inclined to repose, is acquainted with little more than the physical effects of love; and having none of those moral ideas, which only can soften the empire of force, he is led to consider it as his supreme law, subjecting to his despotism those whom reason had made his equals, but whose imbecillity betrayed them to his strength.
'Nothing' (says professor Millar, speaking of the women of barbarous nations,) ‘can exceed the dependence and subjection in which they are kept, or the toil and drudgery which they are obliged to undergo.—The husband, when he is not engaged in some warlike exercise, indulges himself in idleness, and devolves upon his wife the whole burden of his domestic affairs. He disdains to assist her in any of those servile employments; she sleeps in a different bed, and is seldom permitted [Page 4]to have any conversation, or correspondence with him. *’
The women among the Indians of America are what the helots were among the Spartans, a vanquished people obliged to toil for their conquerors. Hence, on the banks of the Oroonoko, we have seen mothers slaying their daughters out of compassion, and smothering them in the hour of their birth. They consider this barbarous pity as a virtue.
'The men' (says Commodore Byron, in his account of the inhabitants of South America,) ‘exercise a most despotic authority over their wives, whom they consider in the same view they do any other part of their property, and dispose of them accordingly: even their common treatment of them is cruel; for though the toil and hazard of procuring food lies entirely on the women, [Page 5]yet they are not suffered to touch any part of it, till the husband is satisfied; and then he assigns them their portion, which is generally very scanty, and such as he has not a stomach for himself. *’
Among the nations of the East, we find another kind of despotism and dominion prevail—the seraglio, and the domestic servitude of women, authorised by the manners, and established by the laws. In Turky, in Persia, in India, in Japan, and over the vast empire of China, one half of the human species is oppressed by the other.
The excess of oppression in those countries springs from the excess of love.
All Asia is covered with prisons, where beauty in bondage waits the caprices of a master. The multitudes of women there assembled have no will, no inclinations, but his. Their triumphs are [Page 6]only for a moment; and their rivalry, their hate, and their animosities continue till death. There the lovely sex are obliged to repay even their servitude with the most tender affection; or, what is still more mortifying, with the counterfeit of an affection which they do not feel: There the most gloomy tyranny has subjected them to creatures, who, being of neither sex, are a dishonour to both: There, in short, their education tends only to debafe them; their virtues are forced; their very pleasures are involuntary and joyless; and, after an existence of a few years—till the bloom of youth is over— their period of neglect commences, which is long and dreadful.
In the temperate latitudes, where the climate giving less ardour to passion leaves more confidence in virtue, the women have not been deprived of their liberty; but a severe legislation has at all times kept them in a state of dependence. One while they were confined to their own apartments, and debarred at once from business and amusement; at another [Page 7]time, a tedious guardianship defrauded their hearts and insulted their understandings. Affronted in one country by poligamy, which gives them their rivals for their inseparable companions; enslaved in another by indissoluble ties, which often join the gentle to the rude, and sensibility to brutality; even in countries where they may be esteemed most happy, constrained in their desires, in the disposal of their goods, robbed of freedom of will by the laws, the slaves of opinion, which rules them with absolute sway, and construes the slightest appearances into guilt; surrounded on all sides by judges who are at once their tyrants and their seducers, and who, after having prepared their faults, punish every lapse with dishonour—nay usurp the right of degrading them on suspicion; who does not feel for the tender sex? Yet such, I am sorry to say, is the lot of women over the whole earth. Man, with regard to them, in all climates and in all ages, has been either an insensible or an oppressor; but they have sometimes experienced the cold and deliberate oppression of pride, [Page 8]and sometimes the violent and terrible tyranny of jealousy. When they are not beloved, they are nothing; and when they are, they are tormented. They have almost equal cause to be afraid of indifference and of love. Over three quarters of the globe, nature has placed them between contempt and misery.
The melting desires, or the fiery passions,' says professor Fergufon, 'which in one climate take place between the sexes, are in another changed into a sober consideration, or a patience of mutual disgust. This change is remarked in crossing the Mediterranean, in following the course of the Missisippi, in ascending the mountains of Caucasus, and in passing from the Alps and the Pyrenees to the shores of the Baltic.
The burning ardours and the torturing jealousies of the seraglio and the haram, which have reigned so long in Asia and Africa, and which in the southern parts of Europe have scarcely [Page 9]given way to the difference of religion and civil establishments, are found, however, with an abatement of heat in the climate, to be more easily changed, in one latitude, into a temporary passion which ingrosses the mind, without enfeebling it, and which excites to romantic atchievements: by a farther progress to the north, it is changed into a spirit of gallantry, which employs the wit and fancy more than the heart; which prefers intrigue to enjoyment; and substitutes affectation and vanity, where sentiment and desire have failed. As it departs from the sun, the same passion is farther composed into a habit of domestic connection, or frozen into a state of insensibility, under which the sexes at freedom scarcely chuse to unite their society. *
Even among a people where beauty received the highest homage, we find men who would deprive the sex of every kind of reputation. ‘The most VIRTUOUS [Page 10]woman, says a celebrated Greek *, is she who is least talked of.’
That morose man, while he imposes duties upon women, would deprive them of the sweets of public esteem; and, in exacting virtues from them, would make it a crime to aspire at honour.
If a woman were to defend the cause of her sex, she might address him in the following manner.
How great is your injustice! If we have an equal right with you to virtue, why should we not have an equal right to praise? The public esteem ought to wait upon merit. Our duties are different from yours; but they are not therefore less difficult to fulfil, or of less consequence to society: they are the fountains of your felicity, and the sweetners of life. We are wives and mothers. 'Tis we who form the union and the cordiality of families; 'tis we [Page 11]who soften that savage rudeness which considers every thing as due to force, and which would involve man with man in eternal war. We cultivate in you that humanity, which makes you feel for the misfortunes of others; and our tears forewarn you of your own danger. Nay, you cannot be ignorant, that we have need of courage not less than you. More feeble in ourselves, we have perhaps more trials to encounter. Nature assails us with sorrow, law and custom press us with constraint, and sensibility and virtue alarm us by their continual conflicts. Sometimes also the name of citizen demands from us the tribute of fortitude. When you offer your blood to the state, think that it is ours. In giving it our sons and our husbands, we give more than ourselves. You can only die on the field of battle, but we have the misfortune to survive those whom we love most.
Alas! while your ambitious vanity is unceasingly labouring to cover the [Page 12]earth with statues, with monuments, and with inscriptions, to eternize if possible your names, and give yourselves an existence when this body is no more, why must we be condemned to live and to die unknown? Would you, that the grave and eternal forgetfulness should be our lot? Be not our tyrants in all. Permit our names to be some time pronounced beyond the narrow circle in which we live; permit friendship, or at least love, to inscribe its emblems on the tomb where our ashes repose; and deny us not that public esteem, which, after the esteem of one's self, is the sweetest reward of well-doing.
All men however, it must be owned, have not been equally unjust to their fair companions. In some countries public honours have been paid to women. Art has erected them monuments, eloquence has celebrated their virtues, and history has collected whatever could adorn their characters.
[Page 13] Without entering into circumstantial details, which might perhaps disgust by their uniformity, I shall inquire, in general, what are the qualities and the kinds of merit of which women are capable; how far government, laws, and circumstances can raise them; and shall attempt to discover the secret connections of policy with their manners. I shall then quickly examine what the women have been in different ages, and how the spirit of their times, or of their nation has influenced their character.
This Essay, if I may so speak, will be a history of that part of the human species, which the other flatters and calumniates by turns—and frequently without knowing them. For it is with women as with sovereigns, they seldom hear the truth; and we estimate them more by interest and by humour, than by justice.
I neither mean to write a panegyric nor a satire, but to make a collection of observations and of facts; in which may [Page 14]be seen, what the women have been, what they are, and what they ought to be.
SECTION I. Of the great and virtuous Actions of WOMEN in general.
WE find in the writings of Plutarch, the panegyrist and the judge of so many great men, a piece intituled, THE VIRTUOUS ACTIONS OF WOMEN. It is addressed to one of the sex, named CLEA, of whom we know little. But her connection with the philosopher of Chaeronea alone, has been deemed sufficient, by some writers, to class her among the number of learned women.
Plutarch begins his performance with blaming those, who would deprive women of that praise which is their due. 'One might,' says he, ‘make a comparison between Anacreon and Sappho, between Semiramis and Sesostris, between Tanaquil and Servius, and between Brutus and Portia. The talents [Page 15]and the virtues are modified by the circumstances and the persons, but the foundation is the same; the colour and the surface, so to speak, are only different.’
The philosophical historian next proceeds to mention a great number of women of all nations, who have given examples of their courage, and who have shewn a generous contempt of death.
He instances the Phoenician women; who, before an engagement which threatened the destruction of their city, agreed to bury themselves in the flames, if the battle should be lost, and crowned with flowers the woman who first made that motion in the council.
He tells us of other women, who, in a city besieged, made the men blush for a shameful capitulation;—of women, who, seeing their sons and their husbands flee in battle, ran before them, and obstructed their passage, forcing them to return, to death or to victory;—of women, who, [Page 16]during the time of a siege, mounted the walls, defended their city, and bravely repulsed the enemy:—of women who resisted despotism and oppression, and who, as soon as the tyrant was slain, ran dancing before the conspirators, and crowned them with their own hands;—of some, who themselves gave liberty to their country;—of several, who exposed themselves to death, and loaded themselves with chains to save their captive husbands:—and he takes particular notice of Camma, who poisoned herself at the altar, that she might poison the murderer of her husband; and who, turning toward the assassin, said,
‘I have only lived to revenge the death of my spouse—It is done. Thee, this moment, I order, in place of a nuptial bed, to prepare thyself a tomb.’
He likewise instances the women of Gaul, who, in the time of a civil war, threw themselves between two armies rushing to battle, and separated, and reconciled the combatants. As a reward [Page 17]for which act of valour, they had the honour of being admitted into the public councils, and sometimes of being chosen the arbiters of nations.
To these great and generous qualities, by which women seem to rise above themselves, Plutarch has joined the softer, and to men more attractive virtues, as being more natural to the sex. He praises the women of an island of the Archipelago, where, during the course of seven years, he says, there was neither an instance of weakness in a young person, nor of infidelity in a married woman: — And he relates an anecdote of the Milesian virgins, which merits the attention of a philosopher. Multitudes fell by their own hands — doubtless in that trying age, when nature giving birth to restless and turbulent desires, inflames the imagination; and when the heart, astonished at new wants, which virtue forbids it to gratify, feels pining melancholy succeed to the sportful tranquillity of childhood. Nothing could stop the contagion. A law was made condemning [Page 18]the first who should be guilty of self-murder, to be brought naked, and exposed in the market-place. Those young women were not afraid of death; but they were afraid of shame, even after death. Not one of them henceforth made an attempt upon her life.
Plutarch in the same piece relates another anecdote, which, even at this day, might afford an excellent lesson of political oeconomy. A king, who believed that riches consisted in gold, obliged the greater part of his subjects to labour in the mines. They all perished. The remaining inhabitants of the country had recourse to the quen. She ordered an artificer to make privately the resemblance of bread, of meat, and of different kinds of fruits, of gold; and, when the king returned from a journey, she had them served up to him. The view pleased him very much; but, at length, he grew hungry, and desired to have something to eat. The queen replied.
[Page 19] ‘We have nothing but gold. Your lands are uncultivated: they produce nothing. I have set before you what you love, and all that now remains to us of a once plentiful and populous kingdom.’
The king saw, and corrected his mistake.
SECTION II. Of the Grecian WOMEN.
BESIDES his general treatise on the actions of women, Plutarch has left us a piece in honour of the Spartan dames. There he cites a variety of expressions, which demonstrate their courage and vigour of mind; there we find beings and virtues very different from those of the same sex with which we have occasion to be acquainted: — Nature sacrificed to patriotism; honour ranked before affection; the name of citizen preferred to the name of mother; tears of joy shed over the body of a son pierced [Page 20]with wounds; the maternal hands armed against a son guilty of cowardice; the mandate of death conveyed to a son suspected of a crime; and sorrow, and even compassion, regarded as a weakness, or as an insult! —
He gives us a singular instance, in a Spartan woman, of intrepidity and fortitude in a state of servitude. A prisoner, and sold as a slave, the question was put to her, 'What knowest thou?' — 'To be free!' she replied; and, when her master commanded what she deemed ignominious, she cooly said, ‘You are unworthy of me:’ and resigned herself to death.
Those who have not been accustomed to look beyond their own times, and who conclude what women have been, from what they are; and those, more particularly, who are ignorant what essects a legislation conceived in one head, and combined in all its branches, can produce on the mind, will be at a loss to comprehend, how a sex that seems rather formed [Page 21]for sensibility than fortitude, should possess so much courage. It sprung from the vigour of ancient laws.
Among the Greeks, who were almost all republicans, the manners of the women became necessarily bold and austere. The retreats where they spent their lives subdued their desires; the poverty of the public denied the means of corruption; and the apprehension of national honour exalted their sentiments. They had an ambition of not being behind their sons, their brothers, and their husbands; and, not being able to attract them by feminine arts, they boldly trod in their footsteps.
Other causes co-operated to place the women of those early ages on a level with the men. In the era of the formation of states, when society is only emerging from barbarism, the toils and the dangers of the two fexes are nearly the same.
The republics, or the kingdoms of Greece, consisting often only of one city, were continually either threatened with [Page 22]war, or were the scene of blood. National animosities, inflamed by the clashing of interests, were more ardent, and less easily extinguished than in our times. The wars of Europe are now only the means, and the manner of deciding the quarrels of princes: they were then the awakened passions of the people. The inhabitants of one state fought for the lives of the inhabitants of another. Victory condemned the women to slavery. Such a condition was an asylum against death, and might sometimes be alleviated by the favour of a master, but could never protect them from dishonour.
The uncertainty of the laws, in the particular states of Greece, and the shocks of liberty, opened a door to tyrants. The right to command, was then a right to abuse it. To ascend the throne, was to be a robber and an assassin. The citizen knew not thenceforth what he had to fear, to hope, or to suffer.
The inhabitants of one place were involved in opposition and bloodshed, and [Page 23]chose of another were engaged in dark conspiracies, where women were admitted to the mysteries, and sometimes employed as the ministers of vengeance; for the ills complained of extended to them, and they had often more to lose than their lives. The two sexes then kept pace with each other: their courage was great, because the occasions of exerting it were many and trying.
In the same periods, and from the same impulse, both Europe and Asia were over-run by invasions and emigrations of armed multitudes; and, among all those wandering people, the two sexes encountered the same hardships and the same perils. The women would therefore imperceptibly acquire a habit of fortitude; — and, as the virtue of the softer sex has its existence in pride — as indolence is almost always the companion of seduction — as the practice of surmounting dangers teaches us to subdue ourselves — as the life of those women was either altogether active, or altogether retired; — and, as they could know nothing of [Page 24]that anxious leisure of society, where imagination eternally out-runs desire, and the soul is at once corrupted by all its senses, they would join to their courage a high and delicate apprehension of honour: — and these are, indeed, the two qualities assigned by Plutarch to the women of those early times, both Greeks and Barbarians.
But, in the different eras of Grecian history, we must not suppose that the women were always the same. It appears that the manners in the isles of Greece, in general, were much purer than on the continent. Those islanders, by being less exposed to foreign intercourse, could more easily preserve their laws and their virtues. The warlike convents of Lacedemon, the nurseries only of soldiers, would be much more rigid than the smiling retreats of Athens, whence politeness was propagated, and fashion announced; and the city of Thebes, where a rustic grossness supplied the place of an elegant luxury, must have been very different from Corinth, which on account [Page 25]of its situation and commerce, obtained the name of THE TWO SEAS OF WEALTH AND PLEASURE.
In proportion as their Institutions were corrupted, the virtues of the women, we may conclude, were lost. But the rank which the courtezans enjoyed, even in the brightest ages of Greece, and particularly at Athens, is one of the greatest singularities in the manners of any people. By what circumstance could that order of women, who debase at once their own sex and ours — in a country where the women were possessed of modesty, and the men of sentiment — arrive at distinction, and sometimes even at the highest degree of reputation and consequence? — Several reasons may be assigned for that phenomenon in society.
In Greece, the courtezans were in some measure connected with the religion of the country. The goddess of Beauty had her altars: and she was supposed to protect prostitution, which was to her a species of worship. The people invoked [Page 26]Venus in times of danger; and, after a battle, they thought they had done honour to Miltiades and Themistocles, because the Laises and the Glyceras of the age had chanted hymns to their goddess.
The courtezans were likewise connected with religion by means of the arts. Their persons afforded models for statues, which were afterwards adored in the temples. Phrine served as a model to Praxiteles for his Venus of Cnidus: and, during the feasts of Neptune near Elusis, Appelles having seen the same courtezan on the sea-shore, without any other veil than her loose and flowing hair, was so much struck with her appearance, that he borrowed from it the idea of his Venus rising from the waves.
They were therefore connected with statuary and painting; as they furnished the practisers of those arts with the means of embellishing their works.
The greater part of them were skilled in music; and, as that art was attended [Page 27]with higher effects in Greece than it has ever been in any other country, it must have possessed, in their hands, an irresistible charm.
Every one knows, how enthusiastic the Greeks were of beauty. They adored it in the temples; they admired it in the principal works of art; they studied it in the exercises and the games; they sought to perfect it by their marriages, and they offered rewards to it at the public festivals. But virtuous beauty was seldom to be seen. The modest women were confined to their own apartments, and were visited only by their husbands and nearest relations. The courtezans offered themselves every where to view; and their beauty, as might be expected, obtained universal homage.
Society only can unfold the beauties of the mind: modest women were excluded from it. The courtezans of Athens by living in public, and conversing freely with all ranks of people, upon all manner of subjects, acquired by degrees a knowledge [Page 28]of history, of philosophy, of pelicy, and a taste in the whole circle of the arts. Their ideas were more extensive and various, and their conversation was more sprightly and entertaining, than any thing that was to be found among the virtuous part of the sex. Hence their houses became the schools of elegance. The poets and the painters went there to catch the fleeting forms of grace, and the changeable features of ridicule; the musicians to perfect the delicacy of harmony; and the philosophers, to collect those particulars of human life which had hitherto escaped their observation. The house of Aspasia was the resort of Socrates and Pericles, as that of Ninon was of St. Evremont and Conde. They acquired from those fair libertines taste and politeness, and they gave them in exchange knowledge and reputation.
Greece was governed by eloquent men; and the celebrated courtezans having an influence over those orators, must have had an influence on public affairs. There was not one, not even [Page 29]the thundering, the inflexible Demosthenes, so terrible to tyrants, but was subjected to their sway. Of that great master of eloquence it has been said: ‘What he had been a whole year in erecting, a woman overturned in a day?’ That influence augmented their consequence; and their talent of pleasing increased with the occasions of exerting it.
The laws and the public institutions, indeed, by authorising the privacy of women, set a high value on the sanctity of the marriage vow. But in Athens, imagination, sentiment, luxury, the taste in arts and pleasures, was opposite to the laws. The courtezans therefore may be said to have come in support of the manners.
There was no check upon public licentiousness; but private infidelity, which concerned the peace of families, was punished as a crime. By a strange, and perhaps unequalled singularity, the men were corrupted, — yet the domestic manners were pure. It seems as if the courtezans [Page 30]had not been considered to belong to their sex; and, by a convention to which the laws and the manners bended, while other women were estimated merely by their virtues, they were estimated only by their accomplishments.
These reasons will, in some measure, account for the honours which the votaries of Venus so often received in Greece. Otherwise we should have been at a loss to conceive, why six or seven writers had exerted their talents to celebrate the courtezans of Athens *; why three great painters had uniformly devoted their pencils to represent them on canvass; and why so many poets had strove to immortalize them in their verses. We should hardly have believed, that so many illustrious men had courted their society; that Aspasia had been consulted in deliberations of peace and war; that Phrine had a statue of gold placed between the statues of two kings, at Delphos; that, after death, magnificent tombs had been erected to their memory.
[Page 31] ‘The traveller, says a Greek writer *, who, approaching to Athens, sees on the side of the way a monument which attracts his notice at a distance, will imagine that it is the tomb of Miltiades or Pericles, or of some other great man, who has done honour to his country by his services: he advances, he reads, and he learns, that it is a courtezan of Athens who is interred with so much pomp.’
Theopompus, in a letter to Alexander the Great, speaks also of the same mounument in words to the following effect.
‘Thus, after her death, is a prostitute honoured; while not one of those brave warriors who fell in Asia, fighting for you and for the safety of Greece, has so much as a stone erected to his memory, or an inscription to preserve his ashes from insult.’
Such was the homage which that enthusiastic people, voluptuous and passionate, [Page 32]paid to beauty. More guided by sentiment than by reason, and having law rather than principles, they banished their great men, honoured their courtezans, murdered Socrates, permitted themselves to be governed by Aspasia, preserved inviolate the marriage bed, and placed Phrine in the temple of Apollo!
SECTION III. Of the Roman WOMEN.
AMONG the Romans, a grave and austere people, who during five hundred years were unacquainted with the elegancies and the pleasures of life, and who, in the middle of furrows and of fields of battle, were employed in tillage or in war, the manners of the women were a long time as solemn and severe as those of the men, and without the smallest mixture of corruption or of weakness.
The time when the Roman women began to appear in public marks a particular era in history. In the infancy of [Page 33]the city, and even till the conquest of Carthage, shut up in their houses, where a simple and rustic virtue paid every thing to instinct, and nothing to elegance; so nearly allied to barbarism, as only to know what it was to be wives and mothers; chaste, without apprehending they could be otherwise; tender and affectionate, before they had learned the meaning of the words; occupied in duties, and ignorant that there were other pleasures, they spent their life in retirement, in nursing their children, and in rearing to the republic a race of labourers or of soldiers. Nor were they inattentive to the other parts of domestic oeconomy: virtuously happy during the night, in the recess of more important cares, they were employed through the day in working alternately at the loom and at the spindle.
The habits of the most illustrious Romans, for many ages, were spun by their wives, or by their sisters. Even Augustus, when lord of the world, remained an example of that ancient simplicity.
[Page 34] The Roman women, during that period were respected over the whole earth. Their victorious husbands revisited them with transport, at their return from battle; they laid at their feet the spoils of the enemy, and exalted, and endeared themselves in their eyes, by the wounds which they had received for them and for the state. Those warriors often came from imposing commands upon kings, and, in their own houses, accounted it an honour to obey. In vain the too rigid laws had made them the arbiters of life and death: more powerful than the laws, the women ruled their judges. In vain the legislature, foreseeing the wants which exist only among a corrupt people, permitted divorce; the indulgence of the polity was proscribed by the manners.
