A SERMON Preached at Stanton-Harcourt Church, In the County of Oxford; At the FUNERALL Of the Honourable the LADY ANN HARCOVRT, Who Deceased Aug. 23. 1664 Together with Her Funerall Speech.
OXFORD, Printed by A. & L. Lichfield, Printers to the Vniversity, Anno Dom. 1664.
To the Right Worshipfull Sr PHILIP HARCOVRT Kt. Of Stanton-Harcourt, in the County of Oxford.
IN obedience to Your Commands (for such to me are your requests) and that I might give a publike testimony of my gratitude for all your Favours, and bounty towards me, I have Pressed the ensuing Sermon for Your Service, & prefixt Your Name, as having the greatest right thereto.
Tis the first Sermon, of this kind, that ever I made, and I hope 'twill be the last on so sad an occasion. I acknowledge that not long before, at the intreaty and tears of two poor Orphans, and the importunity of their Friends, I (having, God is my witness, no other end then charity, to save the distressed Orphans charges, and Bury their dead Father decently) Preached at his Funeral, a Sermon made long before upon another occasion. This innocent act, some have endeavoured to asperse, pretending (as you have heard) that some Men of [Page] worth and note, have highly censured me for it. Which I cannot believe; 'tis below their worth to wrong open innocence. Indeed we read of a man of a great Name ( Alexander) that wronged St Paul; but of no worth, he was a Copper-smith. I cannot think men of worth, let their names be never so great, will take up here the Tinkers office, 'tis too smutty for them.
Sir, the Coare lies here; Your pitching upon so worthlesse and inconsiderable a person as my self, for such honourable imployment as this, has begot a heart-burning in some narrow breasted persons, which breakes out into such kind of groundless aspersions: as if I affected popularity, and Pharisee like desired to be seen and heard in publick: whereas (the Lord knowes) I no more delight in it, then the deformed Cripple, to be seen on a Theatre. Had I sought this honour, so much grudg'd me, I acknowledge I had justly deserv'd the censure of being arrogant: had I deny'd you, who, that knowes my obligations, could accuse me of lesse then high ingratitude? I am confident, persons of farre higher worth were invited first to this noble task, and tis our unhappyness we injoy'd them not; their high parts would farre better have become this Scene: but, but let me say, none could have more pathetically performed the part of a mourner then my self. Many might have done it with greater skill and parts, but none with stronger affection.
[Page]Sir what I here have brought, is so mean, that with greif and blushing I present it. I know your goodness will bate it something, upon the score of grief, that stupefyes, and at that time I was overwhelmed with. You must expect nothing that's florid either in Sermon or ensuing Speech.
Non est conveniens luctibus ille color.
I presume you'l find truth plain and pertinent in them both. The last is justly culpable, non in regard of what is, but what is not (that ought to be) said: All there is generally known to be truth; but that All, amounts not to Half of whats due to Her you justly loved so dearly. However, knowing that your modesty had rather I erred on this, then the other extreme; and presuming your generosity will courteously accept of weak things well meant; I humbly put my self at your feet, and this poore thing into your hand, and begge nothing but your pardon for it: Doe Your Self, and it that right, in reading it as to agnoscere quod Dei est, and vouchsafe the Authour the favour as to ignoscere quod hominis est, so will you eternally oblige
THis Sable Sceane bespeakes our sorrow and has drawn us hither, as you see, to tread the mournfull stage this day in a drooping stateliness, whether we are come to pay the last kisses of an honourable farewell, in a tribute of tears, justly due to the Herse of the Lady ANN HARCOVRT.
For this end, I have chosen this apposite Text, which when I have repeated, I may close my book, sit down in sorrow, and in tears take up our Saviours words and say, this day is this Scripture fullfilled in your eies.
It sounds like thunder in all our eares, and like a thunder bolt thrown from the hand of the Almighty, seemes to shiver that soul of her nearest relation, who erst while was giving it up to her, that She might live.
But that must not be, Heaven's decree must be as well obey'd as fear'd, which speaks this [Page 2] day, as it did to this holy man of God here in my text; Son of man behold I take away the desire of thine eyes with a stroak.
The Text is a sorrowfull and unexpected, but peremptory message from God to the Prophet.
