THE CURE of LOVE.
WHAT
Naso, Love's great
Prophet and his
Slave,
To
Rome in smooth harmonious Verses gave,
In
British Numbers (that abruptly flow
As
Albion's Streams down craggy Mountains do)
Lo, I attempt. And thou propitious
Muse,
That did'st the wond'rous Secret first infuse
Into his Breast, vouchsafe now to inspire
My youthful Song with the same heav'nly Fire.
Say what may tame the impetuous force of
Love;
What pow'rful Charm the smiling
Ill remove.
Say how the Captive
Youth himself may free,
And dying
Maid regain her Liberty;
Or how th' untainted, e'er it be too late,
May arm himself against a Lover's fate.
But now, methinks, the
fair Ones of our Isle
Mock my vain Labour with a scornful Smile.
'Tis true indeed, such pow'rful Charms they have,
As wou'd the most averse to Love inslave;
Make the cold
Hermit glow with inward Fire,
And in his Cell transporting Joys desire.
More finish'd Beauties never were design'd
By
Painter's Pencil, or rich
Poet's Mind;
[Page 16]So deeply skill'd in the inchanting Arts
Of kindling Love, and captivating Hearts.
Not that I wou'd their Empire quite destroy,
Or take from Beauty all its promis'd Joy:
I only wou'd suppress its Tyranny,
And have it conquer without Cruelty.
Beauty should like a blazing
Comet rise,
Excite our Wonder, and attract our Eyes;
But then its Lustre never should dispence
O're ev'ry Heart a baneful Influence.
It grieves me when I see th' unwary Young,
By
Nature form'd all healthy, gay, and strong,
Nourish a Viper in their tortur'd Breast,
Which with incessant Gnawings break their Rest;
See the fresh Roses from their Cheeks decay,
And all their youthful Vigour pine away.
Nay, the most daring, most Heroick Mind,
Intangled in Love's Snares too oft we find:
Whether 'tis caus'd by that more sprightly Heat,
That does his boiling Spirits animate;
Or whether
Cupid takes more Pride t' inslave
The gen'rous Souls and Courage of the Brave.
When therefore the first Symptoms in your Breast
Begin your wonted Quiet to molest,
When Infant-sighs, like Unfledg'd winds, begin
With gentle Breath to kindle Fire within;
When springing warmth around your Heart does play,
And a new Motion through your Blood convey;
Then straight the Undermining-Foe surprize,
And quell him, e're he can have time to rise.
Destroy the shapeless
Embrio, e're it be
Endu'd with Form and full Maturity.
[Page 17]Call sober Reason timely to your Aid,
And rest not till you have the
Spirit laid.
Had this been done by the
Phoenician Queen,
Aeneas never had her Ruin been.
But whilst she with her Sister does debate,
And with her Husband's Shades expostulate,
Her growing Passions like thick Mists arise.
Delude her Soul, and dance before her Eyes.
See, now she's lost, bewilder'd in her way;
She takes no Sleep by Night, nor Rest by Day;
But thinks it tedious vital Air to Breathe,
And there appears no present Ease but Death;
Death in the form of Love, all over Fire,
Is what her raging Fury does require,
Where Life and Love together may expire.
But if by thoughtless Inadvertency,
The first and best Occasion you pass by,
And the Disease has taken now firm hold
Of all within, and grown by use more bold:
'Twill cost you then much Diligence and Art
To ease the Throbbings of your sickly Heart.
By slow degrees you must your Peace secure;
And time, which made the Wound, must bring the Cure.
Stop not your Tide of Love with sudden force,
But for a while give way unto its Course:
For Rage resisted does unruly grow,
And scorns beneath the servile Yoke to bow▪
Oft have I seen a Flood, expanded wide,
O'er down-hill Meads with even Waters glide;
When with a Mound if we but urge its stay,
Proudly it swells, and sweeps all clean away.
[Page 18]Give then the Reins, if fierce your Passion prove;
Nor with cool Reason combat burning Love;
Like disagreeing
Elements they jar,
When e're they meet, proclaiming open War.
Wait then a fitter opportunity,
And in due time these Remedies apply.
Of all those Ills, that from unlucky Fate
Have pow'r the strongest Souls t' emasculate,
None worse than slothful Ease, which to avoid,
Intent on Business, keep your self imploy'd;
Business! the greatest Enemy to Love:
Business! that does all wanton Thoughts remove;
But Oyl the Flame, and Fuel feeds the Fire,
And Laziness increases fond Desire.
Since then the World affords variety,
Your self to some diverting Task apply.
If that your Soul be fill'd with Martial Rage,
And boldly dares in th' open Field ingage,
Oh! leave your
Mistress, and your Native Soyl,
And in bright Arms sustain Heroick Toil;
Inflam'd with Honour to the Camp be gone,
And follow where great
Nassau leads you on.