Such was the influence of beauty at Rome, before the licentious intercourse of the sexes had corrupted both, debasing the one by the other: and every mean it appears was used to prolong the happy period, and preserve the purity of female manners.
[Page 35] A severe guardianship, from which no age relieved the unmarried women; the censure of the magistrates; the domestic tribunals; the laws for preventing their luxury, by fixing their dowries; the sumptuary laws, for regulating their ornaments; the temples erected to chastity, and to a goddess who presided over the peace of marriages and the reconciliation of spouses; decrees of the senate in favour of women who had been serviceable to the state; all demonstrate the attention which that warlike people paid to the softer sex, and to their virtues, as long as they had any themselves.
The Roman matrons do not seem to have possessed that military courage, which Plutarch has praised in certain Greek and Barbarian women. They partook more of the nature of their sex; or, at least, they departed less from its character. Their first quality was decency. Every one knows the story of Cato the censor, who stabbed a Roman senator for kissing his own wife, in presence of his daughter.
[Page 36] To these austere manners the Roman women joined an enthusiastic love of their country, which discovered itself upon many great occasions. On the death of Brutus, they all clothed themselves in mourning. In the time of Coriolanus, they saved the city. That incensed warrior, who had insulted the senate and the priests, and who was superior even to the pride of pardoning, could not resist the tears and the entreaties of the women: They melted his obdurate heart. The senate decreed them public thanks; ordered the men to give place to them upon all occasions; made an altar be erected on the spot where the mother had softened her son, and the wife her husband; — and the sex were permitted to add another ornament to their head-dress.
It is to be wished, that our modern ladies could assign as good a reason for the size of their caps.
The Roman women saved the city a second time, when besieged by Brennus. They gave up all their gold as its ransom. [Page 37]For that instance of their generosity, the senate granted them the honour of having funeral orations pronounced from the rostrum, in common with patriots and heroes. — After the battle of Cannae, when Rome had no other treasures but the virtues of her citizens, the women sacrisiced both their gold and their jewels. A new decree rewarded their zeal.
Valerius Maximus, who lived in the reign of Tiberius, and who has left us a book which is a more singular monument of great virtues than of good taste, has several essays in praise of the Roman women. But these are less panegyrics than detached histories, to which he has sometimes given the style and the manner of the oration. We have good reason to think so, since the celebrated Portia, the daughter of Cato, and the wife of Brutus, is not there forgot; nor that Julia, the wife of Pompey, who died of terror, at seeing the robe of her husband tinged with his blood; nor that young Roman, who, in prison, supported her father by her milk; nor several other [Page 38]illustrious women, who, during the time of the proscriptions, exposed their lives to save their husbands.
The same writer, in extolling the virtues, touches also on the talents of the Roman women. He informs us that, in the second triumvirate, the three assassins who governed Rome, thirsting after gold not less than blood, and having already practised every species of robbery, and worn out every method of plunder, resolved to tax the women. They imposed a heavy contribution upon each of them. The women sought an orator to defend their cause, but found none: nobody would reason against those who had the power of life and death. The daughter of the celebrated Hortensius alone appeared: she revived the memory of her father's abilities; and supported with intrepidity her own cause, and that of her sex. The ruffians blushed, and revoked their orders. Hortensia was conducted home in triumph; and had the honour of having given in one day, an example of courage [Page 39]to men, a pattern of eloquence to women, and a lesson of humanity to tyrants.
But the era of the talents of women at Rome, is to be found under the emperors; when society was more perfected by opulence, by luxury, by the use and abuse of the arts, and by commerce. Their retirement was then less strict; their genius, more active, was more exerted; their heart had new wants; the idea of reputation sprung up in their minds; their lesure increased with the division of employments. They had servile offices, which the women of rank left — if I may so express myself — to the people: they had those of a higher class, which were soon silled. During upwards of six hundred years, the virtues had been found sufficient to please; they now found it necessary to call in the accomplishments. They were desirous to join admiration to esteem, till they learned to exceed esteem itself: for, in all countries, in proportion as the love of virtue diminishes, we find the value of talents to increase.
[Page 40] A thousand causes concurred to produce this revolution of manners among the Romans. The vast inequality of ranks; the enormous fortunes of individuals; the ridicule affixed by the imperial court to moral ideas; all contributed to hasten the period of corruption. Then vice had no curb. The excessive desire of shews brought a low and shameless freedom into fashion. Women contended with each other, who should bribe highest for the embraces of a player. They sixed their hearts and their eyes upon the stage, to devour the movements of a pantomime. A dancer, or a juggler, swallowed up the patrimonies, and gave heirs to the descendants of the Scipios and the Emiliuses. Debauchery reduced fertility. They learned to cheat nature. The art of producing abortions completed the detestable practice. The passions, always craving, always gratified; and the women tired of all, cloyed of all, multiplied in Rome the monsters of Asia: they mutilated their slaves, to satisfy the new caprices of an imagination jaded even with pleasure itself. The vices became [Page 41]more powerful than the laws. It was no longer the study of the magistrate to preserve the manners, but to punish crimes; and sometimes their number, and their nature, was so alarming, that it became necessary for public justice to cover herself with a veil: because there would have been no less danger than shame in taking notice of all the guilty.
When Septimus Severus mounted the throne, he found three thousand accusations of adultery on the roll. He was obliged to lay aside his plan of reformation.
In that age, the rank of the women appears to have been more frequently praised than the virtue, and the talents, or accomplishments, than the manners.
About the beginning of the empire, several funeral orations were pronounced at Rome in honour of women: the oration of Junia, the sister of Brutus, and the wife of Cassius; the oration of the Empress Livia, the mother of Tiberius; [Page 42]that of Octavia, spoken by Augustus; and that of Poppaea, by Nero. The first may be said to be the eulogy of virtue, still severe and republican. The second ought to mark the gradation of the manners of the women of a common-wealth to their manners in a court, and under monarchical government.
The manners of Livia partook of both periods, and of both governments. She was connected with the republic by a remnant of simplicity; and, to use the words of Tacitus, ‘by the sanctity of her house:’ She was connected with the monarchy by a boundless ambition, by a desire of reputation, by a studied deceit, by the art of happily employing the allurements of her sex — in short, by intrigue and address applied by turns to great or to trifling purposes.
The third oration, or that of Octavia, the sister of Augustus, the wife of Anthony, and the virtuous and tender rival of Cleopatra, was the eulogy of beauty rendered interesting by misfortunes, and [Page 43]mingled with great events, of which she was rather the victim than the cause.
These panegyrics might pass without reprehension; but the eulogy of Poppaea pronounced by an Emperor and applauded by the Romans, was a proof of the last stage of corruption * It seemed to insinuate, that all the women connected with the imperial house, or who entered there, had a right to be praised in the same manner after their death. Several of them, while on the throne, were publicly abandoned in their pleasures; but the apotheosis repaired all. Religion was even less strict than the manners: it was easier to obtain the rank of a goddess, than the character of a virtuous woman.
There were still however some virtues among the Roman women; but these were remarkable. The greater part of them owed their birth to Stoicism, which, under the first emperors, spread itself to [Page 44]Rome. Stoicism is to the manners, what republican severity is to government. It revived in some houses the ancient virtues; but with this difference, that formerly the Romans may be said to have sucked in virtue with their milk; it was a kind of habitual instinct, and the happy effect of example and of laws: now, to resist the torrent of corruption, it was necessary to possess cultivated manners, firm opinions, and philosophical resources. It was likewise necessary to have principles; for cold reason could not long have held our: it was necessary to possess a certain enthusiasm, which at once animated and supported the soul; which proposed to itself a dignity superior to man, that it might elevate him to the height of his powers; which despised pleasure, that it might hate vice; which withstood sorrow and compassion, that it might fortify itself against weakness; which, in short, in places where guilt was all powerful by authority and by example, where men were enslaved by all things, rendered man independent of all things — but of moral obligation; and [Page 45]which, raising him above this sublunary scene and all its delusive joys, made him his own censor, his preceptor, his contemplator, and his judge.
Such was the doctrine of the Stoics. It was therefore highly necessary at Rome in this period, as a powerful counterpoise to an enormous weight; and it produced, indeed, in that city the most amazing contrasts: — the most exalted courage was often found by the side of the most debasing cowardice, and the most rigid austerity in the neighbourhood of the most shameless licentiousness.
It is worthy of remark, that Stoicism never produced such great effects in Greece as in Rome. As there is something extravagant in its nature, it perhaps requires extraordinary circumstances to give it energy. Great wants and great evils are necessary to create great virtues. Stoicism resembles those mechanical powers, which increase in proportion to their resistances.
[Page 46] Several illustrious Romans, nursed in this sect, displayed the virtues which it inspired: and the women, more susceptible of habits than of principles, and almost always governed by the manners, which strike them more forcibly, imitated the conduct of their husbands or of their fathers. Portia had given the example. The daughter of Cato, and the wife of Brutus, she was raised to the very summit of their ideas. In the conspiracy against Caesar, she shewed herself worthy to be associated with the first of humankind, and trusted with the fate of empires. After the battle of Philippi, she would neither survive liberty nor Brutus, but died with the bold intrepidity of Cato.
The example of Portia was followed by that Arria, who seeing her husband hesitating, and afraid to die, to encourage him, pierced her own breast, and delivered to him the dagger with a smile *; by Arria's daughter, the wife [Page 47]of Thrasea, and by the daughter of Thrasea, the wife of Helvidius Priscus, both worthy of having had for their husbands men of the greatest virtue and fortitude; by Paulinia, the wife of Seneca, who made her veins be opened at the same time with her husband's; and who, forced to live, during the few years which she survived him, ‘bore in her countenance,' says Tacitus, 'the honourable testimony of her love, a PALENESS which proved that part of her blood had sympathetically issued with the blood of her spouse.’
The same exalted virtues were displayed, though in a different manner, by Agrippina, the wife of Germanicus; who, naturally haughty and sensible, [Page 48]after the death of that great man, buried herself in retirement in all the bloom of youth; and who, neither bending her stateliness under Tiberius, nor allowing herself to be corrupted by the manners of her age, as implacable in her hatred to the tyrant as she had been faithful to her husband, spent her life in lamenting the one and in detesting the other. Nor should the celebrated Epinina be forgot, whom Vespasion ought to have admired — but whom he so basely put to death.
It is remarkable, that not one of those extraordinary women had the honour of a funeral oration. But that avails little: their virtues were preserved by Tacitus. Two lines of that author are of more weight with posterity than all the panegyrics that ever were pronounced.
I do not mean to speak of all the celebrated women of the empire; but Oppian, Herodian, Philostratus, and Dion, take notice of a woman possessed of a character, and a species of merit so very different from any of those that I have had [Page 49]occasion to mention, as to claim my particular attention. It is the empress Julia, the wife of Septimus Severus: born in Syria, and the daughter of a priest of the Sun, it was predicted, that she should rise to sovereign dignity. Her character justified the prophecy.
Julia, while on the throne, loved, or pretended passionately to love letters. Be it taste, be it a desire of knowledge, be it a desire of reputation — be it all these, or be it what it may that induced her, she spent her life with philosophers. Her rank of empress would not perhaps have been sufficient to subdue those bold spirits; but she joined to that the more powerful influences of wit and beauty. These three kinds of empire rendered less necessary to her that which consists only in art; and which, attentive to their tastes and their weaknesses, governs great minds by little means. It is said that she was a philosopher. Her philosophy however did not extend so far as to give chastity to her manners. Her husband, who did not love her, valued her understanding [Page 50]so much that he consulted her upon all occasions. She governed in the same manner under his son. To conclude her character, empress and minister of state, occupied at the same time about literature and politics, and mingling her pleasures freely with both, having courtiers for her loyers, scholars for her friends, and philosophers for her counsellors, in the middle of a society where she reigned and was instructed, Julia arrived at the highest celebrity; but, as among all her excellencies we find not those of her sex, the virtues of a woman, our admiration is lost in blame. In her lifetime she obtained more praise than respect; and posterity, while is has done justice to her talents and her accomplishments, has agreed to deny her esteem.
After this extraordinary woman, we find Julia Mammaea, of the same family, and who was likewise an empress, or at least mother to an emperor. Her merit was to have united genius and valour; but, above all, to have educated for the throne, her son, the young Alexander [Page 51]Severus, nearly in the same manner as Fenelon afterwards educated the duke of Burgundy. She made him at once virtuous and intelligent.
In following the course of history, the illustrious Zenobia, though not of Roman extraction, presents herself to view—A princess no less worthy, than happy, to have had Longinus for her preceptor; who knew as well to write as to conquer; who was afterward unfortunate with dignity; and who consoled herself for the loss of a throne, and the pleasures of grandeur, with the sweets of solitude, and the joys of reason.
All these women received high encomiums from the writers of their age;— which have since served to swell the size of all the panegyrics of celebrated women.
We have still remaining two panegyrics on empresses: one is the panegyric of Eusebia, the wife of Constance. She was the protectress of Julian. It was she [Page 52]likewise who raised him to the imperial throne; and, by that secret charm which wit and beauty have over even tyrants themselves, she often prevented the political cruelties of a prince, who was always ready to assassinate those whom he feared. Julian, who owed to her, life and empire, composed her panegyric, His gratitude has not made him eloquent.
The other panegyric is written by Lucian: it is in dialogue, and in the form of a portrait. We do not know precisely whom it is designed for; but the commentators, who are always in confidence of such secrets, have not failed to tell us that it is the panegyric of an empress. Be that as it may, we may venture to a affirm, that it is the original of forty or fifty thousand portraits of heroines or of princesses, which, four hundred years after, had been made in France, in Italy, or in Spain, by the orators, historians, poets, and romancewriters of those times, who frequently bestow on one woman all the perfections of the sex.
[Page 53] It is the first trace which we find among the ancients of that light spirit of gallantry, which is so fashionable among the moderns; and which consists in saying to women, with a warm tongue and a cold heart, all that we do not believe, and all that we would have them to believe. This rant, which is the offspring of insensibility and affectation, and which joins bombast to falsehood, owes its birth to Lucian; and must have proceeded from the corruption of the manners of the empire, from the levity natural to the Greeks of his time, and from some peculiarity in his own character. The head may declaim, but the heart only knows how to praise.
SECTION IV. Of the Effects of Christianity on the Manners of WOMEN.
WE have already seen, that the revolution in the government of Rome, was followed by a change in the manners; but, towards the third century, [Page 54]they underwent a new and more remarkable change.
Hitherto the manners of the women had been only founded on morality, and had no connection with religious ideas. The manners had been united to the policy of some countries; but the laws had traced different lines, according to the different plans of legislation, for the commencement and termination of the virtues of women.
The dances, and the dress of the Spartan virgins, are well known. According to Montesquieu, Lycurgus had murdered modesty, and chastity itself.
At Rome, women had been seen to dance publicly on the stage, without the slightest veil between their nakedness and the eyes of the people: and, if Cato retired from such a spectacle, the magistrates and the priests there attended.
The arts of painting and sculpture, which chiefly delighted in imitating nature [Page 55]simple and unattired, contributed farther to seduce the imagination by means of the senses.
Philosophy had no fixed principles for women. Sometimes it combated, and would have extinguished in them, that sweet sentiment which is at once the safeguard and the charm of their sex *; sometimes it taught that the tender union, which supposes a perpetual contract of hearts, was only the tie of a moment, destroyed by the moment that followed †.
Religion itself was only a kind of sacred policy, which had rather ceremonies than precepts. The ancients honoured their gods, as we honour our great men: they offered them incense, and expected their protection in exchange. The gods were their guardians, not their legislators.
[Page 56] Christianity, which now began to spread itself over the earth, was a legislation. It imposed the most severe laws upon women, and upon manners. It strengthened the marriage knot. To the political, it added a sacred tie; and, ratified between the bench and the altar, placed the matrimonial engagements under the jurisdiction of Heaven.
Not satisfied with regulating the actions, Christianity extended its empire even to the thoughts. Above all it combated the senses. It waged war even with such inanimate objects as might be the accomplices of seduction, or were the means of delight. In a word, rousing vice in her secret cell, it made her become her own tormentor, and condemned all the guilty to blush, by a forced confession of their weaknesses.
The legislation of the Greeks and Romans referred the motive of every action to the political interest of society; but the new and sacred legislation, inspiring only contempt for this world, referred all [Page 57]things to a future and very different state of existence. Hence sprung the idea of an unknown perfection.
The detachment of the senses, the reign of the soul, and an inexpressibly sublime and supernatural something, which blended itself with both, became the doctrine of a body of people. Hence the vow of continence, and the consecration of celibacy.
Life was a combat. The sanctity of the manners threw a veil over nature and over society. Beauty was afraid to please; valour dropt his spear; the passions were taught to submit; and the severity of the soul increased every day by the sacrifices of the senses.
The women, who generally possess a lively imagination and a warm heart, devoted themselves to virtues which were as flattering as they were difficult, which were no less elevated than austere. It is almost a matter of indifference to happiness, whether high passions are to be gratified [Page 58]or subdued. The soul is pleased with its efforts; and, provided it is exerted, it signifies little though its activity should be turned against itself.
The disciples of Christianity were farther taught to love and comfort one another, like children of the same family. In consequence of this doctrine, the more virtuous as much as the more tender sex, converting to pity the sensibility of nature, — the use and abuse of which religion taught them equally to fear, — devoted their lives to the service of indigence and distress. Delicacy learned to overcome disgust; and the tears of beauty were seen to flow in the huts of misery, and in the cells of disease, with the friendly sympathy of a sister.
The persecutions which arose in the empire soon after the introduction of Christianity, afforded that religion a new opportunity of discovering its efficacy. To preserve the faith, it was often necessary to suffer imprisonment, banishment, and death. Courage then became necessary.
[Page 59] There is a deliberate courage, which is the result of reason, and which is equally bold and calm: It is the courage of philosophers and of heroes. There is a courage which springs from the imagination, which is ardent and precipitant; and such is most commonly the courage of martyrs, or the religious courage.
The courage of the Christian women was founded upon the noblest motives. Animated by the glorious hope of immortality, they embraced flames and gibbets, and offered their delicate and feeble bodies to the most excruciating tortures.
This revolution in the ideas and in the manners, was followed by another in the writings. Such as made women their subject, became as austere and seraphic as they.
Almost all the doctors of those times, to whom the church has assigned the compound title of saints and of orators, commend to admiration the Christian women. But he who speaks of them with most eloquence, [Page 60]and with most zeal, is Saint Jerom; who, born with a soul of fire, spent twenty-four years in writing, in combating, and in conquering himself.
The manners of this saint were probably more severe than his thoughts. He had a number of illustrious women at Rome among his disciples. But, though surrounded with beauty, he escaped weakness, without escaping slander; and, flying the world, the women and himself, he retired to Palestine; where all which he had quitted pursued him still, tormented him under the penitential sackcloth, and, in the middle of solitary deserts, reechoed in his ears the tumult of Rome.
Such was Saint Jerom, the most eloquent panegyrist of the Christian women of the fourth century. That warm and pious writer, though generally harsh and obscure, softens his style in a thousand places to praise the Marcellas, the Paulas, the Eustochiums, and many other Roman women, who at the Capitol had embraced Christianity, and studied in Rome [Page 61]the language of the Hebrews, to read and understand the books of Moses.
When the Roman empire, like some venerable column, was pushed from its base, and broke in pieces by the myriads of the North, Christianity passed from the conquered to the conquerors, and almost entirely by the zeal of the women; who, at the same time, diffused the Gospel, and softened the manners of savages.
It is observed, that the Christian women have, in all ages, been more anxious of making proselites than the men. Whether it be that their weakness takes advantage of the sacred opinions, which are the greatest support to the soul; that their imagination, more lively, is more strongly inflamed by objects which are above nature, and sometimes even above reason; that the religious principles of men are more connected with reflection, and those of women with sentiment; — for the one, we know, has much more activity than the other; — that they look upon Christianity, which reduces all conditions [Page 62]to a level, as a necessary defence for them, and a counterpoise to weakness against force; that, in short, their natural desire of sway, which is supposed to have no bounds, would perhaps exercise its dominion over that which is most free, over the mind itself — or whatever be their motive, the world has been obliged to their ardour.
It was women who, making the charms of their sex subservient to religion — who, raised to thrones by their beauty, drew over their husbands to their opinions, and spread Christianity over the greater part of Europe. It was by their means that France, England, a part of Germany, Bavaria, Hungary, Bohemia, Lithuania, Poland, Russia, and, for some time, that Persia received the gospel. By the same influence, Lombardy and Spain renounced the opinions of Arius.
I shall not here repeat the names of those princesses. They are inscribed in the barbarous annals of the times, and [Page 63]have since been repeated by a number of panegyrists. It is sufficient for me to have pointed out the species of merit for which they were distinguished, and on what the eulogies dwell, which they received in their life-time, or which have been paid them by posterity.
ESSAY ON THE CHARACTER, MANNERS, and GENIUS OF WOMEN. PART II. Of the WOMEN OF MODERN NATIONS.
SECTION I. Of the Inundation of the Barbarians, and the Effects of Chivalry on the Character and the Manners of WOMEN.
HISTORY does not afford so singular a revolution in policy and manners, as that which followed the subversion of the Roman empire.
[Page 65] It is to the Barbarians who spread conflagration and ruin, who trampled on the monuments of art, and spurned the appendages of elegance and pleasure, that we owe the bewitching spirit of gallantry, which, in these ages of refinement, reigns in the courts of Europe: and that system, which has made it a principle of honour among us to consider the women as sovereigns, which has partly formed our customs, our manners, our policy, and which has so remarkably influenced our writings and our languages— that system, which has exalted the human character by softening the empire of force, which mingles politeness with the use of the sword, which delights in protecting the weak, and in conferring that importance which nature or fortune have denied, was brought hither from the frozen shores of the Baltic, and from the savage forests of the North.
The northern nations in general paid great respect to women. Continually employed in hunting or in war, they condescended only to soften their ferocity [Page 66]in the presence of the fair. Their forests were the nurseries of chivalry. Beauty was there the reward of valour. A warrior, to render himself worthy of his mistress, went in search of glory and of danger. Jealousy produced challenges. Single combats, instituted by love, often stained with blood the woods and the borders of the lakes; and the sword ascertained the rights of Venus as well as of Mars.