In it we may observe, the Agent, and the Patients. The Agent, God. The Patients are, 1 the Prophet the looser, and the Person lost his Wife. But we shall take the words as they fall, wherein there are these Five things observable. 1. The Title given to the Prophet Son of man. 2. His duty injoyned him, imply'd in the word behold. 3. The Authour of this, l. 4. The sad message exprest take away the desire of thine eyes. 5. The manner how, with a stroak. Of these I shall breifly touch in their order.
1. Of the Title given to this eminent servant of God, Son of man, in the Hebrew tis ben Adam. Adam, was the name of the first man, the father of mankind, and he had his name from red earth, out of which he was formed. This Name, though it be common to his posterity, yet since the fall, the Scripture useth thereby to denote the weakness or the wickedness of man, as Iob 25.6. Bildad styles ben Adam, a worme, i. e. a weak inconsiderable creature, non solum quia sicut vermis ex corruptione nascitur; sed quia abibit tandem in vermes. Pineda ex Philip. A creature of no [Page 3] continuance, or stability, wormes meate. In 1 Sam. 26.19. there, ben Adam, signifies a wicked man: If they be Children of men that have stir'd thee up against me, Cursed be they: there bene Adam signifies wicked men, the incendiaries of a King against his loyal subjects are wicked men, and deserve to be accursed. Likewise in Ps. 57.4. my soul is amongst Lyons, even the sons of men, i. e. wicked men.
The Hebrew language wants not words to set forth a man of worth; they style him ish, from esh, Fyre, importing Life, Spirit, and Vigor inhi Ps. 49.2. We find both here mean men, and men of worth set down under a various expression: gam bene Adam gam bene ish; which our English for want of fit words have in our language rendred both high and low, but learned Tremelius more aptly in the Latine, tum nati plebeo homine, tum nati praestanti viro. After the same manner the Grecians distinguish of men; they call the vulgar men by the name [...] which comes [...] a suspiciendo sursum. i. e. he looks upward for help, being helplesse in himself, but men of worth and quality, they called [...] because [...] vitruous. We find both these in Herodotus speaking thus, [...]. There are (saith he) many men, but few virtuous magnanimous men in the world.
[Page 4]But can there no better title be found for Ezekiel, then ben Adam, which is a diminitive title at the best? His Name, Birth, worth, and Parts be speak him great; his Name, saies Origen and Hierom, signifies Dei imperium, seu fortitudinem Dei, and such as his name was, such was he, strengthned by God, and mighty with him; his Birth was Honourable, and his Parts, and Piety answerable to his birth; St. Hierom on Ezek. c. 47. calls him for his profound parts, Scripturarum Oceanum & mysteriorum Labyrinthum, & in another place, sui seculi portentum. Epiphanius and Adricomius say he was an eminent Martyr: Certainly with men, he was great; but now God comes to speak to him, he'l make him know that he is but ben Adam, a poor, weak, helpless, inconsiderable creature, full of sin, and imperfection.
Obs. 1. When God comes to deal with men of high degree, and eminent parts, He'l make them know they are but low, worthless, meane and helpless creatures.
Great men in Learning, are apt to idolize their guifts and indowments; they, for the most part, sit without the gunshot of controll; few dare say to them, what dost thou? they have more flatterers then friends, who, as sutors for their favour, by their flattering applauses, stand like magnifying glasses before them, and make [Page 5] them seem bigger then they are. Thus Herods eloquence must be extold to the skies, and he deified. A Scholer that by his parts has got the popular applause, how strangely, oft times, may we observe him to be puffed up, how he states it, and struts it in his fancy, thinking the heads of his betters, scarce ground good enough for him to put the sole of his foot upon. Tis not only so, with men of great guifts, but graces also; which made our learned and religious Fox say, he got hurt by his graces, and good by his sins, His graces puffed him up.
Thus also tis with men of great Wealth, as Solomon observes, the rich mans wealth is his strong city, which he opposeth to any right or reason; it exalts them in their thoughts and words; might, and power, and honour, and majesty, is the common dialect they discourse in. Dan. 4.30. Is not this great Babylon that I have built by the might of my power, and for the honour of my majesty. Hence it comes to pass, that they quite forget themselves; and now God comes as their remembrancer.
Iob was a man eminent in guifts and graces, and so highly confident he was of them, that in the end of his last defence Iob 31. he challengeth God to come forth against him: and in c. 38. God comes forth to coole the courage and pull down the confidence of Iob; now you find Iob [Page 6] chap. 24.6. alter'd of a sudden. He that shone in his integrity before, like the Sun; when devine brightness appeares, now goes out, he shrivels himself now to nothing, and creeps into the dust again from whence he came. * I abhorr my self in dust and ashes.