There on the dusty Plain with Labour sweat,
Patient of
Winter's Cold, and
Summer's Heat;
For
Englands Peace undauntedly advance,
And teach Subjection to Aspiring
France.
Oh! who would think of am'rous foolish Toys,
Amidst the heat of Fight and Warlike Noise!
When the fierce Steed does from his Eyes dart Fire,
And from his furious Nostrils smoke expire!
When rattling Drums and ecchoing Trumpets sound,
Rouse Courage up, and baser Fears confound.
[Page 19]The Tempest past, appears fair
Victory
Like
Venus, rising from a stormy Sea:
On th'
English Standard see she does alight,
And gladly fixes there her doubtful I light.
Iö Britania, Iö Poean sing!
Whole Groves of Verdan Laurel hither bring,
Crown thy brave
Youth, and thy victorious
King ▪
But if you dread the
War's tempestuous Breath,
And care not for the bloody Trade of
Death;
Perhaps ingenious Curiosity
May tempt you o're the Limits of our Sea;
Since wisest Men by foreign Converse find
Their Knowledge, and their Manners too, refin'd,
By reading Men they sounder Learning gain,
Than those, who musty Volumes entertain.
Besides, what Satisfaction 'tis, to see
The Monuments of fam'd Antiquity!
Here a vast Pyramid (through roiling Years,
Free from th' injurious hand of Time) appears:
Inscrib'd with Antique Characters, to tell
What mighty Monarch rais'd the Miracle:
Deep in the Earth its firm Foundation lies,
Its Head doth seem to prop th'impending Skies▪
Who could but view with Wonder and Delight,
The most stupendious
Babel's impious Height!
Or huge
Colossus, whose Gigantick Stride
Press'd down th' aspiring Rocks, and aw'd th' impetuous Tide!
Each day affords new Objects to the Eye,
Delighting Fancy with variety:
New Earth appears, suspended in new Skies,
And diff'rent Stars in diff'rent Countries rise.
[Page 20]The change of Scenes sets off the tedious Play,
And takes the dull Fatigue of Life away.
But you perhaps may think th' Advice severe,
Not suiting with a dying Lover's Care.
I must confess, from what one loves, to part,
Would almost break the most obdurate Heart;
But yet at first some Pain you must endure;
A sore Disease demands no easy Cure.
You must tug hard before you break the Chain,
That does the freedom of your Soul restrain;
For Love will thousand fair Pretences make,
And for your stay will all occasions take;
The Weather's bad, the Wind is very high;
Who knows what dangers in the Sea may lye?
Your very Feet will treach'rous to you prove,
Unwilling from the Threshold to remove;
And now at parting, the expiring Flame
Will larger grow —
But break th' Inchantment with a firm resolve,
And
Sampson-like the slavish Ties dissolve.
When going, turn not back your longing Eyes
On the fair Object, which your Heart does prize,
For in a farewel-glance strong Magick lies.
Tho' the relenting Dame should kinder prove,
And promise to reward your suff'ring Love;
Nay, tho' she beat her snowy Breasts, and spread her Arms,
And practice all the cunning Sexes Charms,
Regard her not; tho' Virgins Tears (they say)
Have pow'r the Rage of Tygers to allay.
Alas, despairing
Circe! all thy Art
And pow'rful Magick cou'd not keep the Heart
[Page 21]Of wise
Vlysses; deaf to all thy Cries,
He quits the Shore, and ploughs the watry Skies.
Oh! whither (said she) whither wouldst so fast?
Why from these eager Arms dost make such haste?
Stay but one moment— and I'll charm the Seas,
And by my skill th' outragious Winds appease.
But rather trust to the tempestuous Main,
Then undergo a Lover's racking Pain:
And tho' there's dread in e'ery yawning Wave,
Yet raging
Flames not half
their Mercy have;
Nor Lightning, darted by an angry
Iove,
Has pow'r of scorching like the Fire of Love.
But if Affairs of greater weight demand,
You shou'd not leave your Home or Native Land;
Within the Circuit of this Isle there are
Imployments may divert a Lover's care.
Some to the fam'd
Augusta's Inns withdraw,
Delighted with the Knowledge of the Law;
'Tis fine to learn the Rules of Equity,
And study Justice most impartially;
To plead the Orphan's Cause with Eloquence,
And right the Tears of injur'd Innocence.
But if your Soul to Wisdom does aspire,
And universal Knowledge you desire;
To venerable
Cham's learn'd Streams resort▪
Where
Phoebus with the Sacred
Nine keeps Court.