Let us not be surprised at these manners. Among men who have made few advances in civilization, but who are already united in large bodies, women have naturally, and must have, the greatest sway. Society is then sufficiently cultivated to have introduced the ideas of preference and of choice in the connexion between the sexes, — which seem to be little regarded, if at all known, among savages: it is too rude to partake of that state of effeminacy, in which the senses are enfeebled, and the affections worn out by habit. People but little removed from barbarism, in the perfection [Page 67]of their animal powers, and ignorant of all those artificial pleasures created by the wants of polished life, feel more exquisitely the pleasures of nature, and the genuine emotions of man. They mingle even with their love a kind of adoration to the female sex.
Several of the northern nations imagined, that women could look into futurity, and that they had about them an inconceivable something approaching to divinity. Perhaps that idea was only the effect of the sagacity common to the sex: and the advantage which their natural address gave them over rough and simple warriors; perhaps also those barbarians, surprised at the influence which beauty has over force, were lead to ascribe to supernatural attraction, a charm which they could not comprehend.
A belief, however, that the Deity communicates himself more readily to women, has at one time or other prevailed in every quarter of the earth. Not only the Germans, the Britons, and all [Page 68]the people of Scandinavia were possessed of it: it was women among the Greeks who delivered the oracles. The respect which the Romans paid to the Sibyls is well known. The Jews had their prophetesses. The predictions of the Egyptian women obtained much credit at Rome, even under the emperors. And in most barbarous nations, all things that have the appearance of being supernatural, the mysteries of religion, the secrets of physic, and the rites of magic, are in the possession of the women.
The barbarians, who over-ran Europe, carried their opinions along with their arms. A revolution, in the manner of living, must therefore soon have taken place. The climates of the North required little reserve between the sexes; and during the invasions from that quarter, which continued for three or four hundred years, it was common to see women mixed with warriors. Hence that sweet and timid modesty, which has generally been considered as essential to [Page 69]beauty, by being unveiled to every eye, ceased to be regarded as a virtue.
Among the ancients, the retirement of women was a long time a part of the constitution of the state; because the government and the laws rested upon the manners. In modern Europe, the barbarians having every where concerted military establishments, paid little attention to the manners: they rested all things upon force.
By mingling with a corrupted people, who had all the vices of former prosperity along with those of present adversity, the conquerors were not likely to imbibe more severe ideas. Hence we see those sons of the North, in softer climates, uniting the vices of resinement to the stateliness of the warrior, and the pride of the barbarian.
They embraced Christianity: but it rather modified than changed their character. It mingled itself with their customs, [Page 70]without altering the genius of the people.
Thus, by degrees, were laid the foundations of new manners, which in modern Europe have brought the two sexes more on a level, by assigning to the women a kind of sovereignty, and associating love with valour.
Nearly about the time that this revolution took place in the West, a circumstance pretty remarkable, a religion, * and a people, arose, that established and consecrated in the East, the domestic servitude of women: so that the same era which gave birth to the empire of beauty in Europe, doomed the lovely sex to be eternal slaves in Asia. Their slavery extended with the arms of the conquering Arabs, and their dominion and the gallantry of the North accompanied the victories of the savage, but generous inhabitants of the pole.
[Page 71] The reign of chivalry already commenced, began to advance over Europe. That civil and military institution took its rise from a train of circumstances, and the native bent of the new inhabitants. Its true era was the fourteenth century.
Shattered by the fall of the empire, Europe had not yet arrived at any degree of consistency. After five hundred years, nothing was fixed; nothing, if I may use the phrase, was moulded together. From the mixture of Christianity with the ancient customs of the barbarians, sprung a continual discord in the manners; from the mixture of the rights of the priesthood with those of the empire, sprung a discord in laws and politics; from the mixture of the rights of sovereigns with those of the nobility, sprung a discord in government; and, from the mixture of Arabians and Christians, sprung a discord in religions. Anarchy and confusion were the result of so many contrasts.
[Page 72] Christianity, which had now lost much of its original influence, like a feeble curb, was still sufficient to restrain the weak passions, but was no longer able to bridle the strong. It produced remorse, but could not prevent guilt.
The people of those times made pilgrimages, and they pillaged: they massacred, and they afterwards did pennance. Robbery and debauchery were blended with superstition.
It was in this era that the nobility, idle and warlike, from a sentiment of natural equity, and that uneasiness which follows the perpetration of violence— from the double motive of religion and of heroism, associated themselves to effect in a body what government had neglected, or but poorly executed. Their object was to combat the Moors in Spain, the Saracens in Asia, the tyrants of the castles and strong holds in Germany, and in France; to assure the safety of travellers, as Hercules and Theseus did [Page 73]of old; and, above all things, to defend the honour and protect the rights of the feeble sex, against the too frequent villany and oppression of the strong.
A noble spirit of gallantry soon mingled itself with that institution. Every knight, in devoting himself to danger, listed himself under some lady as his sovereign. It was for her that he attacked, for her that he defended, for her that he mounted the walls of cities and of castles—and for her honour that he shed his blood.
Europe was only one large field of battle, where warriors clad in armour, and adorned with ribbands and with the cyphers of their mistresses, engaged in close fight to merit the favour of beauty.
Fidelity was then associated with courage, and love was inseparably connected with honour.
The women, proud of their sway, and of receiving it from the hands of virtue, [Page 74]became worthy of the great actions of their lovers, and reciprocated passions as noble as those they inspired. An ungenerous choice debased them. The tender sentiment was never felt but when united with glory; and the manners breathed an inexpressible something of pride, heroism, and tenderness, which was altogether astonishing.
Beauty perhaps never exercised so sweet, or so powerful an empire over the heart. Hence those constant passions which our levity cannot comprehend, and which our manners, our little weaknesses, our perpetual thirst of hopes and desires, our listless anxiety that torments us, and which tires itself in the pursuit of emotion without pleasure, and of impulse without aim, lead us to reject, are turned every day into ridicule on our theatres, in our conversations, and in our lives.
But it is nevertheless true, that those passions, fostered by years and roused by obstacles, where respect kept hope at a [Page 75]distance, where love, fed only by sacrifices, sacrificed itself unceasingly to honour, reinvigorated the characters and the souls of the two sexes; gave more energy to the one, and more elevation to the other; changed men into heroes, and inspired the women with a pride—which was by no means hurtful to virtue.
The foregoing account of the origin and progress of chivalry, seems naturally to arise out of the history of the times, and is founded upon the authority of the best early writers. But there are two late writers, of so high, and such justly merited reputation, that it would be an injury to the public to omit their opinion, and a crime against genius, to alter their expression: they shall therefore speak for themselves, for the women, and for us; —for their sentiments seem only to corroborate ours.
‘The system of chivalry, when completely formed,’ says professor Ferguson, 'proceeded on a marvellous respect and veneration to the fair sex, on forms [Page 76]of combat established, and on a supposed junction of the heroic and sanctified character. The formalities of the duel, and a kind of judicial challenge, were known among the ancient Celtic nations of Europe. The Germans, even in their native forests, paid a kind of devotion to the female sex. The Christian religion enjoined meekness and compassion to barbarous ages. These different principles combined together, may have served as the foundation of a system, in which courage was directed by religion and love, and the warlike and gentle were united together. When the characters of the hero and the saint were mixed, the mild spirit of Christianity, though often turned into venom by the bigotry of opposite parties, though it could not always subdue the ferocity of the warrior, nor suppress the admiration of courage and force, may have confirmed the apprehensions of men in what was to be held meritorious and splendid in the conduct of their quarrels.
[Page 77] The feudal establishments, by the high rank to which they elevated certain families, no doubt greatly favoured this romantic system. Not only the lustre of a noble descent, but the stately castle beset with battlements and towers, served to inflame the imagination, and to create a veneration for the daughter and the sister of gallant chiefs, whose point of honour it was to be inaccessible and chaste, and who could perceive no merit but that of the high-minded and the brave, nor be approached in any other accents than those of gentleness and respect. *.
From the prevailing spirit of the times, says professor Millar, the art of war became the study of every one who was desirous of maintaining the character of a gentleman. The youth were early initiated in the profession of arms, and served a sort of apprenticeship under persons of rank and experience. [Page 78]The young squire became in reality the servant of that leader to whom he had attached himself, and whose virtues were set before him as a model which he proposed to imitate. He was taught to perform with ease and dexterity those exercises which were either ornamental or useful, and at the same time he endeavoured to acquire those talents and accomplishments which were thought suitable to his profession. He was taught to look upon it as his duty to check the insolent, to restrain the oppressor, to protect the weak and defenceless; to behave with frankness and humanity even to an enemy, with modesty and politeness to all. According to the prosiciency which he had made, he was proportionably advanced in rank and character, and was honoured with now titles and marks of distinction, till at length he arrived at the dignity of knighthood; a dignity which even the greatest potentates were ambitious of acquiring, as it was supposed to distinguish a person who had obtained the [Page 79]most complete military education, and who had attained to a high degree of eminence in those particular qualities which were then universally admired and respected.
The situation of mankind in those periods had also a manifest tendency to heighten and improve the passion between the sexes. It was not to be expected that those opulent chiefs, who were so often at variance, and who maintained a constant opposition to each other, would allow any sort of familiarity to take place between the members of their respective families. Retired in their own castles, and surrounded by their numerous vassals, they looked upon their neighbours either as inferior to them in rank, or as enemies, against whom they were obliged to be constantly upon their guard. They behaved to each other with that ceremonious civility which the laws of chivalry required; but at the same time with that reserve and caution which a regard to their own [Page 80]safety made it necessary for them to observe. The young knight as he marched to the tournament saw at a distance the daughter of the chieftan by whom the show was exhibited; and it was even with difficulty that he could obtain access to her, in order to declare the sentiments with which she had inspired him. He was entertained by her relations with that cold respect which demonstrated their unwillingness to contract an alliance with him. The lady herself was taught to assume the pride of her family, and to think that no person was worthy of her affection who did not possess the most exalted rank and character. To have given way to a sudden inclination would have disgraced her for ever in the opinion of all her kindred; and it was only by a long course of attention, and of the most respectful service, that the lover could hope for any favour from his mistress.
The barbarous state of the country at that time, and the injuries to which [Page 81]the inhabitants, especially those of the weaker sex, were frequently exposed, gave ample scope for the display of military talents; and the knight who had nothing to do at home was encouraged to wander from place to place, and from one court to another, in quest of adventures; in which he endeavoured to advance his reputation in arms, and to recommend himself to the fair, of whom he was enamoured, by fighting with every person who was so inconsiderate as to dispute her unrivalled beauty, virtue, or personal accomplishments. Thus, while his thoughts were constantly fixed upon the same object, and while his imagination, inflamed by absence and repeated disappointments, was employed in heightening all those charms by which his desires were continually excited, his passion was at length wrought up to the highest pitch; and uniting with the love of fame, became the ruling and governing principle of his conduct, and gave a particular turn and direction to all his sentiments and opinions.
[Page 82] As there were many persons in the same situation, so they were naturally inspired with similar sentiments. Rivals to one another in military glory, they were often competitors, as Milton expresseth it, 'to win her grace whom all commend;' and the same emulation which disposed them to aim at preeminence in the one respect, excited them with no less eagerness to dispute the preference in the other. Their dispositions and manner of thinking became fashionable, and were gradually diffused by the force of education and example. To be in love was looked upon as one of the necessary qualifications of a knight; and he was no less ambitious of shewing his constancy and fidelity to his mistress, than of displaying his military virtues. He assumed the title of her slave or servant. By this he distinguished himself in every combat in which he was engaged; and his success was supposed to redound to her honour, not less than to his own. If she had bestowed upon him a present to be worn in the field of battle in [Page 83]token of her regard, it was considered as a sure pledge of victory, and as laying upon him the strongest obligation to act in such a manner as would render him worthy of the favour which he had received *.
The sincere and faithful passion, the distant sentimental attachment, which commonly occupied the heart of every warrior, and which he professed upon all occasions, was naturally productive of the utmost purity of manners, and of great respect and veneration for the female sex. Persons who made a point of defending the reputation and dignity of that particular lady to whom they were devoted, became thereby extremely cautious and delicate; lest, by any insinuation whatever, they should hurt the character of another, and be exposed to the just censure and resentment of those by whom she was protected. A woman who deviated so far [Page 84]from the established maxims of the age as to violate the laws of chastity, was indeed deserted by every body, and was therefore universally contemned and insulted. But those who adhered to the strict rules of virtue, and maintained an unblemished reputation, were treated like beings of a superior order *.
Such was the spirit of chivalry. It gave birth to an incredible number of performances in honour and in praise of women. The verses of the bards, the Italian sonnet, the plaintive romance, the poems of chivalry, the Spanish and French romances †, were so many monuments [Page 85]of that kind, composed in the time of a noble barbarism, and of a heroism in which the great and the ridiculous were often blended.
In the courts, in the fields of battle or of tournament, every thing breathed of women:— and the same taste prevailed in letters. One did not write, one did not think, but for them. The same man was often both poet and warrior; he sung to his lyre, and encountered with his lance, by turns, for the beauty that he adored.
The times, and the manners of chivalry, [Page 86]by bringing great enterprises, bold adventures, and I know not what of extravagant heroism into fashion, inspired the women with the same taste. The two sexes always imitate each other; their manners and their minds are refined or corrupted, invigorated or dissolved together.
The women, in consequence of the prevailing passion, were now seen in the middle of camps and of armies: they quitted the soft and tender inclinations, and the delicate offices of their own sex, for the courage and the toilsome occupations of ours. During the crusades, animated by the double enthusiasm of religion and of valour, they often performed the most romantic exploits; obtained indulgencies on the field of battle, and died with arms in their hands, by the side of their lovers or of their husbands.
In Europe, the women attacked and defended fortifications; princesses commanded their armies, and obtained victories. Such was the celebrated Joan de [Page 87]Mountfort, disputing for her duchy of Bretagne, and fighting herself. Such was that still more celebrated Margaret of Anjou *, active and intrepid, general and soldier, whose genius supported a long time a feeble husband; which taught him to conquer; which replaced him upon the throne; which twice relieved him from prison; and, oppressed by fortune and by rebels, which did not bend, till after she had decided in person twelve battles.
The warlike spirit among the women, consistent with ages of barbarism, when every thing is impetuous, because nothing is fixed, and when all excess is the excess of force, continued in Europe upwards of four hundred years, shewing itself from time to time, and always in the middle of convulsions, or on the eve of great revolutions.
But there were eras and countries in which that spirit appeared with particular [Page 88]lustre. Such were the displays it made in the fifteenth and sixteenth centuries in Hungary, and in the islands of the Archipelago and the Mediterranean, when they were invaded by the Turks.
Every thing conspired to animate the women of those countries with an exalted courage:— the prevailing spirit of the foregoing ages; the terror which the name of the Turks inspired; the still more dreadful apprehensions of an unknown enemy; the difference of dress, which has a stronger effect than is commonly supposed on the imagination of a people; the difference of religion, which produced a kind of sacred horrour; the striking difference of manners; and, above all, the confinement of the female sex; which, though in the East considered only as a civil and political institution, presented to the women of Europe nothing but the frightful ideas of servitude and of a master— the groans of honour, the tears of beauty in the embrace of barbarism, and the double tyranny of love and pride!
[Page 89] The contemplation of these objects accordingly roused in the hearts of the women a resolute courage to defend themselves, nay sometimes even a courage of enthusiasm, which hurled itself against the enemy; and that courage was augmented, by the promises of a religion, which offered eternal happiness in exchange for the sufferings of a moment.
It is not therefore surprising, that when three beautiful women of the Isle of Cyprus were led prisoners to Selim, to be secluded in the seraglio, one of them preferring death to such a condition, conceived the project of setting fire to the magazine; and, after having communicated her design to the rest, put it in execution; — that the year following, a city of Cyprus being besieged by the Turks, the women ran in crowds, mingled themselves with the soldiers, and, fighting gallantly in the breach, were the means of saving their country; — that, under Mahomet II. a girl of the isle of Lemnos, armed with the sword and shield of her father, who had fallen in [Page 90]battle, opposed the Turks, when they had forced a gate, and chased them to the shore; — that, in Hungary, the women distinguished themselves miraculously in a number of sieges and battles against the Turks *; — that, in the two celebrated sieges of Rhodes and Malta, the women seconding the zeal of the knights, discovered upon all occasions the greatest intrepidity: not only that impetuous and temporary impulse which despises death, but that cool and deliberate fortitude which can support the continued hardships, the toils, and the miseries of war.
That era, and these multiplied examples of courage among the women merit our most serious attention: but only to consider the revolutions of history, to observe, in the islands of the Archipelago, the descendants of the illustrious Greeks, after a revolution of fifteen hundred years, became Christians, and subjects of the republic of Venice, defending their cities and their coasts against the ravages [Page 91]of the conquering Tartars, who carried to the countries of Homer and Plato the religion of an Arabian prophet, is an interesting spectacle, and teems with reflections of every kind.
The Hungarian women, in their encounters with the same Tartars, do not present us with a spectacle less singular. We cannot doubt that it was the double motive of religion and honour, which exalted their courage to such a height: for these are the two principles which in all ages have given birth to the great actions of women.
SECTION II. Of the Revival of Letters, and the Learning of WOMEN.
WHILE war reigned in Greece, in Hungary, and in the islands of the Mediterranean, which seemed only so many theatres for the illustrious actions of women, another revolution took place in Italy: — the revival of arts and [Page 92]of letters. That era gave a new direction to the ideas and occupations of the female sex. A general thirst after knowledge turned all the world to the study of languages.
There is a time when the symbols of ideas are taken for ideas themselves. We hope to instruct ourselves by learning words, as some projectors have hoped to enrich themselves by exploring mines. Languages are otherwise so many chains of enigmas, where ideas are hid, and never could provoke our assiduity. Before the exercise of thought, we would know the history of the thoughts of others. This process is perhaps even necessary. In the infancy of life, the senses collect the materials of thinking; in the infancy of letters, the mind treasures up words, to combine them afterwards. In both cases, it is the memory that gives activity to the rest of the intellectual powers.
As words lead to ideas, the ancient philosophy revived with the languages. [Page 93]Persons of austere minds and obtuse feelings, those who looked upon cold reason to be right reason, who set most value upon a certain logic that restrains, a subtilty that divides, and a vague obscurity which exercises the understanding, and leaves it the merit of determining for itself, and of fixing its ideas, made choice of the philosophy of Aristotle: But people of sensibility and fancy, those who could pardon errors for eloquence, who preferred a sublime and seraphic system of metaphysics to a dry logic, and elegant allusions to sylogistic quibbles; those, in short, who had souls upon which ideas, even chimerically refined, of perfection, of order, and of beauty, made a deep and lively impression, devoted themselves to the philosophy of Plato.
The philosophy of Aristotle occupied the universities and the cloisters; the poets, the lovers, the sentimental philosophers, and the ladies, were the disciples of Plato.
[Page 94] Theology, or the art of applying human reasonings to celestial matters, was another kind of knowledge which then employed and engaged the mind: it was fashionable, and it was necessary that it should be so. It was a magazine for the wars of religion, a support for the court of Rome, and a sure road to honour and preferment. A high value was therefore put on that science; and the descendants of the ancient Romans became celebrated by their religious studies, in the country where their ancestors had been so much renowned by their victories.
After the times of conspiracy, of tyranny, and of domestic broils, law and order must have been highly prized. Jurisprudence was therefore cultivated. They had not sufficient knowledge to become legislators; but they studied, they explained, they altered, and they disfigured the Roman laws.
Chivalry now began to decline in Europe: but it left behind it a tincture of romantic gallantry in the manners, which [Page 95]communicated itself to the works of imagination.
Many verses were then written, expressive of passions either real or feigned, but always respectful and tender: and as in France, where the dissipated nobility spent their life in war, love was generally painted under the idea of a conquest; in Italy, where another set of ideas prevailed, it was always represented as an adoration or worship.
This confusion of religion and gallantry, of Platonism and poetry, of the study of the languages and of the laws, of the ancient philosophy and the modern theology, formed the general character of the most illustrious men of those times. The same observation may be extended to the most celebrated women.
Never were the women so universally distinguished for profound learning, as in this period. Perhaps as it followed the ages of chivalry, when several women had disputed with men the prize of [Page 96]valour, willing to establish the equality of their sex in all things, they were ambitious to prove that they had as much genius as courage; and to subject, even by their talents, those over whom they reigned by their beauty.
What strikes us most remarkably in that era is, the general spirit. We see women preach, and unwind controversy; women publicly support theses; women fill the chairs of philosophy and of law; women harrangue in Latin before the popes; women write in Greek, and read Hebrew; nuns, poetesses; women of quality, divines; and (which happened more than once) young girls perfected in eloquence, with the sweetest features and the softest voice, pathetically exhorting the Holy Father and the Christian princes to declare war against the Turks.
The religious spirit which has animated women in all ages showed itself at this time, but it changed its form. It had made them, by turns, martyrs, apostles, [Page 97]warriors, and concluded with making them divines and scholars.
An incredible value was still set on the study of languages. In private families, in the cloisters, in the courts, and even on the thrones the same taste reigned. It was but a poor qualification for a woman to read Virgil and Cicero. The mouth of a young Italian, Spanish, or British lady, seemed adorned with a particular grace, when she repeated some Hebrew phrase, or thundered out some verses of Homer.
Poetry, so dear to the imagination, and to susceptible hearts, was embraced with ardour by the women. It was a new and pleasing exertion of talents, which slattered self-love, and amused the mind. Perhaps too that want which they must have experienced, spite of themselves, and even without knowing it, in a subtile philosophy, an abstract theology, and an empty study of dialects and of sounds, would make them more sensible to the charms of an art, which [Page 98]continually feeds the imagination with its images, and the heart with its sentiments.
I shall particularize a few of the women, who were most celebrated for their learning and talents in that period. It would be easy to double the list.
In the thirteenth century, a young lady of Bologna, devoted herself to the study of the Latin language, and of the laws. At the age of twenty-three, she pronounced a funeral oration in Latin in the great church of Bologna; and, to be admired as an orator, she had neither need of indulgence on account of her youth nor of her sex. At the age of twenty-six she took the degree of a doctor of laws, and began publicly to expound the Institutions of Justinian. At the age of thirty, her great reputation raised her to a chair, where she taught the law to a prodigious concourse of scholars from all nations. She joined the charms and accomplishments of a woman to all the knowledge of a man. But such was the [Page 99]power of her eloquence, that her beauty was only admired when her tongue was silent.