Thus doth God, when he comes to deal with men of great power and wealth, he humbles them, he makes them know themselves. So he dealt with that lofty King Nebuchadnezar, he made him know that all his honour and wealth and power, was not in his own keeping, and he makes him confess it.
St Hierom observes in his Hebrew questions on 2 Chron. 24.17. that King Ioash being exalted to the Throne, Adoraverunt eum ut Deum, & acquievit eorum obsequiis delinitus, ut se ut Deum coli permitteret. Hierom. became so proud, that he permitted himself to be worshiped as God. And Cassian observes, that God punish'd him with such loathsome diseases that all his freinds forsook him, and God did it, saith he, Instit. lib. 16. cap. 21. Ut carnis ignominiosa contagio patefaceret immunditiam cordis ejus occultam, quam superbiae mal [...] contraxerat, ac manifesta pollutione corporis probaretur impurus, qu [...] elatione spiritus factum se non sentiebat immundum; [Page 7] that the ignominious contagion of his flesh, might open the secret uncleaness of his heart, which by the evil of pride he had gotten, and by the manifest polution of his body, he mihgt be prov'd impure, who by the pride of his heart did not perceive himself to be capable of polution. When great men wil make themselves Gods, God will make them know they are but a lye, they are bene Adam, gods of red earth, and unto that their godships must return: And when God comes to sit amongst these gods, he'l make them know so much. Psal. 82. I have said ye are Gods, but ye shall dye like men.
This should teach men of great guifts and graces, and those of high place and eminency, to carry themselves humbly, remembring always that ther's one higher than They, that always eyes them. He is no respector of persons, he hates pride in great men as much as in men of low degree, and when he comes to deale with the Mighty Monarches of the earth, he'l make them confess as Nebuchadnezar did, that those that walke proudly, he is able to debase them; He'l not spare any be they never so neare or deare to him. The blessed Virgin herselfe the Mother of our Lord, if She meddle with things to high for her, though Christ as man be her Obedient Son, yet as God he will sharply rebuke her, 2 Ioh. [Page 8] 4. Woman what have I to doe with thee? these words (what ever the Papists and some other say) are acknowledged by the Fathers to be a sharp rebuke. 'Tis v [...]x indignationis says Athanasius and Chrysost. 'tis vox reprehensionis, Athan. Serm. 4. adv. Arian. Chrysost. Hom. 4. in l [...]c. Aug. l. 2 de Symb. c. 6. Irenae. l. 3. cap. 18▪ says Augustine: 'tis vox repulsae, says Irenaeus. I conclude this then with the words of the Psalmist, blessed is he that feareth always; 'Tis the safest way for great men in gifts and eminency to walk in a reverential feare, and holy awe of him who is higher than they.
I pass from the title given to the Prophet to the duty injoyned him.
2. Behold, [...] hinne God was now about to bring the dreadfullest National judgment that ever befell Judah. The Temple of Solomon, the Arke of the Covenant, together with the City and its glory, are now to be taken away from them, which was the delight of their eyes, and the crown of their glory. And as a certain and infallible signe of this, God will by a sudden and heart cutting stroake upon the Prophets family make that the type of it; and therefore the Lord injoynes the Prophet here to behold it.
Behold. It implyes attention joyned with trembling & wonder. And then, behold, so as certainly [Page 9] to be assured of what I am about to doe: so much the word in Scripture carryes in it.
2, Obs. God's severe judgments upon a family or nation call for our most serious attention. This is that God looks for from his people when he afflicts them, Isay. 22.12, 13: at such a time the Lord by his afflictions calls for weeping and mourning and guirding with sackcloath. This the Saints have practised, Ps. 119.120, my flesh trembleth for fear of thee, and I am afraid of thy judgments. If the Lyon roare the beasts of the forrest tremble, and shall not the creature tremble when the Creator thunders out with his judgments upon them?
'Tis sensless stupidity, madness, and folly to be smitten by God in our Persons, relations, or families and not to feel it, not to grieve for it, nor bewaile it.