There within peaceful
College-walls reside,
Forget that e're you serv'd a Woman's Pride,
Or vainly for a haughty Beauty sigh'd.
Here no Intriegues of busy Love are known,
No foolish Cares molest the studious Gown.
[Page 22]All Nature's Works, and Nature's Deity,
Imploy our Thoughts and Curiosity.
How very pleasant, Learning, are thy ways!
Much lighter than a Crown are Wreaths of Bays.
But here take care of Charming Poetry;
For if your Mind be not from Passion free,
The Muses softning Language will increase
The Dying-rage, and nourish the Disease.
Avoid th' inspired
Cowley's am'rous Lines,
And read not easy
Waller's gentle Rhymes:
From
Dryden's Moving-Tragedies abstain,
And
Lee's and
Otway's more pathetick Strain.
But above all things, you shou'd never chuse
To write, or tamper with a Love-sick Muse;
She'll lead you out to Groves and purling Streams,
And entertain your Fancy with gay Theams.
Most Poets are by some strange Destiny
Condemn'd to Love, as well as Poverty.
If then your Genius bent, shou'd lead you on
To visit the clear Streams of
Helicon;
Stifle the Flame at first, or else, like Love,
By kind Indulgence 'twill more vig'rous prove.
Perhaps in Rural Sports you'd spend your Days,
Preferring Quiet to the City's Noise:
The Countrey most agreeing Past-time yields,
When the gay Spring paints o'er the smiling Fields,
Or when rough Winter, envious of their Pride,
With chilling Snow does all their Glories hide.
The Woods, the Meadows, and the Crystal Streams,
For ev'ry Season have their proper Gains.
To chase the Forest-Deer affords delight,
And with swift Dogs to urge their swifter Flight;
[Page 23]What brave, what manlike Musick is there found,
When Hills, and ecchoing Vallies do resound
With the loud Op'nings of a deep-mouth'd Hound!
They that have follow'd this diverting Game,
Were never troubl'd with a
Cupid's Flame:
For rough
Hypolitus ne'er felt Love's Fire;
Diana knew no fond unchaste Desire;
The Virgin
Daphne from
Apollo runs,
And with disdain his fierce Embraces shuns;
The God pursues, and in his longing Arms
A Laurel clasps, instead of Beauty's Charms.
But now my Muse refresh thy weari'd flight,
And take a view, so pleasing to thy sight!
So grateful to thy self! so innocent!
So full of solid Pleasure, true Content!
Of Paradise's lovely Bosom sing,
And what Diversions fertile Gardens bring,
Inamel'd by the curious hand of Spring.
When Heav'n its Image did in Man express,
To make his Life compleat with Happiness,
Fair
Eden then it added to his store;
So great the Gift, that it cou'd give no more.
With daily care to Cultivate the Earth,
To watch the pretty Flow'rs fragrant Birth,
To shade 'em from the scorching Eye of day,
And with refrshing Water make 'em gay;
In time to prune the too-luxuriant Vine,
Round the tall Elm her spreading Arms to twine,
When
Autumn comes, her burden'd Boughs to ease,
And from the Grape its Racy Juice to squeeze:
These are Imployments may divert your Pain,
And all your wonted Liberty regain.
[Page 24]Your Garden love, of that your Mistress make,
And ev'ry Flower for a Beauty take;
Court 'em each morn, when they their Sweets disclose,
And ravish Kisses from the blushing Rose;
How fresh its Colour!
naturally Fair!
Its Breath divine, perfumes the ambient Air!
But here one Caution take, else ling'ring Love
Will never from your anxious Breast remove:
If pleasant Walks, and private Grottoes, made
To cool the raging Dog-stars heat with shade,
Add to your Gardens costly Ornament,
And seem to be so full of sweet Content;
Shun their alluring Flatteries, for there
Black Melancholy dwells, and deep Despair,
Love's direful Furies. Oh! you're quite undone,
If they accost you thoughtful and alone!
From Solitude, when tir'd with Labour, fly;
And seek Diversion from good Company.
When Time draws on, that weary Mortals steep
Their fainting Spirits in refreshing Sleep,
Repair not to your Bed before the Nod,
And drowsy Summons of the
Midnight God:
Within the Curtains are a num'rous Train
Of Thoughts, that rack a wakeful Lover's Brain.
When fair
Aurora smiles on th'
Eastern Skies,
Shake off your Sloth, and from your Pillow rise;
Nor basking on your Bed at Noon-day lye,
For busy
Cupid then stands laughing by,
And with a thousand wanton gay Desires.
Revives the Flame, and blows the dying Fires.
What has been said already may release
Your Mind perhaps, and by degrees give ease.