In the fourteenth century, a like example was exhibited in that city. In the fifteenth century, the same prodigy renewed itself there a third time:— and I cannot help here remarking, that even at this day, in the city of Bologna, there is still a learned chair silled with honour by a woman.
At Venice, in the course of the fourteenth century, two celebrated women attract our notice, the one (Modesta di Pozzo di Zorzi) composed successfully a great number of pieces in verse, serious, comic, heroic, and tender; and some pastorals, which were much admired: The other, (Cassandra Fidele) who was one of the most learned women of Italy, wrote equally well the three languages of Homer, Virgil, and Dante, and in verse as well as in prose. She possessed all the philosophy of her own, and of the preceding ages; she embellished with graces [Page 100]theology itself; she supported theses with the greatest lustre; she gave public lectures at Padua; she joined to her serious studies the elegant arts, particularly music, and softened her learning still farther by her manners. She received homage from sovereign pontiffs and sovereign princes; and, that she might be singular in all things, she lived upwards of a century.
At Milan a lady of the illustrious house of Trivulzio, early in life, delivered a great number of elegant discourses before popes and potentates, in the ancient language of the Romans.
At Verona, in the fifteenth century, Issotta Nogarolla, acquired so great a reputation by her eloquence that kings were curious to listen, and scholars to attend, to hear, and to see.
At Florence, a nun of the house of Strozzi dispelled the languor and indolence of the cloister by her taste for letters; [Page 101]and, in her solitude, was known over Italy, Germany, and France.
At Naples, Sarrochia composed a celebrated poem upon Scanderbeg; and, in her life-time, was compared to Boyardo and to Tasso.
At Rome, we find Victoria Colonna, marchioness of Pescaira, who passionately loved and successfully cultivated letters; and who, left in youth to mourn a great and gallant husband, spent the rest of her life in study, and in sorrow, celebrating in her tender verses her long lost hero.
In Spain we see Isabella of Rosera, preach in the great church of Barcelona, come to Rome under Paul III. there convert the Jews by her eloquence, and comment upon the learned Scotus, with applause, before the cardinals and archbishops; — Isabella of Cardoua, who understood the Latin, the Greek, and the Hebrew, and who, though possessed of beauty, reputation, and riches, had still [Page 102]the whim of becoming a doctor, and took degrees in divinity; — Catharine Ribera, who composed a great many Spanish verses, partly devotional and partly amorous; — Aloysia Sigea of Toledo, still more celebrated than the three former, who, besides Latin, Greek, and Hebrew, understood Arabic and Syriac; who wrote a letter in these five languages to pope Paul III. who was afterwards called to the court of Portugal, where she composed several pieces, and died young.
In France we see several women possessed of all the learning of the times, particularly the duchess of Retz, who under Charles IX. was celebrated even in Italy, and who astonished the Polish nobility when they came to demand the duke of Anjou for their king. They beheld with wonder, at court, a young lady so intelligent, and who spoke the ancient languages with no less purity than grace.
[Page 103] In England we meet with the three Seymours, sisters, nieces to a king, and daughters to a protector, all celebrated for their learning, and for their elegant Latin verses, which were translated and repeated all over Europe; — Jane Gray, whose elevation to the throne was only a step to the scaffold, and who read before her death, in Greek, Plato's Dialogue on the Immortality of the Soul; — nor can we pass by the eldest daughter of the illustrious chancellor, Sir Thomas More, whose learning was almost eclipsed by her virtues; who corresponded in Latin with the great Erasmus, who styled her the ornament of Britain; and who, after she had consoled her father in prison, had rushed through the guards to snatch a last embrace, had obtained the liberty of paying him funeral honours, had purchased his head with a bribe, — accused herself, and loaded with fetters for two crimes — for having watched the head of her father as a relique, and for having preserved his books and writings — appeared with unconcern before her judge; justified herself with that eloquence which [Page 104]virtue bestows on injured merit, commanding admiration and respect, and spent the remainder of her life in solitude, in sorrow, and in study.
We behold in Scotland Mary Stuart, heir of that crown, the most beautiful woman of her age, and one of the most learned, who could write and speak six languages; who made elegant verses in French; and who, when very young, delivered an oration in Latin to the court of France, to prove that the study of letters is consistent with the female character. So lovely, and so happy an example of the truth which she advanced, could not fail to convince. Mary added to her learning, a delicate taste in the polite arts, particularly music, and adorned the whole with the most feminine and courtly manners.
Several women were even desirous of uniting every species of learning, and some succeeded.
[Page 105] What has since been called SOCIETY was not then indeed so much known. Luxury, and the want of occupation, had not introduced the custom of sitting five or six hours before a glass, to invent fashions. Some use was made of time. Hence that variety of languages, arts, and sciences, which were acquired by women.
It is but just, however, to observe, that the vanity of being universal is peculiar to the infancy of letters. In childhood, all the world over-rate their powers. It is only by measuring them that we come to know them. The desires themselves were then more easily satisfied than the thirst of learning. People were more anxious to know than to think; and the mind, more active than extended, unable yet to comprehend the secret, or reach the depth of the sciences, ought naturally to have considered them as a sacred deposit in books, which the memory would necessarily impair.
SECTION III. Of the Books written in Honour of WOMEN, and on the Superiority of the Sexes.
IF the women of those ages were ambitious of arraying themselves in the knowledge of men, the men were at all times ready with their panegyrics to return the compliment to the women. It was the sequel of the general spirit, which carried gallantry into letters as it had introduced it into arms.
Italy in particular was over-run with performances of that kind. The first who gave the example was Boccace. He passionately loved and was beloved by the women; and composed in Latin a treatise in honour of the sex. It is intituled, OF ILLUSTRIOUS WOMEN. In search of these he wanders through the whole circuit of fable; through the Greek, Roman, and Sacred Histories; and places together Cleopatra and Lucretia, Flora [Page 107]and Portia, Semiramis and Sappho, Athalia and Dido.
Boccace undertook above all things to re-establish the reputation of Dido, in opposition to Virgil. The panegyrist proves against the poet, that the widow of Sichaeus was never unfaithful to his memory.
It is humorous to hear Boccace afterwards, in an eloquent and vigorous sequel to that treatise, harrangue against the Christian widows who married again. The author of the Decameron cites St. Paul, and explains the text of that Apostle to a young widow, who excused herself on account of her age for not imitating Dido. This piece, which affords so much pleasantry, is of a serious cast; and, what will scarcely be credited, the moral of Boccace is severe.
The example being now set, a multitude of writers published successively panegyrical catalogues of the illustrious women of all nations.
[Page 108] Joseph Betussi, translated into Italian the Latin treatise of Boccace; and, in the ardour of his zeal, he enriched it with fifty new articles. Francis Serdonati, thinking the work not yet complete, collected from historians, sacred and profane, barbarous and polished, the names of all the women of eminence which had been omitted, and added to the catalogue a hundred and twenty panegyrics.
But this was not all. Philip de Bergamo, an Augustine monk, published a volume in Latin OF ILLUSTRIOUS WoMEN. Another performance on the same subject was published by Julius Caesar Capacio, secretary to the city of Naples; — one by Charles Pinto, in Latin, and in verse; — one by Ludovico Domenichi; — one by James Philip Thomassini, bishop of Venice; — and one by Bernard Scardioni, a canon of Padua, OF THE ILLUSTRIOUS WOMEN OF PADUA.
Francis Augustine della Chiesa, bishop of Saluca, wrote a treatise on THE [Page 109]WOMEN FAMOUS IN LITERATURE; — Lewis Jacob de St. Charles, a Carmelite, wrote another on THE WOMEN ILLUSTRIOUS BY THEIR WRITINGS; and Alexander Van Denbusche, of the Low Countries, wrote one on THE LEARNED WOMEN.
The celebrated Father le Moine published a volume under the title of GALERIE DE FEMMES FORTES; and Brantome wrote THE LIVES OF ILLUSTRIOUS WOMEN. But it is to be observed that Brantome, a French knight and a courtier, speaks only of queens and princesses. It is in his writings that we find the panegyric of Catherine of Medicis, and of the famous Joan of Naples. In his prolix style, simple and plain, Brantome justifies the conduct of these two queens. He tells us that the second was without weakness, and the first free of guilt. He absolves the one of her incontinence, and the murder of her husband; and the other of the civil wars, and the massacre of St. Bartholomew.
[Page 110] After Brantome Hilario da Costa, a Minim, published two volumes in quarto, each volume consisting of eight hundred pages, containing, as he tells us, the panegyrics of ALL the women of the fifteenth and sixteenth centuries, distinguished by their valour, their talents, or their virtues. But the pious ecclesiastic has, in fact, only given us the panegyrics of the CATHOLIC women of that period. He does not say a word, for example, of queen Elizabeth; but he has made a long and elaborate eulogy on her sister queen Mary, who began her reign with shedding the blood of the amiable Jane Gray; and who, in the five years which she sat on the throne, devoted to the flames on account of religion between six and seven hundred persons, of all ranks, ages, and sexes.
The eulogies of this monkish panegyrist amount to a hundred and seventy. No small number. But all must yield to the indefatigable Italian, Peter Paul de Ribera, who published in his own language, a work intituled, ‘The immortal [Page 111]Triumphs and heroic Enterprises of Eight hundred and forty-five women.’ It would certainly be difficult to make a more complete collection.
Besides these large compilations dedicated to the honour of the whole sex, many of the writers of those times, men of taste and gallantry, addressed panegyrics to individuals, to women who were the living ornaments of their age. This practice was most common in Italy, where every thing conspired to favour it. The world perhaps had never seen, at one time, so many shining princesses as then appeared in that part of Europe. The courts of Naples, of Milan, of Mantua, of Parma, of Florence, and several others, formed so many schools of taste, between which reigned an emulation of glory and of talents. The men distinguished themselves by their address in war, or in love; the women, by their knowledge and accomplishments. Almost every one of these little courts was the residence of some man of high reputation in literature.
[Page 112] In a country, however extensive, which forms only one great kingdom, or state, men of genius are scarce; because there is only one capital, one court, and one centre of luminaries. The distant provinces have neither the same activity, nor the same taste. But in a country like Italy, divided into a number of states, and where almost every city is a capital; the mind gathers energy, and expands itself amazingly. This was certainly one cause of the superiority of the Italians to the rest of Europe. What was their misfortune in politics, was their glory in arts and in letters.
Those men of wit or genius attached themselves to the celebrated women, the ornaments of the courts where they resided. Some of them, estimating human conditions only by the mind, and conceiving talents to be equal to all things, had even the boldness to entertain the warmest passions for great princesses *. [Page 113]To them they addressed their glowing sentiments, in verse or in prose. Others, who had imagination without feeling, substituted for passion the sport of fancy; and, mingling with it the Platonic ideas which then prevailed, composed for those princesses, in a metaphysical style, respectful hymns under the notion of panegyrics.
But of all the panegyrics, or collections of panegyrics, in honour of women, in verse, in prose, in sermons, or in sonnets, the most singular, without exception, is that which was published at Venice, in 1555, under the title of ‘The Temple of the divine Seigniora Joan of Arragon; erected in honour of her by all the greatest wits, and in all the principal languages of the world.’ She was one of the most extraordinary women of the sixteenth century; and, married to a prince of the house of Colonna, was mother to Mark Anthony of Colonna, who signalized himself in the battle of Lepanto, against the Turks.
[Page 114] This ideal temple was erected in consequence of a decree passed at Venice, in the year 1551, in the academy of the DUBBIOSI. One of the members of that society had conceived the notion of such a deification; but the idea was too happy not to be adopted by the body. They had only one dispute, which divided them much; viz. whether Joan of Arragon should possess alone the honours of the temple, or if they should associate with that divinity the marchioness de Guast her sister, and no less celebrated. But after mature deliberation and many learned arguments on both sides, it appeared to the academy, that two divinities, two sovereigns, and two women would not much love to dwell together; it was therefore resolved, ‘That the marchioness de Guast have separate worship; and that Joan of Arragon, her sister, remain in the sole and exclusive possession of her altars.’ They next proceeded to the building of the temple; and the Latin, Greek, Italian, French, Spanish, Sclavonic, Polonize, Hungarian, Hebrew, Chaldaic, and many [Page 115]other languages, were made use of in the fabrication of that monument;—one of the most extraordinary that ever gallantry raised to beauty.
SECTION IV. The subject continued.
THE same spirit which in that era gave birth to so many panegyrics on women, produced a number of books on the merit of the sex in general. The important question of the equality, or superiority, of the sexes was agitated:—and, during five hundred years, there was a kind of literary combination for assigning the pre-eminence to the women.
At the head of that conspiracy was the famous Cornelius Agrippa; who, born at Cologn in 1486, studied all the sciences, embraced all conditions, travelled all countries; who bore arms with distinction, and was afterwards divine, doctor of law, doctor of physic; who commented on the Epistles of St. Paul in [Page 116]England, gave lectures on the philosopher's Stone at Turin, on divinity at Pavia, and practised physic in Switzerland; who was successively connected with three or four princes and princesses, and was only the more unfortunate; who bore injuries with courage, and without complaining; who was twice in fetters; who was always wandering, because always guided by a warm and weak imagination,—because unfit either to be free or to be a slave; because he could neither endure poverty nor dependence; and who, after having excited by turns, or at once, pity, admiration, and hate, died in France in the forty-ninth year of his age, loaded with reputation, and oppressed with misfortunes.
He had published, in 1509, his treatise ‘Of the Excellence of Women above the Men.’ He had then the misfortune to please the famous Margaret of Austria, who governed the Low Countries. It is a pity that little circumstance should have mingled itself with so gallant a cause. The book is divided [Page 117]into thirty chapters; and, in each chapter, he demonstrates the superiority of the women by theological, physical, historical, cabalistical, and moral proofs. He calls to his assistance scripture and fable, the historians, the poets, the civil and canon laws, cites a great deal more than he reasons, and concludes with protesting, that he had no human motive for writing but a sense of duty; because every man who knows the truth holds it in trust, and consequently silence would be a crime.
The Italians, on reading that work, must have considered it as a robbery, which had been committed in their territories by a native of Germany. But they soon reimbursed themselves. Cardinal Pompoeia Colonna, Portio, Lando, Domenichi, Maggio, Bernado, Spina, and a great many others, all wrote on the perfection of women.
But the most singular work on the subject is that of Ruscelli. It appeared at Venice in 1552. Ruscelli came after all [Page 118]the rest; and dissatisfied, as he says, with the manner in which they had supported a cause so evident, he conceived new proofs, so positive, that henceforth there could not be the possibility of a doubt. After having copied, criticised, and commented upon Agrippa, he throws in some sublime speculations of his own, and endeavours to prove, that the contemplation of beauty alone can render man happy on earth, and raise him to the contemplation of the divinity.
Such is the scope of Ruscelli's composition. But the effect of his reasoning is destroyed by the consused impression which is made on the mind of the reader, by the mixture of divinity and Platonism; by blending through the whole the name of God and of woman; by placing Moses by the side of Petrarch and of Dante; and by giving in the same page, and even in the same period, quotations from Boccace and from St. Augustine, from 0 Homer and from St. John.
[Page 119] Nothing, in my opinion, can exhibit a truer picture than this performance does of the spirit of the sixteenth century, particularly in Italy; where the same man was or would be, in good earnest, a lover, a devotee, a christian, a pagan, a divine, and a philosopher. Perhaps even that extravagant combination of ideas and of characters must necessarily be found in a country, where we often meet with the ruins of a temple of Jupiter in the neighbourhood of a church, a statue of St. Peter upon a column of Trajan, and a Madona beside an Apollo.
It appears, that even after Ruscelli had written, there were still infidels to persuade, and that the work of conversion was not thought complete; for we find a great many future performances published in Italy, in France, and in Spain, on the same subject.
In 1593, a celebrated Venetian, already mentioned, MODESTA DI POZZO DI ZORZI, maintained the superiority of her sex to ours. Her performance had [Page 120]great success: and, unfortunately for her, what perhaps added to its celebrity was, that one might commend without jealousy. She died just as it was published. The men, however, always viewed with pleasure those kind of compositions by women. Pride, which construes every thing to its own advantage, regarded as so many proofs of its pre-eminence, the very efforts which were made to demonstrate its inferiority.
Lucretia Marinella, another Venetian lady, supported the same cause. Her performance is intituled, ‘The Dignity and Excellence of Women, with the Faults and Imperfections of Men.’ The men, at least, will not be accused of the fault of injustice to her; for she had all the success which beauty can give to genius.
In 1628, yet another Italian performance appeared upon ‘The Dignity of Women.’ The author of that book was one Christopher Bronzini. The work is in dialogue, and divided by Days. [Page 121]We may judge by the extent of his plan how rich the subject appeared to him: his division is twenty-four Days. The eighth Day, in which nothing is treated of but marriage, occupies upwards of two hundred pages. Bronzini, in praiseing the women, has assigned them no rank, and has left the dispute of the sexes undecided.
But, in 1650, a book appeared, in which the controversy was treated very prettily. The title of the piece was, ‘Woman better than man; a paradox, by James del Pozzo.’ It seems doubtful how far the women would be flattered with the word Paradox.
In Spain, in the sixteenth century, John Spinosa wrote a dialogue in praise of women. We may believe that he extolled them with all the imagination of his country, and with all the majesty of his language.
The French women were [...] less zealous than the Italian to support the [Page 122]honour of their sex. Margaret queen of Navarre, and first wife to Henry IV. by turns devout and gay, and more celebrated for the sprightliness of her wit than the purity of her manners, undertook to prove, in a piece in the form of a letter, ‘that Woman is much superior to Man.’
Mademoiselle de Gournay, who deserved to be adopted by Montagne, wrote also upon her sex; but, more modest, or more timid, she confined her pretensions, and was contented with equality. That modesty however did not hinder Mary Schurman,— born at Cologn, and who in her life-time had a prodigious reputation, — to say, after she had read M. de Gournay's book in honour of her sex, ‘I neither would nor dare approve all that is contained in this performance.’ Yet, if any woman ever had a right to aspire at the superiority, it was perhaps that lady. She was a painter, musician, engraver, sculptor, philosopher, geometrician, divine, and understood and spoke nine different languages,
[Page 123] In 1643, a piece appeared at Paris under this title: ‘The Generous Woman; who shews that her Sex is more noble, more patriotic, more brave, more learned, more virtuous, and more oeconomical than that of man.’
In 1665, another lady published at Paris a book intituled, ‘The illustrious Dames; where, by good and strong Reasons, it is proved, that the Women surpass the Men.’
In 1673, a performance appeared intituled, ‘The Equality of the two Sexes: Discourses philosophical and moral, in which are shewn the Importance of divesting ourselves of Prejudices.’
In 1675, the Author of the last-mentioned piece refuted himself, in a treatise on ‘The Excellency of Men, against the Equality of the Sexes.’ But he reasons feebly, as if afraid of refuting himself, and overturning his former system.
[Page 124] A lady of Languedoc, in the same century, was willing to repossess herself of the superiority, and endeavoured to establish it by GOOD and SURE reasons. In short, that opinion, or that controversy, produced a kind of war among writers otherwise obscure, and gave birth to Dissertations, to Answers, and to Replies, now equally unknown: and it is but just to remark, that few of them deserve to be read, and that the question has not been properly treated in any of them. Authority is always substituted for argument. Such pedants should be told, that twenty citations will not make a reason.
ESSAY ON THE CHARACTER, MANNERS, AND GENIUS OF WOMEN IN DIFFERENT AGES.
Enlarged from the French of M. THOMAS, By Mr. RUSSELL.
IN TWO VOLUMES.
VOL. II.
PHILADELPHIA: PRINTED AND SOLD BY R. AITKEN, BOOK-SELLER, OPPOSITE THE LONDON-COFFEE-HOUSE, FRONT-STREET. M, DCC, LXXIV.
CONTENTS.
- PART II. SECT. V. Of the comparative Merit of the two sexes. Page 1
- PART II. SECT. VI. Of the Decline of serious Gallantry, and of the Progress of Society in France. Page 46
- PART II. SECT. VII. Of the Progress of Society in Britain, and of the Character, Manners, and Talents of the British Women. Page 72
- PART II. SECT. VIII. Conclusion. Page 117
ESSAY ON THE CHARACTER, MANNERS, and GENIUS OF WOMEN. PART II.
SECTION V. OF THE COMPARATIVE MERIT OF THE TWO SEXES.
TO determine this grand question of self-love and rivalry between the sexes, it would be necessary to examine the strength or weakness of their organs; the education of which they are capable; the end of nature in forming them; how far it is possible to correct or to change her purpose; which would [Page 2]gain, and which would lose by departing from her; and, in short, to mark particularly the influence which the difference of duties, of occupations, and of manners, must unavoidably have on the genius, on the sentiments, and on the character of the two sexes.
In comparing the intellectual powers of the sexes, it would be necessary to consider distinctly the philosophical talent, which meditates; the talent of memory, which collects; the talent of imagination, which creates; the moral and political talent, which governs.
It would further be necessary to inquire, to what degree women possess these four kinds of genius: If the natural weakness of their organs, which is the cause of their beauty; if the inquietude of their character, which arises from their imagination; if the multitude and the variety of their sensations, which are numbered among their charms, may not deprive them of that vigorous and continued attention which is requisite [Page 3]to connect a numerous train of ideas — an attention, which excludes all other objects, to view and contemplate one; which out of a single idea produces a multitude, all chained to the first; or which, out of a number of scattered ideas, selects one primitive and vast idea which combines all the rest.
This philosophical spirit is rare, indeed, even among men; but still there are many great men who have possessed it—who have raised themselves to the height of nature to become acquainted with her works; who have shewn to the soul the source of its ideas; who have assigned to reason its bounds, to motion its laws, and to the universe its harmony; who have created sciences in creating principles, and who have aggrandised the human mind in cultivating their own. If there is no woman found on a level with those illustrious men, is it the fault of education, or of nature?