He that thinks to gain the name of valiant by a sturdy outfacing his greif under the afflicting hand of God, is quite mistaken, for he shall but gain amongst the wise the name of frantick and fool hardy mad-man; so says St. Augustine, Gloriatur de viribus propria voluntatis tanquam de stupore morbi, non de robore sanitatis, insania oft ista gloriatio, non est patientiae sed dementiae, August. de patient. cap. 23. Hear how the Prophet Ieremiah complain [...] of such, cap. 5. vers. 3. Thou hast smitten them [Page 10] but they have not sorrowed, they have made their faces harder than a stone, there is no stone so hard but the hammer will break it, but God's hammer of affliction did not break them▪ Moses smote the rock and it gushed out water; but God smits the hard harted sinners in their relations, estates, and no penitential waters flow from them; these are such desperate sinners, that they seem to be past hope of recovery; there is as much hope of a clod of earth to be made rational as these to be reclaimed, and the same Prophet insinuates as much, 22. Ier. 30: when he leves sensless sinners and cries out, o earth, earth, earth, hear the word of the Lord, whats the word? why write this man childless, a man that shall not prosper; he is rather an inanimate clod, than a man hat takes not to heart such judgments; yet such stocks there are that are twice dead, the [...]r consciences being feared with hot irons of hell; mark the doome of such desperate contemners of God's judgments; since God intended them as instruments of their convertion, and they abuse them, 22 Isay 13; insteed of mourning and weeping there was joy and gladness, slaying of Oxen, and killing of sheep, eating flesh and drinking wine, let us eate and drink for to morrow wee shall dye. Surely this iniquity shall not be purged from you till yee dye; after contempt of God's judgments upon us comes death.
[Page 11]Oh beloved take heed how you carry your selves under the hand of God afflicting you. Behold it with such serious meditation of the goodness and severity of God, as that it may raise up sutable affections in you, Rom. 11.22. Eye his severity with submission, fear and trembling; eye his goodness with adoration and thankfulness. Behold them so as to bewaile them, chiefly the cause of them. Though fooles may make light of such doleful dispensations, yet the prudent will lay them to heart, Amos 3.6.
But what is it, the Prophet is injoyned to behold?
This leads me to the Third thing observable in the Text; which is the object matter of the injunction, which is:
The Judgment exprest, with the Author and the Manner of it: we cannot seperate them.
The Agent, is the Lord, I, the Soveraign of the vniverse: The Judgment express'd, is, take away the desire of thine eyes: The manner how, with a stroak.
The desire of thine eyes. I'le omit the various readings of the phrase, since they all agree in the sense▪ The desire of thine eyes, is thy Wife, a wife being to every virtuous man the delight of his eyes, the only amiable and delightfull object God in the world hath given him; nihil [Page 12] enim (saies Hierom on the place) vire, vxore bonâ amabilius, quae a Deo homini providetur.
She might be the desire of his eyes, as a beautiful person; and without sinne, since by instinct of nature all men owe a kind of homage to it; beauty being the guift of God, as heathens and Christians grant; * hac tua sunt, domine, bona sunt, quia tu bonus ista creasti. 'Tis the bountiful advantage of divine creation says Tertullian, and the comely ornament of the Soul; 'tis to the gracious Soul as a rich enamel to a choise jewel.
As she was (which in charity we may judg, being a Prophets wife) a gracious Woman, she might be the desire of his eye, and joy of his heart. Or merely as she was his Wife, she might justly be the desire of his eyes, 1 Cor. 11.7. St. Paul says, the Woman is the glory of the man. How his glory? That he should be the head of a creature equal to him, in understanding, will, liberty, and in all other divine privileges, as wisdome, grace and glory, of which she is capable. To be the head of so excellent divine a creature, is the top of his glory. She is (says Salmeron) in [...]gne viri ornaementum. So that she might well be, as his Wife, the desire of his eyes.
[Page 13]Well, be she so to him, however, God is now about to take her away, but how? by a stroake, morte repentina, suddenly, some think by the plague, but thats uncertaine, the word being of general use for all the Plagues in Egypt. However twas suddainly, for vers. 18; he preacht in the morning to the people, and she dyed in the afer-noone.
Now lay all this together, and what a sad face of sorrow will here appeare? That she who was his Wife, and the bosome Friend, the Cabinet of his heart, where he safely layd up all his secrets, his Comforter in sorrow, his Physician in sickness, his loving and pleasant Friend in prosperity, and his sure and trusty Friend in adversity: That she should suddenly, unexpectedly, be taken from him; That she who last night layd her lovely face in his bosome, and with her loving armes embraced him, should this night lay them in the grave; What can we gather hence? Will fruit be found upon such thorns as these? Yes, from these thorns we may gather these grapes.