[Page 25]But if your Passion does so highly rage,
That no Diversion can the Heat asswage;
Look on your Mistress with a Critick's Eye,
And narrowly into her Failings pry;
Whether kind
Nature does to her impart
Her Charms, or if she borrows them from
Art.
But yet suppose all Graces shou'd combine
To make your Lady's outward Form divine;
Think what unseemly Passions may controul
The hidden Temper of her inmost Soul.
Few can the fair One's Inclinations see,
Till
Hymens Torch reveal the Mystery.
And oh! that Man, the stately Lord of all,
Shou'd down before a gaudy outside fall!
Reverse of Nature! shall I whine and sigh,
And for a faithless sensless Woman dye?
With Arguments like these be resolute,
And sly insinuating Love confute.
But now when to unty the Knot you come,
Let it not be in Heat and Anger done,
But in a mild and gentle Calmness part;
For Rage but shews the Anguish of your Heart.
And if you grieve, be sure your Grief beguile,
And clear your Count'nance with a seeming Smile.
O
Antony! had'st thou this cunning known,
And not thy Weakness to a Woman shown!
By brave
Ventidius see the Inchantments broke,
The General throws off his Servile Yoke;
Well-mounted now the
Veterane Troops he heads,
And fir'd with Courage to the Battle leads.
But see, curs'd Fate!—The Charming Queen appears,
Graceful in Sorrow, beautiful in Tears:
[Page 26]Oh, my lov'd Lord, (said she) my
Antony!
Why from your
Cleopatra do you fly?
Are you so bent to follow loud Alarms?
Sure War cou'd never boast of Beauty's Charms!
Are these soft Arms too weak to keep you here?
Or has my Fondness made you so severe?
Go then.— At that his conquer'd Courage reels,
And panting Heart pathetick Motion feels;
Stern
Mars must to the Suit of
Venus yield,
And for her Bosom leave the dusty Field.
All the fair Sex have learnt that Eloquence,
To make themselves appear all Innocence:
When e're they please, their Eyes dissolve in Tears,
And wash away the jealous Lover's fears.
And now you think your Mind is disingag'd
From that fierce Passion that within it rag'd.
Tho' all things seem well setled in a Peace,
And all Intestine Broils and Discords cease;
Of a Relapse amidst this Calm beware;
'Twill make your State more desperate by far.
If the Disease return, you may despair
Of perfect Health, no Physick can repair
A second Breach; then with due Caution arm
Against th' Invasion of so great a harm.
Keep always out of sight, avoid the place
Which your fair Foe does with her Presence grace;
For Love will through the Eye its entrance find,
Into the dark Recesses of the Mind.
No pledges of your former Vows detain,
But to the Virgin send 'em back again.
Burn all your kinder Letters from the Dame,
For ev'ry Line will your Desire inflame.
[Page 27]On Pleasures past you must not ruminate,
Lest that to more shou'd Appetite create;
Love, like habitual Sin, will fainter grow,
The longer you refuse its Joys to know.
Yet all this Counsel is of little use,
And hardly can a perfect Cure produce
Without a Diet too, which to rehearse,
Shall be the last performance of my Verse:
Deny your self of all luxurious Food,
That with prolifick Heat inflames the Blood;
The Body pamper'd will at length controul
The chaster Resolutions of the Soul.
Taste not the tempting Liquor of the Vine,
But bid adieu to the free Joys of Wine.
What tho' it sparkle in the Glass, and smile?
Like faithless Woman it destroys the while!
To quench your Thirst, and Nature satisfy,
To Crystal Streams and living Fountains fly.
Some vainly think that they may use a mean,
And not from
Bacchus totally abstain;
But (credit me) the sober Glass will prove
The most prevailing Argument to Love:
For he, that with immod'rate Wine destroys
His Vigour, seldom thinks of Beauty's Joys.
A little moves, but too much slakes Desire,
As Piles of Fuel quite put out the Fire.
My Task is ended, and methinks I see
Th' awaken'd Youth shake off their Lethargy
Of Love. And now each Lady wonders whence
Proceeds the cause of this indifference;
Consults her Glass, and questions if her Face
Retains its Features, and its wonted Grace.
[Page 28]
Love's Empire falls, no more do we invoke
His Deity, and make his Altars smoke.
See what tormenting Fears disturb the Boy,
What racking Cares the vanquish'd God annoy:
With folded Arms he stands, and drooping Wings,
And wide his Bow and useless Arrows flings
No fev'rish Sighs now swell the Virgin's Breasts,
No dire Despair the lovely Youth molests;
But both from pow'rful Verse receive their mutual Rest.
So the young
Prophet with his tuneful Lyre,
Did raging
Saul with gentle Thoughts inspire;
The angry
Daemon listen'd as he plaid,
Grew wond'rous mild, and his soft Notes obey'd.