Descartes, abused by envious men, but admired by two generous princesses, [Page 4]boasted of the philosophical talents of women. I am far however from thinking that his gratitude could lead him into a voluntary error, even in compliment to beauty. He would no doubt find in Elizabeth and in Christina a docility which prided itself in listening to so great a man, and which seemed to associate itself with his genius in following the range of his ideas. He might perhaps even find in the compositions of women perspicuity, order, and method; but did he find that strong discernment, that depth of intellect, that dissidence which characterises the real philosopher? — Did he find that cool reason which, always inquisitive, advances slowly, and remeasures all its steps?—Their genius, penetrating and rapid, flies off, — and is at rest. They have more sallies than efforts. What they do not see at once, they either cannot see at all, or they disdain, or they despair to see. It is therefore little wonder they should want that unremitted assiduity, which alone can pursue and discover important truths.
[Page 5] Imagination might seem rather to be their province.
It has been observed, that the imagination of women has in it something unaccountably singular and extraordinary. All things strike it; all things paint themselves on it in a lively manner. Their volatile senses embrace every object, and carry off its image. Some unknown powers, some secret sympathies enable them rapidly to seize the impressions. The material world is not sufficient for them: they love to create an ideal world of their own; which they embellish, and prodigies — whatever transcends the ordinary laws of nature, is their creation, and their delight. They enjoy even their terrors. Their feelings are fine, and their fancy always approaches to enthusiasm.
But it would be necessary to inquire, how far that fancy, when applied to the arts, can unfold itself in the talent of creating and of painting: if their imagination [Page 6]is as vigorous, as it is lively and versatile; if it does not unavoidably partake of their occupations, of their pleasures, of their tastes, and even of their weaknesses. I suspect that their delicate fibres are afraid of strong sensations, which fatigue them, and that they seek the soft, on which they may repose.
Man, always active, is exposed to storms. The imagination of the poet enjoys itself on the ridge of mountains, on the brink of volcanoes, in the middle of ruins, on seas, and on fields of battle; and it is never more susceptible of voluptuous and tender ideas, than after having experienced some great emotion.
But women, by means of their delicate and sedentary life, less acquainted with the contrast of the gentle and the terrible, may be supposed to feel and to paint less perfectly, even the agreeable sensations, than those who, thrown into opposite conditions, pass rapidly from the one sentiment to the other. Perhaps too, from the habit of resigning themselves to [Page 7]the impression of the moment, which with them is very strong, their minds must be more replenished with images than pictures:—or perhaps their imagination, though lively, may be compared to a mirror, which reflects fairly, magnifies, multiplies, distorts, or diminishes, like their good-humour, their hopes, their fears, their jealousies, their envies, the forms of all things, but creates nothing.
Love is without dispute the passion which the women feel the strongest, and which they express the best. They feel the other passions more feebly, and by rebound: but love is their own; it is the charm and the business of their life; it is their soul. They should therefore know well how to paint it.
But do they know, like the author of Othello, of The Revenge, or of Zara, to express the transports of a troubled soul, which joins fury to love; which is sometimes impetuous, and sometimes tender; which now is softened, and now [Page 8]is roused; which sheds blood, and which sacrifices itself? Can they paint these doublings of the human heart, these storms of emotion and passion?—No: nature herself restrains them. She has given to one of the sexes bold desires, and the right of attack; to the other she has assigned the province of defence, and timid desires, which attract by resisting. Love in the one sex is a conquest, in the other a sacrifice.
It therefore follows, that the women of all countries, and in all ages, must have known better how to paint a delicate and tender sentiment, than a violent and turbulent passion. Obliged, in short, by their duty, by the reserve of their sex, by the desire of a certain charm, which is more bewitching than wit, and more attractive than beauty, always to conceal a part of their sentiments,—must not these sentiments, by being continually constrained, become weaker by degrees, and have less energy than those of men, who, at all times, bold and extravagant with impunity, give to their passions what tome [Page 9]they please, and which are invigorated by exercise?
A temporary constraint inflames the passions; but a continued constraint cools or extinguishes them.
With regard to the talent of order and memory, which classes facts, and ideas when necessary, as it depends a good deal upon method and habit, there seems little reason why the two sexes may not possess it in an equal degree, Yet it would still be necessary to examine, if the women would not be deficient in the quantity of materials, which are so essential to erudition; if excessive application would not more easily disgust them. Is it not true, that their impatience and natural desire of change, which arise from fleeting and rapid impressions, prevent them from following for a course of years the same kind of study, and consequently from acquiring profound or extensive knowledge? We are sensible they have qualities of mind which atone for it. It is not the same hand which [Page 10]polishes the diamond, and which digs the mine.
We come now to a more important object, the moral and political talent; which consists in the regulating of ourselves and of others. To compare the advantages and disadvantages of the two sexes with regard to this object, it would be necessary to observe the same talent in society, and when applied to government.
The women in society, by being continually upon the look-out, from the double motive of curiosity and of policy, must have a perfect knowledge of men. They must be able to disentangle all the folds of self-love; to discover the secret weaknesses, the false modesties, and the false grandeurs; what a man is, and what he would be; the qualities which he shews, even by an effort to conceal them; his esteem marked even in his satires, and by his satires themselves. They must know and distinguish characters: —the cool pride, which enjoys [Page 11]itself in state; the warm and impetuous pride, which is easily inflamed; the vain sensibility, the tender sensibility, the sensibility which is veiled under an appearance of indifference; the pretended levity, and the levity of the heart; the diffidence which proceeds from character, from vice, from misfortune, or from the mind; in short, all the sentiments, and all their shades.
As women set a high value on opinion, they must reflect much upon what can produce it, destroy it, or confirm it. They must know how far one may direct, without appearing to be interested; how far one may presume upon that art, even after it is known; in what estimation they are held by those with whom they live, and to what degree it is necessary to serve them that they may govern them.
In all matters of business women know the great effects which are produced by little causes. They have the art of imposing upon some, by seeming to discover [Page 12]to them what they already know; of diverting others from their purpose, by confirming their most distant suspicions. They know how to captivate by praises, those who merit them; and to raise a blush, by bestowing them where they are not due.
These delicate sciences are the leadingstrings in which the women conduct the men. Society to them is like a harpsichord, of which they know the touches: they can divine the sound which every one will produce. But the men, bold and free, supplying address by force, consequently having less call for observation, and hurried along besides by the continual necessity of acting, can scarcely be possessed of that crowd of little notices and polite attentions, which are every moment necessary in the commerce of life: their calculations therefore on society must be more slow, and less sure, than those of women.
It would afterwards be necessary to compare the genius of the two sexes, as applied to government.
[Page 13] In society men are governed by their passions, and the least motives often produce the greatest consequences. But, in the government of states, it is by comprehensive views, by the choice of principles, and, above all, by the discovery and the employment of talents, that success can be obtained. Here, instead of taking advantage of foibles, we must fear them; we must raise men above their weaknesses, not lead them into them.
The art of governing in society may therefore be said to consist in flattering vice and folly with address; and the art of administration, in combating them with judgment. The knowledge of mankind required in the two cases is very different: In the one, they must be known by their weakness; in the other, by their strength. The one takes part with failings, for little ends; the other discovers great qualities, which are mingled with those very faults. The one, in short, seeks little blemishes in great men, and the other, in dissecting great men, must often [Page 14]perceive the same spots: for perfect characters exist only in Utopia.
Let us now examine, if this kind of genius and observation agrees equally with the character of the two sexes. I know that there are women who have reigned, and who still reign with lustre. Christina in Sweden, Isabella of Castile in Spain, and Elizabeth in England, have merited the esteem of their age, and of posterity. We saw, in the war of 1741, a princess, whom even her enemies admired, defend the German empire with no less genius than courage; and we behold, at this day, the Ottoman empire shaken by a woman. But, in general questions, we should beware of taking exceptions for rules; we ought to attend only to the ordinary course of nature.
It therefore becomes necessary to inquire, if in society the women being less engaged in action, and in general less fit for it, can know so well as the other sex, the talents of men, their use, or their [Page 15]extent; if great views, and the application of great principles, including the habit of seizing at a glance the result of things, correspond not ill with the prolixity of their imagination, or at least with the arrangement of their ideas. It is character chiefly which governs; it is the vigour of the soul which gives impulse to genius, which strengthens and extends political capacity. But this character is seldom formed but by great commotions, by great hopes, by great fears, and by the necessity of being continually engaged in action. Is not then the character of women in general, better calculated for elegance than for sway?—for attraction than for command?—Does not their rapid imagination, which often makes sentiment precede thought, render them more susceptible of prejudice or of error in the choice of men?—Would not one be in danger of abuse, would not one even run the risk of their displeasure, if he should say, that in the distribution of their esteem they would set too high a value upon external accomplishments; and, in short, that they would [Page 16]perhaps be too easily led to believe, that an agreeable man was a great man?—
Yet Elizabeth was not free from this censure. The inclinations of her sex stole beneath the cares of the throne, and the grandeur of her character. We are chagrined at certain times, to see the little weaknesses of a woman mingle with the views of a great mind. If Mary queen of Scotland had been less fair, perhaps her rival had been less cruel. This taste for coquetry, as is well known, furnished Elizabeth with favourites; in the choice of which she judged more like a woman than a sovereign. She was always too ready to believe, that the power of pleasing her implied genius.
That so much celebrated queen exercised over England an almost arbitrary sway; at which perhaps we ought not to be surprised. Women in general on the throne are more inclined to despotism, and more impatient of restraint than men. The sex to whom nature has assigned power by giving them strength, have a [Page 17]certain confidence which raises them in their own eyes; so that they have no need of manifesting to themselves that superiority of which they are sure. But weakness, astonished at the sway which she possesses, shakes her sceptre on every side, to establish her dominion.
Great men are perhaps more carried to that species of despotism which arises from lofty ideas; and women, above the ordinary class, to the despotism which proceeds from passion. The last is rather a sally of the heart, than the effect of system.
One thing which favours the despotism of female sovereigns is, that the men confound the empire of their sex with that of their rank. What we refuse to grandeur, we pay to beauty. But the dominion of women, even when arbitrary, is seldom cruel. Theirs is rather a despotism of caprice, than of oppression. The throne itself cannot cure their [Page 18]sensibility they carry in their bosoms the counterpoise of their power *
If, after having compared the talents of the two sexes, we should compare their virtues, we would receive very different informations.
Both experience and history attest, that in all sects, in all countries, and in all ranks, the women have more religious virtues than the men. Naturally possessed of more sensibility, they have more need of an object that may unceasingly occupy their souls; they offer to God a sentiment which they cannot contain, and which otherwise would be a crime. Greedy of happiness, and not finding enough in this world, they launch into a life and a world abounding with ineffable delights. Extreme in their desires, nothing limited can satisfy them.—More [Page 19]flexible in their duties than men, they reason less, and feel more. More subjected to good opinion, they pay more attention to what concerns themselves. Less occupied, and less active, they have more time for contemplation. Less abstracted or absent, they are more strongly affected by the same idea, because they see it continually. More struck by external objects, they relish more the pageantry of ceremonies and of temples; and the devotion of the senses has no inconsiderable effect on that of the soul. Confined, in short, on all hands, denied the effusion of their sentiments to men by the reserve of their sex, to women by an eternal rivalry, they may at least talk of their pleasures and their pains to the great Being who knows them, and they often pour into his bosom many dear weaknesses of which the world are ignorant. In so doing they recall their beloved errors, they enjoy even their sorrow, without reproaching themselves; and afflicted, yet free from remorse, because under the eye of a benevolent Deity, they [Page 20]find secret delights in repenting, and in combating their warmest wishes.
It should seem therefore, in consequence of the character of women, that their religion must be more tender, and that of men more severe, the one consisting more in practice, the other in principles; and, in exalting their religious ideas, that the woman is more liable to superstition, the man to fanaticism. But, if once fanaticism catch hold of the woman, her more lively imagination will carry her a greater length; and, more austere even from the dread of sensibility, what was formerly a part of her charms, will only contribute to increase her fury.
The domestic virtues are intimately connected with those of religion. They are doubtless common to both sexes: but the advantage seems still to be in favour of the women. At least they have more need of virtues which they have more occasion to practice.
[Page 21] In the first period of life, timid, and without support, the girl is more attached to her mother: by seldom leaving her, she comes to love her more. The trembling innocent is cheared by the presence of her protectress; and her weakness, while it heightens her beauty, augments her sensibility. Become mother, she has other duties, which all things invite her to fulfil. Then the condition of the two sexes is widely different.
Man, in the middle of his labours, and among his arts, employing his powers, and commanding nature, finds a pleasure in his industry, in his success, and even in his toils. But woman, more solitary, and less active, has fewer resources: her pleasures must arise from her virtues; her amusements are her family. It is by the cradle of her child—it is in viewing the smiles of her daughter, or the sports of her son, that a mother is happy.
And where are the bowels, the cries, the powerful emotions of nature?— Where is the sentiment, at once sublime [Page 22]and pathetic, that carries every feeling to excess?—is it to be found in the frosty indifference, and the four severity of so many fathers?—No; but in the warm and passionate bosom of a mother. It is she, who by an impulse, as quick as involuntary, rushes into the flood to preserve a boy, whose imprudence had betrayed him to the waves. It is she, who, in the middle of a conflagration, throws herself across the flames to save a sleeping infant. It is she, who with dishevelled locks, pale, distracted, embraces with transport the body of a dead child, pressing its cold lips to hers, as if she would reanimate by her tears and her caresses the insensible clay.
These great expressions of nature, these heart-rending emotions, which fill us at once with wonder, compassion, and terror, always have belonged, and always will belong, only to women. They possess in those moments an inexpressible something, which carries them beyond themselves; they seem to discover to [Page 23]us new souls, above the standard of humanity.
If we consider even the matrimonial duties, the obligations of husband and wife; which of the two sexes is most likely to be faithful?—which, in violating them, has most obstacles to encounter? —Is not woman best defended by her education, by her reserve, by that modesty which silences even her desires, and sometimes disputes the rights of the most tender love?—To these restraints we may add, the power of the first passion and the first ties over a heart endowed with sensibility, and which had formerly been forbid to love; the force of opinion, which reigns so despotically over the women, and which, tyrant-like, applauds often the same weaknesses in the one sex, for which it devotes the other to infamy.
Nature herself, attentive in this instance to the manners of women, has taken care to surround them with the strongest, yet the gentlest barriers. She [Page 24]has made inconstancy more painful, and fidelity more pleasing to their hearts:— and it must be owned, that they have seldom begun the disorders of families. Even in ages of general corruption, conjugal infidelity in women has been one of the last of crimes.
After the religious and domestic virtues come the social virtues; and first the virtues of sensibility, or the sweet and affectionate passions. The chief of these are friendship and love.
It has long been a question, which of the two sexes is most capable of friendship. Montaigne, who is so much celebrated for his knowledge of human nature, has given it positively against the women; and his opinion has been generally embraced: but he appears to have judged too hastily on this subject. Through his whole Essays, indeed, he has done too little justice to the gentle sex. Perhaps—for we cannot accuse him of insensibility—he was like that [Page 25]judge who, conscious of his own weakness, was so much afraid of being partial, that he decided every cause against his friends.
If I were to converse with Montaigne on this subject, I would say to him,
‘You undoubtedly agree, that friendship is the sentiment of two souls, which seek and which have need of the support of each other. Now it should seem, that the sex whose head and hands are most occupied; which is most independent; which is most free; which has the greatest ability of expanding its ideas, and of employing its sentiments; which in prosperity is better supported by pride; which in adversity is more humbled than afflicted; which in all conditions has a consciousness of its powers, and which glories in them—it should seem that man could more easily dispense with the commerce, and the sweet effusions of friendship. But woman, delicate and feeble, and on that account having [Page 26]more need of support; in herself more subject to chagrin, to private griefs, and to that sorrow of heart which finds more relief in sensibility than pride; in the world, obliged almost always to play a part, and to carry along with her a load of sensations and of ideas, which she hides, and which oppress her—woman, in short, to whom externals are nothing, and her feelings every thing; woman, in whom every thing produces a sentiment, to whom indifference is violence, and who knows almost only to love and to hate, must feel more exquisitely the liberty and the pleasure of a secret commerce, and the tender considence which friendship gives and receives.’
Montaigne would not fail to reply,
You judge of women according to nature; judge of them likewise according to society, as they exist in the world, and particularly in great cities. Examine if their general desire to please, a sentiment more slight than [Page 27]deep, and more vain than tender, has not withered their hearts, and in a great measure blasted sensibility itself; if, intoxicated with eternal flattery, and accustomed to the sweetest dominion, they could submit to continual sacrifices, and to that happy equality which friendship imposes; if, in short, in their friendship with us, they would not have too much reserve: — and how contemptible is a friendship which is on its guard, where the sentiments are always covered with a slender veil, and where the naked heart is never seen!
I speak not of their friendship between themselves: there was no such thing known in my time; and, I suppose it is the same in yours. But I should be glad to know how they can love, or repose confidence in each other, in a world where they are continually compared, and are continually comparing themselves; where their attachments divide them; where their pretensions interfere; where they are rivals in rank, in beauty, in fortune, [Page 28]in wit, in their talent for society, and in their societies themselves: for selflove always calculating, always measuring, views all things, is offended at all things, and is fostered even by what offends it.
No!" —Montaigne might add, Friendship does not consist in empty show, in jargon, in vain phrases, more ridiculous even in their motive than their meaning. It is a sentiment which requires energy of soul, and a solidity of mind as well as of character; it is a sacred and almost a holy union, which by a devotion peculiar to itself, consecrates a heart entirely to a heart; it is a passion which transforms two wills into one, and gives to two beings the same life and the same soul.
Friendship is bold and severe: for, properly to fulfil its duties, it must be able to speak and to hear the harsh and ungrateful language of truth. It must possess a courage, which is neither alarmed at sacrifices nor at dangers: [Page 29]and it demands, above all things, that unity of character which, from the variety and the eternal fluctuation of their passions, we seldom find in women, and which only can enable us to feel, to think, and to act as a friend, at all times, and upon all occasions.
What do I say? — Are not friends more strongly associated by great interests, and by great trials? — But women, by their condition, are destined to repose. Nature has formed them, like the flowers, to bloom sweetly on the parterre which gives them birth; but the trees, produced and reared in the middle of storms, and in more danger, even from their strength, of being broken by the winds, have more need of support from each other, and they are sustained by union.
From these objections, it may perhaps follow, that friendship in women must be more rare than among men; but it will also be allowed at the same time, that it must be more delicate and more [Page 30]tender. Men have in general more of the parade than the elegance of friendship. They often wound while they serve; and their warmest sentiments are not sufficiently illuminated with those little attentions which are of so much value in the intercourse of souls. But women have a sensibility which is never absent, which never forgets or omits any thing. Nothing escapes them: they divine the hidden friendship; they encourage the bashful or timid friendship, and they offer their sweetest consolations to friendship in distress. Furnished with siner instruments, they treat more delicately a wounded heart; they compose it, and prevent it from feeling its agonies: and they know, above all things, to give an importance to circumstances which have none in themselves. We ought therefore perhaps to desire the friendship of a man upon great occasions; but, for general happiness, we must prefer the friendship of a woman.
Women in love have the same delicacies and the same weaknesses. Their [Page 31]passions are keen: they either love at once, or do not love at all. Men are less easily inflamed, and by degrees. The passions of women, by being more constrained, are perhaps more ardent: they are nursed by silence, and roused by opposition. Fear and modesty mingle inquietude with love in their gentle hearts, and by exercising it, double its force. — When a man is sure of his conquest, his passion is tinctured with pride; but a woman is then only more tender. The more her confession has cost her, the more dearly she loves the man to whom it was made. She attaches herself by her sacrifices. Virtuous, she enjoys her denials; guilty, she glories in the favours she bestows.
Women therefore, when love is a passion, are more constant than men; but, when it is only an appetite, they are more libertine. For then they feel no more those anxieties, those struggles, and that sweet shame, which impressed the delicious sentiment so strongly on their hearts. Nothing remains but the [Page 32]senses and imagination: — senses guided by caprice; an imagination wasted by its own ardour, and which is every moment inflamed and extinguished.
After love and friendship come benevolence, and that generous compassion which interests the heart in the missortunes of others. These are more particularly the portion of women. Every thing inclines them to generosity and Their delicate senses revolt at the presence of distress and pain. Objects of misery and aversion discompose the soft indolence of their minds. Their souls are more hurt by images of sorrow and of spleen than tormented by their own sensibility. They must therefore be very anxious to afford relief. — They possess besides in a high degree, that instinctive feeling, which operates without reasoning; and they often relieve, while men deliberate. Their benevolence is perhaps less rational, but it is more active. It is also more attentive, and more tender. What woman has ever been wanting in commiseration to the unfortunate?
But it would be necessary to examine if women, so susceptible of friedship, of love, of piety, of benevolence to individuals, can elevate themselves to that patriotism, or disinterested love of one's country, which embraces all its citizens, and to that philanthropy, or universal love of mankind, which embraces all nations.
I would not be thought to undervalue patriotism. It is the noblest sentiment of the human mind; at least it is that which has produced the greatest men, and which gave birth to those ancient heroes, whose history still astonishes our imagination, and accuses our weakness. But if we should trace its source, and examine in what it consists, we would find that this boasted virtue is almost always a composition of pride and selfishness, generated by the ideas of interest and property, by the remembrance of past services, by the hope of future honours or rewards, and a certain factitious enthusiasm which robs men of themselves, to [Page 34]transform their existence entirely into the body of the state.
These sentiments, it will readily be perceived, do not correspond with the condition of women. In almost all governments, excluded from honours, and from offices, they can neither obtain, nor hope to obtain, nor attach themselves to the state, from the pride of having held a place of eminence. Possessed of little property, and restrained by the laws even in what they have, the form of legislation in all countries must make them in a great measure indifferent to public welfare. Never acting or fighting for their country, they have not one flattering remembrance to tie them to it, by vanity, by labours, or by virtues. Existing, in short, more in themselves, and in the objects of their sensibility, and being perhaps less fitted than men by nature for the civil institutions in which they have less share, they must be less susceptible of that enthusiasm, which makes a man prefer the state to his family, [Page 35]and the collective body of his fellow-citizens to himself.
The example of the women of Rome and Sparta, I am sensible, may be urged in objection to these observations; but those ancient republics are not to be compared with our modern establishments. The wonders performed by the Dutch women, in the revolution of the Seven Provinces, will likewise perhaps be urged. To which I answer, that the glorious enthusiasm of liberty can do all things; that there are times when nature is astonished at herself; and that great virtues spring from great calamities. But of such there is no reasoning.