3. Obs. That the choisest comforts and the dearest imployments of this life are uncertaine and mutable.
And then for the circumstantial aggravation of this affliction, 'tis on a sudden, and the Prophet is cal'd upon to attend. Who would not have gladly shut his eyes, and [Page 14] stopt his eares at this? but 'tis otherwise, the Prophet is call'd as 'twere to stand at the block while the fatal blow is struck, he must behold it; the good man nearest concern'd, must be the chief spectator.
4. Obs. That God oft times exerciseth his choise and eminent Servants with most sharp and sore temporal losses and afflictions.
Lastly, As this affliction was a type of future judgments to come upon the nation observe.
5. Obs. That many times sharp afflictions on the godly are certain presages of the wickeds judgment at hand. we return to the 3d Obs.
3. Obs. That the choisest Saints of God can call none of these earthly enjoyments certain good things: God can take them away by a stroak, they are mutable. Riches are God's blessings, but they make them selves wings and fly away as wel from Saints as Sinners, as well from Iob as Nebuchadnezar. He that to day had his table spread with dainties, that could wash his footsteps in butter, to morrow may have none to put in his belly. This word, take away, spoiles all. If God the great houskeeper of the world say, take away, before we have halfe satisfied our selves, the full table is presently voided, and then (as Hugo Victor, in Psal. 24.) dum gustu appetitum provocant, [Page 15] transitu desiderium fraudant. Whiles they provoke the appetite to tast of them, they deceive the desire in their sudden departure.
A good wife is a great blessing and guift of God, but they we see are uncertain to.
Faithful Abraham's Sara the wife of his bosome dyes away from him. And holy Iacob's Rachel, beautiful, and best beloved Rachel, fruitful Rachel, this fruitful tree is cut down in the time of fruit bearing.
A good name is the greatest of temporall blessings; Christ had it most deservingly, yet he could not keep it; they counted him a wine-bibber, a friend to Publicans and Sinners. They layd to his charge two of the higest crimes against first and second table; blasphemy, and usurpation. They accounted of him but as a Magician, on that wrought by the Divels help.
Our time of living here, 'tis the choisest tallent that we have, upon it depends our eternal woe or welfare. Life, it is that which gives the main injoyment to all the comforts we possess. Who can define it? he best defin'd it that did not define it, that sayd, 'twas nescio quid, a certain sweet thing I know not what, 'tis beyond all paralel; yet see what the Scripture says of its uncertainty; 'tis compared to grass, to the flower of the field, that is subject to be eaten up by Cattel, or trodden down, or [Page 16] gathered by the Passenger. If it outstand these, ere long it blossoms, withers, and dyes; such is our life, in our best estate we are altogether vanity, because uncertain and mutable, Psal. 39.5: therefore Solomon in Prov. 31.8. calls the Sons of men, bene haloph children of chang.
Iob compares our life to a Post, a Ship, and an Eagle hasting to her prey. Observe the climax: a Post makes hast, stays not, rides night and day; but he will at last tyre, and then he must ly down: therefore he takes up a stronger comparison, and compares our life to a Ship sayling, that tyres not: but wind and tyde may faile and then she stands still; therefore he compares our life to an Eagle, sharp set in pursuing her prey. An Eagle is the swiftest and strongest of long wing'd Hawkes, what flyes stronger and swifter than she? Such is our time here, it flyes away upon a swift wing, and death when it makes a stoop at us maks no canceleire.
Well then, since all our earthly injoyments are of no certain continuance, lets learn hence these three lessons.