If the love of their country is little suited to women, that universal love of mankind, which extends to all nations, and to all ages, and which is a kind of abstract sentiment, seems to correspond still less with their character. They must have an image of what they love. It is only by the power of arranging his ideas, that the philosopher is able to overleap [Page 36]so many barriers; to pass from a man, to a people; from a people, to human kind; from the time in which he lives, to ages yet unborn; and from what he sees, to what he does not see.
The tender sex do not love to send their souls so far a-wandering. They assemble their sentiments and their ideas about them, and confine their affections to what interests them most. Those strides of benevolence to women are out of nature. A man to them, is more than a nation; and the hour in which they live, than a thousand ages after death.
There are certain qualities, which have generally been ranked among the social virtues, but which may more properly be called THE VIRTUES OF POLISHED LIFE. They are the charm and the bond of company; and are useful at all times and upon all occasions. They are in the commerce of the world, what current money is in trade: they are sometimes not absolutely necessary, but [Page 37]one can never safely be without them; and they always procure the possessor a more favourable reception. Such is that mild complacency, which gives a softness to the character, and an attractive sweetness to the manners; that indulgence, which pardons the faults of others, even when it has no need of pardon itself; the art of not seeing the weaknesses which discover themselves, and of keeping the secret of those who hide it; of concealing our advantages, when we humble our rivals or opponents; of dealing gently with those, who cannot submit without being offended: that facility, which adopts ideas which it never had; that delicate foresight, which divines the fears of those with whom we converse, and encourages the display of thought and sentiment; that freedom, which inspires confidence; and all that politeness, in short, which perhaps is not virtue,—nay, which is sometimes no more than a happy lie,—but which gives laws to self-love, and makes pride sit easy by the side of pride, which would otherwise every moment be wounded.
[Page 38] We shall not trace the parallel of the sexes through all these sentiments; but it is necessary to observe in general, that the women correct that rudeness which pride and passion introduce into the company of men. Their delicate hand smooths the asperities of human life. Politeness is a part of their character; it is connected with their mind, with their manners, and even with their interest. To the most virtuous woman society is a field of conquest.
Few men have formed the project of making every body happy, and so much the worse for those who have: but many women have not only formed such a scheme, but have succeeded in it. The more general the intercourse of the sexes, the more the talent of pleasing is perfected; the more general this species of merit; for then there are more little interests to conciliate, and characters to unite. Society becomes a complicated machine, and demands more dexterity to regulate its movements.
[Page 39] *We are, in general, so much the more polite, as we are less devoted to ourselves and more to others; as we are more attentive to opinion; as we are more zealous to be distinguished; and, perhaps, in proportion as we have fewer resources and great means of being so. But these are not all: among individuals and among a people, between the sexes and between the ranks, politeness supposes a certain degree of idleness; for it supposes the habit and the necessity of living together. Hence the art of regulating our behaviour, of adjusting our looks, our words, and our motions; the need of attentions, and all the little gratifications of vanity. We are naturally inclined to pay that homage which we receive, and to exact that which we pay. Thus the delicacy of self-love produces all the refinements in society; as the delicacy of the senses produces all the refinements in pleasure; and as the delicacy of taste, which is perhaps only the result of the other two, produces all the refinements in literature, arts, and sciences.—It will be easy to discern how [Page 40]these objects are connected with one another, and how they are all related to women.
But refined politeness, it may be said, is allied to falshood. It substitutes the expression of sentiment too often for sentiment itself. Hence the reproach so common against women:—and it must be owned, that they are by nature more disposed to every kind of dissimulation than men. Power and independance display all their motions with freedom; but weakness and the art of pleasing, must observe and measure all theirs. The timid sex therefore learn to hide the sentiments which they have, and exhibit those which they have not.
A man may be open without being on that account entitled to praise; for he is often so without effort, nay from an impetuosity of soul which he cannot restrain; but sincerity in a woman, when real, is never without merit. Men are sometimes frank by design: women seldom affect that species of hypocrisy; and [Page 41]when they do, to please the better, they give to their frankness the air of confidence. It is a sacrifice which they make to friendship.
Men owe their frankness to pride, women to address. The one sex often utters a truth without any other view than truth itself; in the mouth of the other, even truth itself has an aim. The falsity of man almost always regards his interest; it is only for himself: that of woman generally proceeds from a desire to please; she refers every thing to others. The one cheats, the other seduces you.
Flattery is common to both sexes. But the flattery of men is often gross to a degree that is base: that of women is more light, and has more the appearance of sentiment. Even when it is overdone, it is generally amusing, and is never disgusting. The motive and the manner save them from contempt.
[Page 42] To conclude this parallel, (which is already too long) it would be necessary still to examine the rigid virtues of the two sexes which are connected with justice, and the bold and nervous qualities which are allied to courage.
But almost all the distinctions, which can be made on these subjects, proceed upon the same principles. Thus, for instance, in regard to equity, whence arise the duties of a severe and impartial justice; if there is one of the sexes which almost always feels before it judges, and which is led by an imagination, that gives it aversions or likings for which it cannot account; whose caprices an uniform and inflexible rule would fatigue; and whose decisions have at all times been more governed by particular ideas, than by general views: it must be owned, that such a character agrees ill with that rigid equity which pays less regard to circumstances than to facts, and to persons than to things. Hence women rarely resemble the law, which pronounces without [Page 43]love or hate. Their justice has always some head-mark, to distinguish those whom it condemns or absolves. Consult the annals of history, and you will find them generally bordering on excess of pity, or excess of vengeance. They want that cool deliberation which knows where to stop: to them moderation is torment.
A woman of some genius has said *, that the French seem to have escaped from the hands of nature, since they have nothing in their composition but air and fire. She might have said as much of her sex; but she, no doubt, was unwilling to betray her secret.
It might seem bold, to presume to determine how far the two sexes are by nature susceptible of courage. But the word Courage is so vague, that to give it any determinate idea we must distinguish that virtue into its different species.
[Page 44] The distinction of mental and animal courage, is well known: but these two kinds subdivide themselves again. In the courage of mind, for example, we find a courage of principle, which defies opinion; a courage of will, which gives energy to the soul, and spurns constraint; a courage of constancy, which supports the idea of toil, and toil itself; a calm courage, which, in the most delicate circumstances, views all things deliberately. In the animal courage, in like manner, we find a courage against pain, which knows how to suffer; a courage against danger, whether it consists of that hardiness which encounters, or that firmness which keeps its post; an habitual courage, which is always the same, and which discovers itself at all times, and upon all occasions; and that enthusiastic courage, which is a kind of fine fever of the soul, which rages and ceases by fits, and which meets with intrepidity at one time, what it would shrink from at another.
[Page 45] It would not be necessary to make a particular application of these, details; the reader's own reflections will be sufficient. We ought, however, to observe, that the courage which the women possess in the highest degree, is that of supporting pain; which is no doubt owing to the variety of ills to which they are subjected by nature. But whatever it proceeds from, the fact is certain: they would sooner suffer than displease, and would a thousand times rather endure pain than reproach.
We have likewise seen women demonstrate an extraordinary courage in danger; but it is always owing to some strong passion, or great idea, which rouses their minds, and elevates them above themselves. Then their inflamed imagination gives a new direction to the imagination of their sex; and their ardent sensibility, tending to one object, attracts the little sensibilities of character, which are the sources of fear and of weakness. Under such agitations they possess a courage which nothing can [Page 46]withstand, and which in effort exceeds even habitual valour; which, by reason of its experience, has less impetuosity, as it borders less upon extravagance.
These are some of the subjects which should be discussed and compared, in settling the dispute of the Equality, or Superiority of the Sexes. To treat the question properly, it would be necessary to be at the same time a physician, an anatomist, and a philosopher; to be equally rational and sentimental; and, above all these singular attainments, one must have the misfortune to be perfectly disinterested.
SECTION VI. Of the Decline of serious Gallantry, and of the Progress of Society in FRANCE.
THE sixteenth century, in which the dispute of the superiority of the sexes was so much agitated, appears to have been the most brilliant era in the [Page 47]annals of women. After that period we find fewer champions, either literary or warlike, enlisted under their banners. The enthusiasm of serious gallantry was somewhat abated. The entire extinction of chivalry in Europe; the abolition of tournaments; the religious wars in Germany. and in France, which drew the women of rank to court; and the manners which necessarily flow from idleness, from intrigue, and from beauty being regarded as an instrument of fortune—in short the new taste of society which began universally to prevail, a taste which polished the manners in corrupting them, and which, by mingling the sexes advantageously, taught them to seek one another more, but esteem one another less; —all contributed to diminish a sentiment, which, to gather strength, stands in need of obstacles, and of a certain state of the soul in which it is honoured by its desires, and respected even from its weakness.
The progress of this revolution, however, was for some time slow in France. [Page 48]Under Francis I. who gave the signal of corruption, we find still in the affairs of love a jealousy, a revenge, a hate, and crimes which prove the manners,
Under Catherine of Medicis, love was a mixture of gallantry and fury. The Italian ardour mingled itself with the French voluptuousness. All was intrigue. They talked of carnage in the rendezvous of beauty, and meditated in dancing the ruin of nations. In the mean time, the attention to policy and war, the factions, the parties, and a romantic something which still remained, gave an energy to the soul, which discovered itself even in the sentiments which the women inspired.
The reign of Henry IV. displayed a milder gallantry. That prince joined the courteous manners of a knight, to the weaknesses of a great king. It was thought an honour to imitate him; and his courtiers, bold and brilliant, accustomed to glory and to conquest, carried into love a species of that noble courage [Page 49]which they had displayed in the combats of war. They were corrupted, but not debased.
Under Lewis XIII. genius, which began to unfold itself, mingled metaphysics with gallantry. Every body knows the famous thesis which Cardinal Richlieu caused to be supported on love. That ludicrous injunction, which some may suppose was given in jest, and intended as a burlesque on the misapplication of learning and talents, was no more than a serious expression of the manners of those times in France. The religious contests had brought controversy into fashion. The infant taste in letters made them take the scholastic forms for science. A false wit sprung from a desire of being witty, and the inability to be so. The gallantry, which mingled itself with all things, and which disturbed nothing, because it was not deep—the gallantry, which was rather a twist of the fancy than a sentiment of the heart, adopted the whole mass of absurdities, and formed a jargon equally mystical, metaphysical, [Page 50]and romantic. There was nothing written or talked of, but dissertations upon the delicacies and the sacrifices of love.
Though we generally descant little upon what we feel much, yet these conversations and reasonings discovered a turn of mind, which, in permitting gallantry, connected it with tenderness, and which always joined to the idea of woman the ideas of sensibility and respect.
The regency of Anne of Austria, and the war of the minority, formed a singular era. France was a scene of anarchy: but the taste of the times mingled pleasantry with battles, and ballads with factions. All things then were conducted by women. They had in that period all the restless agitation which is communicated by the spirit of party; a spirit which is less foreign to their character than is commonly supposed. Some produced the shock, others received it. Every one according to her interest and her views caballed, wrote, and conspired. Their assemblies were at midnight. A [Page 51]woman in a bed, or on a sopha, was the soul of the council. There she determined to negociate, to fight, to embroil or accommodate matters with the court.
Love presided at all their consultations. They conspired to ruin a lover in the affections of his mistress, and a mistress in the favour of her lover, with as much solemnity as to lay waste a city, or assassinate a prince; and not without reason: for a revolution in love almost always announced a revolution in politics.
Each woman had her department, and her dominion. Madame de Montbazon, fair and shewy, governed the duke of Beaufort; Madame de Longueville, the duke of Rochefoucault; Madame de Chatillon, Namours and Conde; Mademoiselle de Chevreuse, the Coadjutor; Mademoiselle de Saujon, devout and tender, the duke of Orleans; and the duchess of Bouillon, her husband.—In the mean time Madame de Chevreuse, lively and warm, resigned herself to her lovers from taste, and to politics occasionally; [Page 52]and the Princess Palatine, in turns the friend and the enemy of the great Conde, by means of her genius more than by her beauty, subjected all whom she desired to please, and whom she had either a whim or an interest to persuade. She possessed at once a passionate heart and a sound head; and she was no less romantic in love, than politic in the affairs of the state.
Women often appeared publicly at the head of factions, in camps, and in councils of war. Then, to the ornaments of equipage and dress, they joined the ensigns of their party. At such a sight one must have supposed himself transported to the regions of romance, or carried back to the times of ancient chivalry. On the field, and in the fortress, instruments of music were mingled with instruments of war; curiasses with violins; lutes with spears; and the polished features of beauty bloomed by the side of the war-worn soldier.
Devotion, among the women, blended [Page 53]itself with the spirit of faction, as the spirit of faction did with gallantry. They plotted one hour and prayed the next. So many women of rank never became Carmelites, as at this time. It seemed as if the soul, roused by violent commotions, applied itself to all things with greater impetuosity; and that imagination, inflamed by so much exercise, rushed with equal rapidity to war, to love, to religion, and to rebellion.
The spirit of gallantry, during the regency, had nearly the same character, and the same symptoms, as under Louis XIII. except that the civil war, and that extravagance which great commotions give to the soul, warmed the little tincture of chivalry which still remained in the cup of love.
Anne of Austria had brought to the court of France, a part of the manners of her country. It was a mixture of coquetry and pride, of sensibility and reserve; that is to say, a remnant of the ancient and shining gallantry of the [Page 54]Moors, joined to the pomp and the stateliness of the Castillians. Then dances, romances, plays, intrigues, all were Spanish. Disguises and nocturnal scenes became the fashion: but the French vivacity substituted the violin in place of the languishing guitar. That polite and loyal people, affected passions which they had not, and counted it an honour publicly to gibbet those which they had. A sacred homage to beauty, was numbered among the duties of men. Every thing that related to women was viewed with an eye of importance: the most inconsiderable trifles had a value; and a present of a bracelet, or a complimentary card, made an event in life. They talked as seriously of an affair of gallantry, as of the progress of a negociation, or the issue of a battle *.
[Page 55] It was this spirit which formed the character of the first romances of the age of Lewis XIV:—eternal romances, because the writers supposed that all passion must be durable; serious, because they considered love as an important concern in life; full of adventures, because they imagined it must turn the brain; full of conversations, because they made it a science, which had its principles and forms; heroic, above all things, because it must throw the greatest men at the feet of the women, and because they then believed that true passion is inseparable from honour, and will elevate itself to its object, in place of seeking to debase it.
It was that spirit likewise which formed the French theatre; and which made the great Corneille himself blend love with the interest of states, with massacre, conspiracy, and parricide.
[Page 56] It was the same general spirit perhaps, which, reigning during the infancy of Lewis XIV. obtained to that monarch among the women the character of being at once great and tender; by which, when young, and passionately in love, he would have placed one of his subjects upon the throne, and was afterwards able to conquer his weakness; by which he conceived a passion, not less warm, for Henrietta of England, yet curbed its violence; by which, always a king, though always a lover, he from his youth knew to preserve dignity in his pleasures. But, though he covered sensuality with decency, the manners of the women, by a concurrence of circumstances, must have been much altered under his reign.
Hitherto the vices of the court had not been those of the nation. The different orders of the state were more separated. The nobility still retained a remnant of that feudal grandeur, which had made them at once, the formidable rivals of the prince, and the imperious tyrants of the people. The greater their power, [Page 57]the greater the distinction of ranks. Family pride kept even wealth at a distance. Vanity had not yet given the signal of union. The crown, no longer jealous, removed its barriers; but the nobility multiplied theirs, to separate themselves more completely from those who might have the insolence to pretend to equality.
In those times, licentiousness and freedom of manners were almost always regarded as the privilege of rank. The vices of the great were even a part of the oppression of the common people: we are seldom inclined to imitate those whom we hate. The manners of the court therefore could only be communicated to the chief magistrates, and to the rich. But the magistrates were secure in their austerity: living in the study, and in the exercise of justice, they astonished the court, and disdained its vices. With regard to the people of wealth, few were really wealthy; the shameful, or the recent acquisition of certain fortunes, did not permit the familiarity of pride with those who were; and luxury, which only [Page 58]can place the rich on a level with the great, was by no means general. The nobility had not yet need of trading with their names; and the traders had still less thought of purchasing titles.
As people of business and commerce were then much occupied in their respective employments, they had little time to lose; and, consequently, little knowledge of society. The manners of all who did not belong to the court were very unpolished; and that species of ancient rusticity was the greater bar to coalition, because it was an object of ridicule among the courtiers. The contrast of behaviour marked the limits of pride: the line was too strongly drawn to be mistaken; and neither party was willing to cross it.
Between the capital and the provinces there were not fewer barriers than between the ranks in life. The insecurity of travelling, the scarcity of great roads, of carriages; and, above all, the absence of luxury and factitious wants; and, of course, the absence in a great [Page 59]measure of that restless dissipation which hurries the present inhabitants from place to place, and which makes them run in crowds to the capital in quest of gold, of slavery, and of vice; by retaining every one under the roof of his fathers, contributed to preserve the manners of the nation.
But, under Lewis XIV. all things changed. The people of the court, having only titles without power, and being reduced from a real to an imaginary grandeur, mingled more freely in general society, and with the people of the city. The inequality of fortunes increased with the inequality of taxes. More value was set upon wealth. The great had more wants, the rich had more state; the poor, corrupted by their desires, had less virtue: all ranks approximated.
The magnisicence and luxury of the prince fostered these ideas. His courtiers, involved in debt by their loyalty, and ruined by their pride, soon came to caress those whom they despised. To preserve [Page 60]their titles, it was necessary to share them with families of inferior condition. Gold, extorted from the poor, became the mediator between the rich and the great. The magistracy itself was metamorphosed. All who resorted to Versailles partook of its manners. The difference of accent was lost in the polish of society. The rust of ancient manners disappeared. All orders of men mingled.
The provinces were deserted. The misery of the country, the luxury of the city; the ambition, the amours, the reputation of the prince, and his conquests; the romantic feasts of his court; the pleasures even of the mind drew every body to the capital. They went there in crowds; quitted there prejudices, blushed for their manners, and at once polished, enriched, and corrupted themselves.
It is easy to see what influence all these changes, and this universal intercourse must have had upon the women. Gallantry became the fashion, and freedom of manners a grace. Every body imitated [Page 61]the court; and, from one end of the kingdom to the other, the vices circulated with the accomplishments.
Another revolution accompanied that of the manners.
In a country where society and letters begin to be cultivated, a taste for literature must prevail among the women. But, as that taste is slowly formed; because the delicate feeling which discovers the natural and the graceful, and which enables us to paint them with truth, is acquired by habit; as we are apt to think that must be admired which has cost us much trouble, and that it must be the more so the less it resembles any other composition; as what is false often appears fine, because it presents a new colouring, and shades part of the object to make the rest spring out; as, in short, whatever is the prevailing humour is carried to extravagance, wit must at first be mistaken for genius; — the women, who attempted to distinguish themselves, invented expressions which were much admired, [Page 62]because they were little understood. They made use of singular words, when they were at a loss for ideas; and, to avoid being common, they became ridiculous.
Every thing contributed to this delirium: — the Italian and Spanish books, which were still much in vogue; the romances of Mademoiselle Scudery; the real admiration of what they called the PRECIEUSES; the conversations of the hotel de Rambouillet; in short, the society and the imposing name of Madame de Longueville; who, after being in the sweep and at the head of factions, old, and without lovers, as without cabal, amused herself in writing metaphysically upon love, and logically upon wit; and who tastelessly preferred Voiture to Corneille.
Moliere, by attacking with ridicule the learning of women, made not only its extravagancies, but the taste itself, disappear. Some women afterwards devoted themselves to letters, and some cultivated [Page 63]the sciences; but that spirit was by no means general.
In the most enlightened age, women were not permitted to be intelligent, without becoming the objects of derision. They were obliged to hide themselves to improve their minds; and they blushed on the discovery of their knowledge, as much as, in ruder ages, they had blushed on the discovery of an intrigue.
AS all good has its excess, and a proverb cannot need a reason; by associating what is ridiculous with what is respectable, the learning of women, like every thing else, may be brought into contempt. To examine the question however impartially, it appears, that in a country and in an age very remote from that primitive innocence which attaches the heart to the pure pleasures of retirement, and which makes us happy in the ignorance of every thing — but our duty; in an age when the general manners are corrupted by idleness; when all the vices mingle by dissipation; and when the virtues [Page 64]cannot be replaced, or supplied, but by the help of reason, instead of deterring women from instructing themselves, it must be necessary to encourage them. Not all the humour of Moliere had been able to raise a laugh against the lovely sex, on account of their learning if he had not substituted folly for wisdom. Socrates perished by such a misapplication of ridicule.
If Moliere, in place of ridiculing the abuse of learning in women, had exhibited an example of its happy effects, opposed to thoughtless levity and giddy amusement; if he had painted a woman, young and beautiful, whose mind was opened by a liberal education, and who retained all the graces of her sex; who could think deeply, but who assumed nothing; who covered her knowledge with a gentle veil, and who always had a facility of temper, a presence of mind, and an ease of manner, which made her most profound reasonings appear to be the result of nature; who could estimate and feel the greatest concerns, without being [Page 65]above the least; who prosecuted her speculations only to heighten the commerce of friendship, and render more exquisite the intercourse of affection; who, in studying and knowing the heart of man, had learned to have more indulgence for his weaknesses, and more respect for his virtues; who, in short, ranked her duties above all things, but her mental accomplishments next to her duties, and who only employed in study what may be called the VOID of life — the intervals of society, and the recess of domestic affairs, in bettering her heart by embellishing her understanding; — he would have done a real service to women, to virtue, to his country, and to the world.