Be not vainly confident in the possessing of them; 'tis a vanity in a great Person to build strong presumptions upon worldly props that are tottering and weak; the Psalmist excellently turnes their hearts outward, Ps. 49.11 that the [Page 17] posterities to come may decline that vanity; he speaks of worldly rich men, and tels you their purposes, thoughts and designes; God has blest them with estates and prosperity; and now their inward thought is that their houses shall continue for ever; doe they think to live for ever? no, but they intend their posterity shall live for ever, and keep up the state and grandure of the family, therefore they call their houses after their name, says he; they think, now God has blest them with a numerous off-spring, that nodosa quadam aeternitate, their name shall be kept up for ever: but what says the Psalmist, this their way i. e. their contrivance, is their folly, vers. 13: to build such high presumptions on such rotten props is their folly: and they find it so, for in the next words, says he, they goe down to hell like sheep, and death feeds on them: How like sheep? why, like as silly sheep in a fat pasture, feed and play, and fear nothing, though the Butcher come and fetch away, now one, then an other; which startles them for the present, but that being over, they fall to feed and play again, until the Butcher by little and little fetch them all away at last. So doe these worldly Confident men, who are fed to the full, and have enough to keep up greatness to posterity, who securely, wantonly and haughtily, vant it in their thoughts that they shall continue for ever; find death like a Slaughterman ever and aanon [Page 18] come amongst them, now taking a daughter, then a son, anon a wife, 'till at last all the props they trusted in be taken quite away. How oft doe we see it come thus to pass, that many great families are quite taken away from their great estates (like sheep out of a fat pasture) and the estate passes into an other name and family. I will conclude this with that wise King's counsel, Pr. 27.1. Boast not thy selfe of to morrow, for thou knowest not what a day may bring forth. The word halal signifying to boast, signifies also to be madd. q. d. 'tis madness and folly in men of wealth and greatness, to think to build their nests among the Stars, when they are not sure of injoying any thing they have a whole day. The family of Eli, which was the greatest in Israel in the morning, its props were cut down ere night, and the rest destin'd to perpetual beggery; And Iob liv'd to see himselfe in one day stript of all that he could call good in this world. The Chaldee therefore reads the text thus, for thou knowest not what this day may bring forth. That day that Belshazar was priding himselfe in his greatness, he fell. Let me speak then to you rich and great men in the Apostles word, Charge the rich in this world that they be not high minded▪ nor trust in uncertain riches. The more confident you are, the less secure, especially if you belong to God, qualibet elatio tanto citius [Page 19] rumpitur, quanto amplius inflatur. Greg. Ep.
2. Moderate your affections to the world, and the things of the world. You are certain of nothing but this, that you have not long time in them. We are no free-holders here, at most but tenents at will. You that are great Lords of Lands you may set for three lives: but you your selves have but one in your estates, and that a short uncertaine one. Observe the inference, Paul draws from this, the time is short, 1 Cor. 7.29. What then? not, Let us eate and drink, for to morrow we shall dye; but, Let them that have Wives be as if they had none, and they that weep, as if they wept not, and they that rejoyce, as if they rejoyced not, and they that buy, as if they possessed not, and they that use this world as not abusing it, for the fashion of this world passeth away.
The time is short, for so much as remaines of it to be folded up; so learned Beza and Pareus read it, making no comma in the words, [...]. Beza so reads it from the authority of many ancient copies. Paraeus saith, the Apostle useth here a metaphor taken from sayles ( quae cum navis prope portam est, contrahi solent. When the Ship comes neare her port, the Saylors take in the main sayles, leave only one small one abroad then.) So that the meaning seems to [Page 20] be this, that time which hath for 5000 yeares been furling up, is now drawn into a narrow compass, the end is at hand, we are entring the haven of eternity: if time be short, then all the things that depend upon it are short: if time it selfe shall be no more, after a few dayes, then all these things we injoy must be no more: Then 'tis high time to moderate your affections towards houses, lands, children, wives, and every thing you possess, for they are not to be yours after a few dayes; use the world as a Pilgrim his Inn, saith Augustin tract. 40. In Iohan. Utere mundo quemadmodum viator in stabulo; utitur mensa, calice, urceo dimissurus non permansurus: and the Argument in the close of the Apostles words is cogent; For the fashion of this world passeth away, [...] ▪ the pageantry, the shew, the things of this world are but mere outside things; like a pageant, gold without and pastboard within; and then, they pass by as a shew that goes along the streets: its soon gone▪ The heathen could say of worldly things, hoc unum scio omnia mortalium opera mortalitate damnata: inter peritura, vivimus: Sen. Ep. 91. Oh beloved, think oft with your selvs what it is you so dote on, you so love, so insatiably thirst after; why tis that that is vanity, & of no continuance. Who would venture his life, for the gathering a flower that he [Page 21] knowes will soon wither in his hand? Tertullian wonders at the Romans, that they should indure such hardship, and run such hazards, to gain a Consulship, which was but for a year; 'twas but, saith he, unius anni volaticum gaudium; may not we much more wonder at Christians, who spend all their time, wits, strength and spirits, to enjoy that which for ought they know, is but unius horae volaticum gaudium; for ought they know, God may say, this night shall all be taken from thee.