But though the women under Lewis XIV. were, in general, laughed out of their passion for letters, the politeness of the age introduced a spirit somewhat allied to it, and which was then much in fashion, particularly at court. It may be called the TALENT OF SOCIETY: an amiable kind of genius which delights in [Page 66]light graces, which is fonder of beauty than sublimity, and which borrows few of its ornaments from science, or does it in so easy a way that ignorance cannot be jealous, and knowledge dares not blame; which throws out agreeable trifles, and which sometimes can bring itself to compose with elegance a few facetious or sprightly verses; which always charms in conversation, without seeming to aim at it; which pleases every body; which humbles nobody; and even when it shines most, which has a manner that pleads its excuse, and makes us perceive that it is free from ostentation or vanity. Such was the well-known genius of la Fayette, of Ninon, of la Suze; of la Sabliere and of Sevigne; of Thianges and of Montespan; of the dutchess of Bouillon, and of the fair Hortensa Mancini her sister; in short, of Madame de Maintenon; who, when young, was the delight of Paris, and till she inhabited a court, and was condemned to grandeur and to care *
[Page 67] After all these accomplished women, commended with levity by the poets, or gravity by the orators, there are still two, who, though of a rank and order different, arrived nevertheless at the highest celebrity. The one is the famous Mademoiselle de Scudery, who lived to the age of eighty-five, sixty years of which period she spent in writing with elegance some pretty verses, which are still admired, and with an amazing facility voluminous romances, which are no more read. These romances however were once able to turn heads; and the [Page 68]prejudice in favour of her manner was almost a match for the satires and taste of Boileau. The other is the learned Mademoiselle le Febvre, so well known under the name of Madam Dacier. Her merit, it is true, was not that of a woman, but she chose a good time to assume the character of a man; and, though she had not the manner of Ninon, she did not want her admirers. The two languages natural to her, were those of Terence and Homer; and madrigals were often sent to her in Greek and Latin. The most learned men in Europe conspired to sound her praise.
I say nothing of the other women who wrote about the same time. The catalogue is every where to be found. Besides, I speak only here of the women whose genius had a character, and who can serve to illustrate the ideas or the manners of their age. This is a picture, not a history.
The result of the manners, and the general character of the women of that age [Page 69]was, a voluptuousness united with decency; activity directed to intrigue; little learning; many accomplishments; a refined politeness; a remnant of empire over men; a respect for all the religious ideas, which mingled themselves with that coquetry of manners, and remorse always by the side, or in the train of love.
During the regency, and under the reign of Lewis XV. the manners underwent another revolution. The latter years of Lewis XIV. had shed over the court, and part of the nation, an air of dejection and melancholy. At bottom the inclinations were the same; but they were more repressed. A new court and new ideas changed all things. A bolder sensuality became the fashion. The desires grew more confident and impetuous; and part of the veil which covered gallantry was torn away. Decency, which had hitherto been respected as a duty, was not even regarded as a pleasure. Shame was mutually communicated—and mutually pardoned. Levity joined itself to excess; and a corruption was formed [Page 70]at the same time frivolous and deep, which laughed at every thing, that it might blush at nothing.
The ruin of families, and the shifting of fortunes, precipitated this change. Excessive misery and excessive luxury were the consequences;—and the influence of these is known. A sudden revolution rarely happens in the property of a people, without a quick alteration in manners.
For upwards of six centuries, gallantry had formed the character of the nation; but the spirit of chivalry always mingled itself with that sentiment; which spirit, inseparably connected with honour, gave to gallantry at least the RESEMBLANCE of love, and to vice as much of virtue as its nature is susceptible of. But when few traces of ancient honour remained, gallantry itself was lost; it became a sentiment which always supposed weakness, or endeavoured to produce it.
In the mean time, by that general sympathy [Page 71]which attracted all ranks, the taste for the society of women increased, and the intercourse of the sexes became more frequent. Hope grew more sanguine, as seduction grew more easy. The men every day associated less with each other; the women, less timid, threw off that decent reserve which is their honour. The two sexes changed characters; the men set too high a value upon personal charms, the women on independence.
As the youths were more anxious to be men of the world than men of business, they entered sooner into society. These young men, corrupted by the libertine part of the other sex, joined the faults of their age to those of their character. Having in general more desires than ideas, an empty head and an unprincipled heart,—inconstant through vanity, or multiplying their amours from idleness, — setting no value upon opinion, which for them indeed had no existence, —they communicated to a great number of women their vices and irregularities.
[Page 72] The irksomness of time, and the universal desire to please, spread still wider and wider the spirit of society, till the nation arrived at its present state of sociability and general intercourse, where manners and character are sacrificed to elegance and politeness, while virtue and sentiment are exchanged for pleasure and amusement.
SECTION VII. Of the Progress of Society in BRITAIN, and of the Character, Manners, and Talents of the BRITISH WOMEN.
WHAT polished nations understand by society, appears to have been little known in England, before the reign of Henry VIII. This backwardness may in some measure be ascribed to our continual wars with France and with Scotland: by our quarrels with the one we were shut out from foreign intercourse, and by our hostilities with both we were diverted from cultivating the arts of peace.
[Page 73] The spirit of chivalry, which produced such amazing effects on the Continent, was more weakly felt here. Edward III. had indeed established the order of the garter; but real wars allowed the knights little time for the mock encounter, or the generous visions of romantic heroism; and love was still a simple passion, which led the shortest way to its gratification, and generally in conformity with law and custom. It partook little of imagination; and, consequently, required few perfections in its object: it aspired neither at angels nor goddesses.
The women, who still retained all their native innocence and modesty, were regarded only as wives and mothers. Where qualifications are not demanded they will never be found: the accomplishments of the sex entitled them to no other character; and it had perhaps been happy for both sexes, if they could have remained in such a state of simplicity.
The Scots, by means of their alliance [Page 74]with France, which had subsisted for several centuries, and that spirit of adventure which has at all times led them abroad in quest of reputation, civil or military, may be supposed at this time to have been better acquainted with the elegancies of life than their wealthy and powerful neighbours: — and we actually find, in the court of James IV. a taste in music, in letters, and in gallantry, to which the great monarch of the house of Tudor and his haughty barons were yet strangers.
But the political state of both kingdoms was an insuperable bar to all liberal intercourse. The barons, or chiefs, were hostile to the court, from which they had every thing to fear, and nothing to hope; they were dreaded by it in their turn; they looked from the walls of their castles with a jealous eye on each other; they never went abroad but attended by a numerous train of domestics; they visited each other with the state, and the diffidence of neighbouring princes; their marriages were contracted from family motives, and their courtships were conducted [Page 75]with the greatest form, and the most distant respect. They took liberties indeed with the women of inferior condition, and they rioted in thoughtless jollity with their dependents: but the ideas of inferiority and dependence are incompatible with those of society and gallantry.
Henry VII. by curbing the hostile spirit of the Barons, by abridging their power, by diminishing their retainers; by extending commerce; by encouraging agriculture; by securing peace to his subjects, at home and abroad, prepared the way for learning, arts and elegance. But the taste of the nation was not yet ripe for their reception; and the temper of his son Henry VIII. was not highly favourable to such a revolution. That prince, however, by his taste for tournaments, fostered the spirit of chivalry; and, by his passion for controversy, he encouraged a species of learning, though not the most agreeable: by his magnificence and profusion he drew the nobility to court; who, since deprived of their [Page 76]judicial authority, had less business to detain them in the country; and, by his interviews with the emperor and the French King, he roused their emulation of foreign elegance: they were smit with the love of letters and of gallantry. The earl of Surrey, in particular, celebrated his mistress in his verses, and defended her honour with his sword, against all who dared with unhallowed lips profane her immaculate name.
The women in this reign likewise began to discover a taste for literature and politeness. The countess of Richmond, mother to Henry VII. and who survived him, had shewn the way. She translated two pious treatises from the French; and was a great patroness of learning. Elizabeth Blount, mistress to Henry VIII. was a woman of elegant accomplishments; and his last queen Catherine Parr, wrote with facility both in Latin and in English, and appears besides to have been a woman of address.
But the house of Sir Thomas Moore, [Page 77]whose eldest daughter, Mrs. Roper, has been already mentioned among the learned women of this period, seems in a more particular manner to have been the habitation of the Muses, and even of the Graces. He was possessed of all the learning of antiquity; he was pious even to weakness; for he appears to have given credit to the prophesies of the Maid of Kent; but neither his religion nor his learning soured his temper, or blunted his taste for society. His ideas of the female character would do honour to a gentleman of the present age. In an elegant Latin poem to a friend on the choice of a wife, he speaks to the following purpose. ‘May you meet with a wife not stupidly silent, nor always prattling nonsense; may she be learned, if possible, or at least capable of being made so. A woman thus accomplished will be always drawing sentiments and maxims out of the best authors. She will be herself, in all the changes of fortune; neither blown up with prosperity, nor broken in adversity. You will find in her an even, cheerful, [Page 78]good-humoured friend, and an agreeable companion for life. She will infuse knowledge into your children with their milk, and from their infancy train them up to wisdom. Whatever company you are engaged in, you will long to be at home; and will retire with delight from the society of men, into the bosom of a woman who is so dear, so knowing, and so amiable. If she touches her lute, and more particularly if she sings to it any of her own compositions, it will sooth your solitude, and her voice will sound sweeter in your ear than the song of the nightingale. You will spend whole days and nights with pleasure in her company, and you will be always finding out new beauties in her mind. She will keep your soul in perpetual serenity; she will restrain its mirth from being dissolute, and prevent its melancholy from becoming painful.’ — According to these ideas he educated his three daughters, whose virtues and talents appear to have merited all his care. They lived for some time in one house, with their father, their [Page 79]husbands, and their children, and formed a society, all things considered, which has seldom, if ever, been equalled, in any age or country; — where morals were sublimed by religion; where manners were polished by a sense of elegance, and softened by a desire to please; where friendship was warmed by love, and strengthened by the ties of blood; — while conversation, animated by genius; enriched by learning, and moderated by respect, exulting in the dignity of its objects, seemed to approach to that fine transport, which immortal beings may be supposed to feel in pouring out their contemplations of the wisdom and goodness of the Creator; and, when it condescended to treat of lighter subjects, wit had a spring, humour a flow, and sentiment a poignancy, which those who are eternally discoursing of trifles, who hover continually on the surface of the earth, and rove like butterflies from sense to sense, both in their lives and conversations, can have no conception.
The religious contests, the reformations, [Page 80]and the presecutions, which disfigured the latter part of the reign of Henry VIII. and which continued, with little intermission, till the death of queen Mary, were a great bar to the progress of elegance and politeness in England: but it may be doubted how far they were hurtful to learning or to manners. Both parties, and both sexes, were uncommonly zealous to distinguish themselves by virtues and by talents. Lady Jane Gray, and the three Seymours, who lived in this period, have already been mentioned among the ornaments of the sixteenth century. Queen Mary herself was a writer of no mean rank; and Mary Roper, grand-daughter of Sir Thomas More, and one of the GENTLE-WOMEN, as they were then called, of her majesty's PRIVY-CHAMBER, is said to have possessed all the learning and accomplishments of her mother. She must have done honour to the court.
The reign of Elizabeth is justly considered as one of the most shining periods in English history; and for purity [Page 81]of manners, vigour of mind, vigour of character, and personal address, it is perhaps unequalled.
The magnificent entertainments which that illustrious princess so frequently gave her court, and at which she generally appeared in person, with a most engageing familiarity, rubbed off the ancient reserve of the nobility, and increased the taste of society, and even of gallantry: but the masculine boldness of her character was unfavourable to famale graces. The women of her court, like herself, were rather objects of respect than love. Their virtues were severe; their learning, their talents were often great: they had passions, but they knew to suppress them, or to divert them into the channel of interest or ambition. They did not however want their admirers. Men were less delicate in those days.
Spenser, by writing his Fairy Queen, revived in Britain the spirit of chivalry, at a time when it began to expire on the continent, and Sir Philip Sidney, in his [Page 82]Arcadia, refined on that sentiment. The Fairy Queen was intended as a compliment to Elizabeth; and the Arcadia was dedicated by Sir Philip to his sister, the countess of Pembroke, the most amiable and accomplished woman of her time *
But the most remarkable women of this reign were the Lady Burleigh, the Lady Bacon, the Lady Russel, and Mrs. Killgrew, all daughters of Sir Anthony Cooke, and all distinguished for learning, genius, and virtue.
Elizabeth herself was a great and singular character. But she had few qualities to recommend her as a woman, though passionately fond of personal admiration; nor were her talents as a writer either striking or elegant, though she appears to have been ambitious of literary fame. [Page 83]Her ability as a soverign has been already considered, in treating of the talent of women for government. Her virtues were those of her rank, and of her age; and her weakness, those of her sex: yet they failed to render her amiable.
Mary queen of Scotland, (whose learning and accomplishments have been already mentioned) the cotemporary of Elizabeth, and her rival in beauty, in letters, and in sway, though a less perfect, is a more attractive character. While we blame her conduct she conciliates our affection. Even those who accuse her of guilt, must weep for her misfortunes; and will feel their bosoms swell with indignation against her inhuman subjects, and her persidious protectress, while they read her unhappy story, as told by her enemies.
The return of Mary to her native kingdom, after the death of her husband Francis II. with all the elegancies of France supperadded to the finest natural endowments, made the Scots hope, and [Page 84]not without reason, that literature, arts, and politeness, would arrive at perfection among them, as soon as in any northern nation. But the spirit of fanaticism, which awaked in Scotland about this time, which was attended with such amazing effects, and which spread itself over the whole island; which produced the death of the lovely Mary, of the pious Charles, and which terminated in the expulsion of the royal house, threw a cloud over the manners and the studies of that country, which two centuries have scarcely been able to dispel *.
The accession of James VI. to the throne of England, contributed still farther to obstruct the progress to civilization in Scotland, and to the decline of the arts in that country. The removal of the court, drew the nobility to London, to spend their fortunes, or obtain preferment; and men of genius and learning likewise looked this way.
[Page 85] That event, however, must have contributed to the advancement of society in England. Yet not so much as might be expected. The scantiness of James's revenue, together with his want of oeconomy, rendered him unable to support the splendor of a court. It was besides inconsistent with his maxims of policy, and with his temper. He loved to be social with his friends, but hated a crowd; and had rather an aversion to the company of woman. A mean jealousy, which took place of a generous emulation, between the Scots and English courtiers, prevented still farther the refinement of manners; which can only be effected by a liberal intercourse.
The nobility and gentry of England are still fonder of a country life than those of any polished nation in Europe: it prevailed much more then, and was highly encouraged by James. He even issued proclamations, containing severe threatnings against the gentry who lived in town. By these means the ancient pride of family was preserved. Men of [Page 86]birth were distinguished by a stateliness of carriage: much ceremony took place in the ordinary commerce of life; and, as riches acquired by trade were still rare, little familiarity was indulged by the great.
The king's pacific, or rather pusilanimous disposition, though it sunk the national character, was favourable to commerce, and not altogether unfriendly to letters. James himself was a scholar; but he was unhappy in a bad taste, which infected his whole court, and indeed the whole nation. He was fond of metaphysical quibbles, the jingle of words, and every species of false wit. Such a taste is in some measure inseparable from the revival of letters: we admire what is glaring, before we can discern what is beautiful; but the sanction, and even the example of the monarch, only could have carried it to such a height at this time in England. What induces one particularly to this opinion is, the comparative purity of the writers of the former reign. The contrast between the composition of [Page 87]Spencer and Drayton, is as great as between the character of Elizabeth and James.
The theatre, that great former of manners, and which is formed by them, had been founded by Shakespeare under the reign of Elizabeth: he was succeeded by Jonson and Fletcher. These writers have seldom painted the manners of their own country, and seldomer those of their own age; but, as they must have endeavoured to please the people for whom they wrote, and as they no doubt knew the taste of the public, we may discern that taste more perfectly in their compositions than in the barren records of the times.
In the writings of Shakespeare we find all the noble spirit of the virgin-reign. Love has its native importance; and little more: it is productive of the greatest events, when connected with circumstances: but, when a simple passion, its effects are feeble and transient. He seldom attempts to be wanton; but when his subject makes it necessary to reveal the secrets [Page 88]of Venus, he does it with as much freedom as if she were a common prostitute: be expresses his meaning in the plainest, and often in the broadest words.
But in the writings of Fletcher,—for I shall omit Jonson, as being a cotemporary of Shakespeare, and therefore less proper to mark the gradation of taste,—love has acquired an imaginary power: it is equal to every thing in itself; and seems to disregard those circumstances which alone can give it consequence; without which it is a boyish passion, that excites our contempt; but, connected with which, it is the strongest sentiment of our nature, and awakens most deeply the feelings of the human breast. He is frequently wanton, with a grace peculiar to himself;—for a genteel education and a good natural taste conspired to render him the most elegant writer of his age—he veils his idea beneath the delicacy of his language, or toys with it so prettily, that we often fall in love with a thought, which, rudely disclosed, could not fail to disgust.
[Page 89] We may therefore conclude, that the passion, or rather the commerce, between the sexes was increased; that it was ambitious of being thought more important than it really was; that it had purposes to carry which made such exaggeration necessary, that it had wishes to reveal which it durst not avow; and which, consequently, suggested the disguise of delicate expression. The duel, we know, had taken place of the tournament; and the intrigue, we may be certain, would not be long behind.
Under Charles I. a good taste in letters, in arts, and in society, began to prevail. The king himself was both a judge and an example of fine writing; and he was a lover of painting, music, and architecture; all which he liberally encouraged. But the religious and political disputes, which early in this reign divided the nation, and which brought about the death of the king, and the subversion of the monarchy, diverted the thoughts of men from every elegant pursuit. The dread of popery and arbitrary power, of [Page 90]slavery and eternal damnation, and the hope of heaven, and of liberty, threw the whole island into the most violent convulsions, and gave birth to some of the greatest geniuses, and called forth some of the greatest characters, in the history of mankind.
The cavaliers, or royal party, however, notwithstanding the horrors of civil war, maintained a gaiety of temper which was altogether astonishing, and a freedom of manners which too often bordered on licentiousness. But the republicans, though perhaps not infected with fewer vices, and those of a less amiable cast, discover so much vigour of mind, such a resolute spirit of action, a love of freedom, and a contempt of death, that we almost despise the polish of society,—even while we detest the cant of hypocrisy.
The most distinguished women of this period, in Britain, were the Duchess of [Page 91]Newcastle, Lady Pakington, and Lady Halket *.
Under the commonwealth the face of the nation was entirely changed; it experienced a revolution, as complete in manners as in policy. One would have imagined himself in a different world. The theatres were shut; games, sports, shews, and amusements of every kind were prohibited. Instead of the voice of [Page 92]mirth and joy, nothing was to be heard but groans, sighs, prayers, and spiritual songs. All liberal knowledge, ornamental learning, gentility of manner, elegance of dress, and all superfluity in eating and drinking were proscribed, as carnal vanities, and as the accomplices of sin and Satan. All ranks, ages, and sexes were confounded. The illuminations of the spirit placed all on a level. The leaders of the republic prayed, or exhorted one while, and listened the next to the meanest of the people. Women taught the brethren.
Those fair divines, by reason of their finer feelings and more vivid imaginations, were often carried into the most extraordinary severities, and the wildest enthusiasm. They were not contented with laying aside the allurements of their sex, with making a covenant with their eyes that they should not rove, and with crucifying their thoughts; they condemned themselves to humiliation and fasting, for the wandering of their hearts. Many of them considered cloaths of any kind to be improper. Whether this [Page 93]opinion proceeded from their looking upon dress as a luxury, or as unnecessary to the truely regenerate, does not distinctly appear; but one of them, animated by that persuasion, came into the church where the Protector sat, in the condition of our original mother before she plucked the fig-leaf, 'to be,' as she said, 'a SIGN to the people.'
The men in general held in contempt all books but the Bible; and some of them were even above using that: they believed themselves illuminated by the same spirit which inspired the sacred writings. One man, from the superabundance of this inward light, and a certain resemblance between his countenance and the common pictures of Christ, conceived himself to be the saviour,—no doubt sent to earth a second time, to collect the faithful, and begin his millennial reign *. He pretended to work miracles: to cure the sick, to raise the dead; and entered Bristol mounted [Page 94]on a HORSE—perhaps he thought an ASS too mean an animal, and that he had now a right to assume more dignity—while his disciples spread their garments before him, crying, 'Hosanna! to the Highest.'
Love under the commonwealth, was a mixture of cant and hypocrisy. Never was beauty so much in disgrace. It was not only denied all adventitious ornaments and excellencies, but even the advantages of nature were subject of reproach:—it was forbid to please; and it was criminal to consider it as an object of desire.
'Man,' said the godly.—for so they called themselves,— ‘is conceived in sin, and brought forth in iniquity; he is a slave to the flesh, till regenerated by the spirit; it was his complacency in woman that first wrought his debasement: let him not therefore glory in his shame, let him not worship the fountain of his corruption!’
[Page 95] The emotions of nature were considered as the struggles of original guilt; and beauty was viewed as a spell in the hands of Satan, to seduce the hearts of the faithful. The pleasures of the marriage-bed were only indulged as the means of preventing a greater evil, and of increasing the number of the saints; nor even then without fear and trembling, humiliation, and prayer, ‘that they might be separated from the CURSE!’
But the restoration of monarchy made ample amends to beauty for the indignities of the commonwealth. The reign of Charles II. may be considered in one light, as the most glorious era to women in the history of Britain, and as the most debasing in another. They were never so much caressed; never so little respected.
Charles himself had a susceptible, but changeable heart; a social temper; a genteel manner; a lively wit:—and his courtiers partook much of the character of their master. They had all suffered [Page 96]the pressure of adversity, the neglect of poverty, or felt the insolence of pious tyranny. They began to think that Christianity was a fable; that virtue was a cheat; that friendship and generosity were but words of course; and, in greedily enjoying their change of fortune, they sunk themselves beneath the dignity of men. In avoiding spiritual pride, and in retaliating selfishness, they departed from the essential principles of religion and morals; and, by contrasting the language and the manners of hypocrisy, they shamelessly violated the laws of decency and decorum.
Overjoyed at the return of their sovereign, the whole royal party dissolved in thoughtless jollity; and even many of the republicans, particularly the younger class. and the women, were glad to be released from the gloomy austerity of the commonwealth. A general relaxation of manners took place. Pleasure became the universal object, and love the prevailing taste: but that love was rather an appetite than a passion. Beauty, [Page 97]unconnected with virtue, was its object: it was therefore void of honour and attachment. In consequence of such manners, famale virtue, robbed of its reward, became rather a mode of behaviour, to inflame desire, or procure elevation, than a sentiment or principle; and, of course, sooner or later, was either sacrificed to inclination or to caprice.
But these observations, in their full extent, must only be understood of the court. The greater part of the gentry still resided on their estates in the country, equally strangers to the pleasures of the court and town; and one half of the island was filled with indignation at the vices of Whitehall. Nor without reason; for it was little better than one great brothel — and the stage, which generally takes its complexion from the court, was a continued scene of sensuality, blasphemy, and absurdity.
The free intercourse, however of all ranks of men, from the king to the commoner, [Page 98]improved the talent of society, and polished the language of conversation; gallantry, licentious as it was, produced a habit of politeness; and from the irregular, and even impious freedom of writing and thinking, sprung many strokes of real genius, and a liberal spirit of inquiry, whose researches and experiments have benefited mankind, and carried philosophy and the sciences to a height that does honour to modern times *.
The women of this reign, as may be expected from the taste of the men, were more solicitous about adorning their persons, than informing their minds. But the frequent intercourse between the sexes in some measure compensated that neglect. By such a commerce they became more easy, more free, more lively, and more capable of conversation, than the women of any preceding age. They had less learning, but more accomplishments; and perhaps, more genius. They [Page 99]wanted nothing but virtue to have made their memories immortal: and, notwithstanding the general depravity, there were some who trod the narrow path; whose taste and sentiments were uncorrupted, and whose names still live in their writings, and in the verses of their cotemporaries. Katherine Philips, (celebrated under the name of Orinda) Anne Killegrew, and Anne Wharton, employed their elegant talents in a manner suitable to their sex. The female wantons of most genius were Behn and Centlivre, whose writings are both their honour and their disgrace *.— Among the women of elegant, or spirited conversation, we should perhaps distinguish the Dutchess of York, the Dutchess of Cleveland, Lady Chesterfield, and the fair Hamilton.
The reign of James II. was too short to have any distinct character. It is only singular for the blind bigotry, and blinder [Page 100]disposition of the prince; which roused the minds of men from the delirium of pleasure, in which they had been lost, and brought about the Revolution.
Under William III. the effects of that change were visible on the manners. The nation returned to what may be called its natural state. An attention to just politics, to found philosophy, and true religion, characterize the era of British liberty.
William himself was of a gloomy temper, and had a dislike to the company of women. The intercourse of the sexes, and those amusements which are its consequence, were therefore little countenanced during his reign. By these means the ladies had more time for the pursuits of learning and knowledge; and they made use of it accordingly. Many of them became adepts in the sciences. Lady Masham, and Mary Astell, in particular, discussed with judgment and ability the most abstract points [Page 101]in metaphysics and divinity *; and Lady Grace Gethin, at the age of twenty, treated of life and morals with the discernment of Socrates, and the elegance of Xenophon. She is celebrated by Mr. Congreve.
The reign of queen Anne may be said to have been the summer, of which William's was only the spring. Every thing was ripened; nothing was corrupted. It was a short, but glorious period, of heroism and national capacity; of taste and science, learning and genius; of gallantry without licentiousness, and politeness without effeminacy.
We are in doubt which most to admire in the women of this reign, the [Page 102]manners, the talents, or the accomplishments. They were religious without severity, and without enthusiasm; they were learned without pedantry; they were intelligent and attractive, without neglecting the duties of their sex; they were elegant and entertaining, without levity; in a word, they joined the graces of society to the knowledge of letters and the virtues of domestic life—they were friends and companions, without ceasing to be wives and mothers.
In support of the foregoing character of the British ladies under the reign of queen Anne, we need only add the names of Lady Chudleigh, Lady Winchelsea, the honourable Mrs. Monk, Mrs. Bovey, and Stella *
[Page 103] Under George 1. the manners of the nation were sensibly changed; but not so much as the national spirit. The South Sea scheme, and other mercenary projects, produced a passion of avarice, and a taste of luxury, which prepared the way for all the corruptions of the following reign.
The delirium of riches was beyond what the most extravagant imagination can conceive. Any scheme, however absurd, met with encouragement, if it only proposed sufficient advantages. All ranks and conditions, and even women, resorted to 'Change-Alley, with the looks of harpies ready to seize upon their prey; but, in reality, the victims of their own credulity and sordid passions. The peers of the realm became stockjobbers, and its ministers brokers; public virtue was lost in the visions of private [Page 104]benefit; letters fell into contempt, though supported by the greatest examples of successful genius; love grew covetous, and beauty venal.
There were however, in this reign, many women of liberal and elegant talents; among the first of whom may be ranked Lady Mary W. Montague, so well known for her spirited poems, and ingenious letters.
Under George II. and George III. the debasement of mind discovered itself more fully in the manners. Corruption became general.
The Revolution had restrained the powers of the prince within such narrow limits, that a coalition of parties, or the absolute superiority of one, was essential to carry the measures of government; and, as the opposition, or country party, began to gather strength, the political machine was in danger of standing still by counteracting forces. It was therefore necessary that there should be an ascendency;
The Revolution had restrained the powers of the prince within such narrow limits, that a coalition of parties, or the absolute superiority of one, was essential to carry the measures of government; and, as the opposition, or country party, began to gather strength, the political machine was in danger of standing still by counteracting forces. It was therefore necessary that there should be an ascendency; [Page 105]it was likewise perhaps necessary that it should be on the side of the court.
At this crisis Robert Walpole, an artful and able minister, a lover of peace and an encourager of commerce, found means to increase the influence of the crown without enlarging the prerogative. But he did it at the expence of the virtues of the people:—and his example has been followed by all succeeding ministers. He took advantage of that spirit of avarice and luxury which he had fostered; the treasury was let loose at elections. A majority was obtained of the refuse of both parties; of men determined to support the measures of the court in desiance of conscience, honour, and honesty—and who were only formidable by the number of their voices. Places and pensions were multiplied to reward the mercenary tribe; and men of ability and integrity were deprived of their employments, to make way for those who were destitute of both. When virtue and talents are no longer the means of honour and preferment, they naturally disappear in the public [Page 106]walks of life; they are only to be found in the solitary shade. Character ceased to create distinction. The effect of such a want of sentiment may easily be conceived. Patriotism became the common object of ridicule; and virtue and genius were made the butt of ignorance, dulness, and profligacy. But people must always have something to be the foundation of self-applause. Instead of the essential qualities of men and of citizens, they valued themselves on a smooth address, and an absurd mixture of French levity and English gravity; on the splendor of their equipages; on the magnificence of their houses; on the richness of their furniture; and on the elegance and sumptuousness of their tables.
The ruin of many ancient families by the late visionary projects, and the excessive fortunes acquired by trade, contributed still farther to increase the general mass of manners. The pride of birth, the last barrier of corruption, was broken down. While people value themselves upon their ancestors, it is to be presumed, [Page 107]that their actions will not be altogether unworthy of them. The nobility courted the alliance of the wealthy, to enable them to support their state: they intermarried with the sons and daughters of commerce, without regard to character or accomplishments. Riches became the only idol of worship, and poverty the only object of contempt.
These however were not the only evils refulting from such a coalition. That respect to the higher orders of men, which is so necessary to preserve due subordination in a state, and that frugality and industry, which are so essential to the prosperity of traders, were at once destroyed by the union of the people of rank and commerce. The merchants soon vied with the peers of the realm, and the princes of the blood, in all the luxuries of life; and, by degrees, people of all conditions came to think themselves entitled to the same indulgence; till, at length, the nation arrived at its present state of sociability, luxury, and vicious refinement; in which all ranks, ages, and sexes mingle, [Page 108]and all aspire at the same pleasures and the same amusements; in which taste is a title to enjoyment, and money and admittance to every polite circle, and to every august assembly; to the ruin of manners, industry, public credit, and private faith; and to the increase of sensuality, idleness fraud villainy, violence, and all the licentious disorders of a corrupted populace *.
The manners of the two sexes, as has been already observed, generally keep pace with each other. In proportion as the men grew regardless of character, the women neglected the duties of their sex. Though little inclined to hoarding, they are not perhaps less disposed to avarice than men: gold to them is desireable, as the minister of vanity, voluptuousness, and shew. It became their supreme object, [Page 109]and the only source of the matrimonial union, to the exclusion of that tender sentiment which alone can give strength to the sacred tie, or pleasure to the nuptial state. The young, the beautiful, the healthful, were wedded — though not always with their own consent — to age, deformity, and disease; virtue was joined to profligacy, and wantonness to severity.
Such marriages were necessarily destructive of domestic felicity. The want of cordiality at home naturally leads us abroad, as the want of happiness in ourselves leads us to seek it in externals, and to torture imagination for the gratification of appetites, which, undepraved, are simple and uniform. New amusements, and societies of pleasure, were every day formed; new modes of dissipation were invented; the order of nature was changed; night and day were inverted; and fancy and language were exhausted for names to the assemblies of politeness and gallantry. Nothing is so oppressive as time to the unhappy, or thought to the [Page 110]vacant mind: these were not all enough They seemed afraid of themselves, and of each other. The husband had one set of visitors, the wife another; he prosecuted his pleasures abroad, she entertained her friends at home; or resorted to some place of public amusement, or private pleasure. In a free country, it is unpardonable in a man to accuse his wife without evidence, or to pretend to abridge her liberty; and the guilty are silent for their own sakes. It was often morning before they met at their joyless home.
A spirit of gaming, which mingled itself with dissipation and pleasure, afforded a new pretence for nocturnal meetings. Money lost at play must be paid somehow; it is a debt of honour: and, to preserve family-peace, it is to be feared that women of virtuous principles have often sacrificed something more precious than their jewels. At any rate gaming discovers the temper, ruffles the passions, corrupts the heart, and breaks down the strongest barrier of virtue, — a decent reserve between the sexes.
[Page 111] Love grew confident, as beauty became more accessible; and the freedom of manners permitted the warmest declaration without offence. The opportunities of gratification were infinite; the motives of restraint were few; and the temptations were many and great. A general tensuality was the consequence. Conjugal insidelity became common.
Men of spirit obtained divorces. But these, instead of enforcing the obligation of the marriage-vow, by the fear of public shame, appeared to have a quite contrary effect; they only propagated weakness: the seducing example of human frailty remained, the odium was forgot; while the equity of the sentence was disputed, or its severity blamed. Husbands were loudly accused of libertinism, and justly of neglect. The women continued to make reprisals, or make up their wants; the practice triumphed. Prudent men overlooked such liberties, when conducted with decency, which it must be owned was seldom violated; and good-natured husbands in general begin to [Page 112]adopt a polite opinion, which will least be conducive to a private peace viz. That a man is not more dishonoured by the AMOURS of his wife than by any other DEVIATION of taste, or than she is by those of her husband.
In short, unless manners take a turn, there is reason to belive that our British ladies, once so remarkable for modesty, chastity, and conjugal fidelity, will soon equal their sisters of France in impudence, levity, and incontinence; as we already rival our continental brethren in foppery, falshood, inconstancy, vanity, —and in all their unmanly pleasures, capricious appetites, and emasculating luxuries *.
But the fears of virtue are often groundless: fancy magnifies future evil, [Page 113]and overlooks present good: we have dwelt long enough—some may perhaps think too long—on the dark side of the picture. Our fair country women still possess many virtues, and more accomplishments. Their gallantries are at least regulated by a sense of decency: voluptousness wears its loveliest form; delicacy is the handmaid of pleasure: infidelity is oftener yet the effect of passion than of appetite; and elopements are stronger proofs of sensibility than the want of shame.
Notwithstanding the general relaxation of manners, the aversion to whatever is serious, the thirst of admiration, and the neglect of esteem, are at least of those qualities which produce it, there are in this age, in this island, and even in this city, women who would have done honour to any age or country; who join a refined taste and cultivated understanding to a feeling heart, and who adorn their talents and their sensibility with sentiments of virtue, honour, and humanity. We have women who could [Page 114]have reasoned with Locke, who might have disputed the laurel with Pope, and to whom addison would have listened with pleasure.
Even in the middle of opulence, and of that luxury which too often mingles avarice with state, which narrow the heart, and makes it at the same time vain and cruel, we see women who yearly set apart a portion of their substance for the poor; who make it their business to find out abodes of misery, and who number among their pleasures the relief of the orphan, and the tears shed in the consolation of the widow.
We have still wives, young, beautiful, and affectionate, who honour their vows, and in the most delightful of human connections offer the most enchanting spectacle of innocence and love; who are not ashamed to be mothers; who devote their happy hours to the tenderest cares of nature; who watch with anxiety, who press with transport, by turns, in their lovely arms, to their lips, and to [Page 115]their breast, the infant whom they nourish with their milk, while the husband, in silent joy, divides his fond regards between the mother and the child.
O that these sweet examples could revive among us nature and manners!— that we could learn how much the virtues, even for our happiness, are superior to the pleasures! — how much a simple, cordial life, where nothing is affected, where we live in ourselves, and in the objects of our sensibility, — where we enjoy by turns the delights of friendship, affection, and self-approbation, is preferable to that giddy and dissipated life, where we court continually a phantom which eludes our pursuit, or vanishes in our embrace! — Then the women would recover their empire; then beauty, adorned with virtue, would lead captive the hearts of men, — would restrain them from wandering, and teach them to be faithful, — happy in their servitude, and proud of their weakness; then a sine and blameless sensuality would season every moment of existence, and make life a [Page 116]delicious dream; then the pains of childbirth, unimpoisoned by remorse, a mother's pains, sweetened by love and participated by friendship, would be rather a conflict of tenderness than a torment.
Society, in such a world, would indeed be less busy; but there would be more domestic peace. There would be less ostentation, and more pleasure; less dissipation, and more happiness. We would talk less of pleasing, and we would please more. Our days would flow, like a pure and quiet stream; — and if, in the evening of life, we had not the sorrowful satisfaction of having reciprocated the softest feelings with a hundred persons — of whom we were unworthy, who were unworthy of us, or who had no share in our hearts — we would at least have the comfort to have lived with those we loved, and would sweetly sink to rest, conscious of having extracted from the pleasures of to-day a charm to mingle with the joys of to-morrow.
SECTION VIII. CONCLUSION.
LET us not however, dream of miracles; nor conclude, from the virtues of individuals, that the manners of the age are pure, or the characters of women in general respectable. Among a people where the spirit of society is carried so far, as it is at present both in France and in England, the domestic life must be little known. All the sentiments of nature, which spring up in retirement, and which are nursed in solitude, must be weakened. The women must therefore be less devoted to their original and most important duties; they must be less wives and mothers.
The manners now direct the prejudices, as much as the prejudices formerly directed the manners. The sacred attachments of love and friendship are exploded; they are banished to the shepherd and the savage. Why? — Because [Page 118]they are unpolite: they shew too great a preference; they pay to one, what is due to all.
The more the general tie extends, the more the particular ties are relaxed. We seem to be attached to all the world, and we are attached to nobody. Hence the increase of dissimulation and falshood. The less we feel, the more we appear to feel.
By a strange contrast, we are enraptured at the word SENTIMENT; — and all genuine sentiment is ridiculed. Perhaps we imagine, what we do not feel, does not exist; and, indeed, we sufficiently vindicate ourselves from the imputation of real sentiment, by the artful declamation which we substitute in its place.
The word ROMANTIC was never so much in use. This happy term affords a double feast to vanity: it excuses esteem, or justifies contempt, to the virtues which we want; and it prevents shame for the [Page 119]vices or the weaknesses which we have. It makes us content with our knowledge: we believe that we have estimated all things; and that we see both what man is, and what he can be.
We talk a great deal about pleasure, and we taste very little. The soul precipitates itself upon its objects, when it should keep them at a certain distance; desire is gratified, before it can awake the divinity of passion; the spell which enchanted the mind is too soon broke. Imagination turns cold, because it has nothing to create; illusion vanishes; sense grows dead. But what is sense, without passion and fancy?
The void which we experience, in consequence of false pleasure, and the want of energy in the soul, must have given birth to AMUSEMENT. the resource of cold hearts and empty heads; a word which is become important, and which must be ridiculous to the serious every time they use it; a word which implies [Page 120]what has no connection with virtue, and none perhaps with the senses.
That amusement, that inexpressible something, which is neither imagination, reason, nor passion, and which consists principally in forms, being the universal taste, all things must comply with it. The accomplishments are supposed virtues, and the vices are pardoned. Almost nobody has the boldness to censure guilt, when it wears the habit of the Graces. The mind is contracted; the heart is shut; and attention is busied about trifles. To please or to displease are become the great words of language.
As we are continually under observation, self-love, by being more roused, must be more keen; but the same spirit which rouses it, likeways restrains it. It is curbed, and it is stimulated; its secret is rather veiled than hid, — and yet is secure. The eyes of vanity are obscured by a mist, and the mutual feeling is willing to seem blind. Society is a sencing school or field of combat, where self-love encounters [Page 121]self-love, and where each are desirous to conquer without the air of emulation: they disguise their efforts, that their pretensions may not be suspected.
From this assemblage of folly, vanity, and falshood, must spring a restless levity in the commerce of the sexes, and a serious and busy mockery of passion. But what above all characterises the manners of the present age, is the madness of shew; the frenzy of sacrificing every thing to appearance; the importance assigned to little duties, and the value set upon little objects. We talk gravely of the trifles of to-day, and of those of tomorrow. The soul has a languid, and never satisfied activity, which expands it over a thousand objects without interesting it in one, and which communicates motion without impulse.
But if a taste for letters, and a delirium of talents, mingle with the giddiness of society, from such a combination must result other effects. Then a general passion of appearing informed must [Page 122]prevail, without the time, or the trouble to be so; then we must see a torrent of superficial knowledge, and a crowd of half-learned pretenders to science; a multitude of philosophical ideas, which men of genius throw out in retirement, and which are greedily seized by people of fashion, disputed, repeated, and scattered in polite circles; light conversations on profound subjects; the laws of genius settled, and a genius of memory, when we have nothing original; the establishment and the opposition of literary societies; pretensions of all kinds, and of all denominations; bold pretensions, cool and high pretensions, and cautious pretensions, with a mixture of reserve; the fury of reputation, oftener usurped than real; intrigue, flattery, and little arts to obtain it; in short, the art of praising, to be praised; the art of joining foreign merit to our own, and of procuring renown either by ourselves or by others.
As the general system of luminaries is greater, and as they communicate their [Page 123]influence more fully by motion, the women, without giving themselves any trouble, must be more enlightened. But, faithful to their plan, they only covet knowledge as an ornament to the mind, as jewels are to the person. They study the arts rather from a desire to please, than a desire to know, or from the pleasure of learning; and they read more for amusement, than for instruction.
Besides, in a state of society where the motion is rapid, and where there is an eternal succession of objects and ideas, the women, constantly occupied in following the scene, which changes and flies incessantly round them, must know better the ideas of the present, than of past times, and those which are fashionable than those which are just. They must therefore be better acquainted with the language of the arts than wich their principles, and have more unconnected ideas than useful or systematic knowledge.
It might perhaps be thought curious now to examine, what must be the consequence [Page 124]of such a mixture of ideas and manners, of levity and learning, of philosophy in the head, and libertinism in the heart: that however is too self-evident to afford room for much disquisition. It might likewise perhaps be thought curious, to compare the characters of women, as they at present exist in London, and in Paris, with those which they have had in different periods, and which they now have in different countries; with their sweet modesty in many parts of England; with their timid reserve in Scotland; with their tameness and want of passion in Holland; with their mixture of devotion and sensuality in Italy; with their warm imagination and keen sensibility in Spain; with their profound retirement in China, where they have been separated during four thousand years from the intercourse of men; in short, with the character and the manners which must result from their confinement in Turky, in Persia, and over almost all Asia, where they only exist for one man; where they can neither cultivate their character nor their reason; and, destined [Page 125]to have only senses, where they are forced by the absurdity of their condition to join modesty to wantonness, and coquetry to retirement:—But, to complete such a parallel, it is sufficient to have hinted it.
I shall therefore only observe, that in the present age there are fewer panegyrics on women than in any former period. The poets seem to have lost that delicate gallantry which was so long their character. They are either Cynics or voluptuaries. The prevailing taste for women, indeed, which is neither love, nor passion, nor even gallantry, but the cold and barren effect of a habit of sensuality, can neither rouse imagination nor sentiment. In our numerous and growing assemblies, in the eternal round of dissipation and amusement, where the sexes mingle with freedom, we learn to admire less, because we learn to be more severe. Self-love, judge and rival, sometimes indulgent through pride, but always cruel from jealousy, was never more vigilant in spying faults, or sowing ridicule. [Page 126]Praise is the result of enthusiastic passion; and never was there an age in which there was less than in this, though perhaps we affect more than our predecessors. Enthusiasm springs from a warm imagination, which creates objects in place of seeing them, and which heightens what it has seen. At present we see too much; in consequence of which we feel too little. Beauty obtrudes itself on the view: its spots are too visible; passion is disgusted; and fancy sickens for want of exercise. Female delicacy is lost. Vice is ranked in the number of our accomplishments. The less we esteem the women, the more we pretend to know them:—and they at present make such a language necessary. Every boy has more pride than to seem acquainted only with their virtues; and would be rakes, whose experience really reaches no further, that they may support a reputation with the sex, accuse them of more than human weakness, by contemptibly assuming a knowledge and a character to which they have no right.
[Page 127] Such, with regard to women, is the influence of that general spirit of society which they have inspired, and of which they do not fail to boast. They are like eastern monarchs, who are never more honoured than when they are least seen: by discovering themselves too freely to their subjects, they have encouraged them to revolt.
But, least the ladies should take offence at being compared to tyrants, I will give them a gentler simile; which I shall introduce with a short analysis of female society, as it progresses in countries where the soft affections exercise their sweetest influence. — In a state of nature, the company of women is little desired; their beauties are unveiled to every eye; and their favours are bestowed without courting. In the early periods of society, they are principally valued on account of their utility; their condition approaches to servitude; and little delicacy is observed in the commerce of love. As society advances, they are prized as objects of pleasure: conscious of their [Page 128]importance, they become more delicate of their beauties, reserved in their manner, and nice of their favours. Love grows jealous, and beauty undergoes a degree of restraint. But as the mind opens, and when society is better understood, such restraint is thought unjust — ungenerous to the partners of our dearest interests, our sweetest pleasures! — and inconsistent with that confidence which is due to love, to virtue, to mankind, and which is essential to our own peace. The freedom of nature is restored, within the pale of society. Beauty becomes more brilliant, more alluring, — but less engaging. Man ceases to adore what is familiar to his eye. Like her emblematic flower, the same sun that beholds the glory of woman may be said to be witness to her disgrace: her nature is too delicate to support the beams of general admiration; she opens her attractions too fully to the heart; she yields too freely her sweetness to the breath of praise; and, if she does not sink into her original neglect, she experiences a fate little more to be envied; [Page 129]she is rudely pluckt by every spoiler; and, when her virtues are evaporated, the pride of creation is viewed with contempt.
I shall therefore conclude with advising the gentle sex, to leave a remnant of authority in the hands of the men, and to keep a little reserve in their own; as the best means of securing the hearts of those they love, and the esteem of such as deserve it.
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