2. Since the choisest of our earthly enjoyments are perishing, mutable and uncertain: Let this teach us to put a true estimate on those things that are eternal, that are perminent. Had the Young Man in the Gospel, but consider'd, what was promised him, if he would sell all, he would, no doubt have cheerfully performed what Christ required. Twas Treasure in Heaven was promised him. The least treasure of heaven is worth all the worlds possession, because eternall: had the young man put eternal into the Scale with his great possessions, they would have seemed no more great in his eye; But this curse of the young mans, is that which falls upon us; men are like bruit beasts, wholely taken up with sensuality, and devoted to temporall things; but the things which are not seen, which are eternall, are contemned [Page 22] and slighted and laught at; their carnall minds are enimies to such things, they are foolishness to them: the reason is, because they see no farther then what they sensually apprehend, they cannot see (as St. Peter says) a farre off; and therefore men affect, what they sensually apprehend, which can goe no higher then sensuall things, things which are seen, which are temporall.
Pray therefore, again and again, that God would inlighten your minds, by Faith, to see the excellency of things that are eternall; nothing but this, will lessen the world to you; what are great possessions, honours, crowns, to eternity? to be made a King for a day, and ever after a begger; what comfort can this be? but he that hath an interest in Christ, is made a King for ever; what is it to have an hour, or two's pleasure, and ever after live in a dungeon? these profits, pleasures, honours, riches, are but for a moment, and leave a sting behind them, but the pleasures, profits, honours, of heaven are eternall; life eternall, Ioyes and pleasures at his righ hand for ever more, Crowns incorruptible, and many such Scripturall expressions. This made Moses throw away his honours, titles, court favours. Heb. 11.24. Aegypts treasures: and what did he exchange these things for? he exchanged these things for suffering, [Page 23] v. 25. for reproaches, for the wrath of the King. Reason would think the man madd. Indeed had this been all he had exchanged for, he had been of all men most foolish and miserable; no, Moses could see that Aegypts greatness, power, dignity, was uncertain; had he been invested in it all, it could not long have continued: that would have gone from [...]im, or he from that. But he, v. 27. saw him that is invisible, by faith he looked to an eternall reward, to the favour of an eternall King. How little doe Wives, Houses, Honours, seem to that soul, that by faith, sees an eternall Bridgroom, a House eternall in the heavens, and an eternall Crown fitted for his head; they seem no more then Mole hills to mighty Mountaines.
From the circumstantial aggravations of the affliction to this holy Prophet, as the nearness, and dearness of the person taken from him, the suddenness of it, with a stroak, and the certainty of it, God himself saith it, and who can reverse? and the Prophet that was nearest concern'd, must be the first informed of it, and the chief spectator of this dreadfull blow.
Obs. 4. That God oftimes exerciseth his choisest servants with sharpest afflictions, with heart cutting lashes of providence, and that suddenly, unexpectedly,, and very heavily.
In handling this (which I cheifly intended) [Page 24] Ile doe these Three things: 1. Shew that 'tis so, 2. Why 'tis so, 3. Apply it.
1. That it is so, Scripture examples prove it. Examples of this, are as old as the world. So soon as God set up a School, a Church, in the world, we find a severe rod in it; 'twas signed with the Crosse in its infancy. We may begin with Adam and Eve (the true servants of God we beleive:) When God had blest them with an off-spring, the greatest of temporall blessings, therein sweetning their sorrows with the pleasure of society; no sooner are the two Sons (the Crown of their Parents glory, and the ground of their future hope) grown to be usefull to their Parents, but they are both in a moment taken from them; the one by murder, the other, by banishment: Thus their Sun sets at noone: Abel the delight of their eyes, is become the mornfull object of their tears; probably this their dear son, was one of the first gastly sights of death that they had seen, which must needs be irksome: the Son of their joy, is become the subject of their sorrow, their Cro [...]n of glory, is quickly turned into a Crown of thorns.
Abraham a faithfull servant of God, a choice one, yet we find him loaded also with the Cross, has he rich kindred, and great and fair possessions, richly seated? he must leave them all, and [Page 25] turn Pilgrim: has he a beautifull and beloved Sarah, the wife of his bosome, the desire of his eyes, the one half of himself? we find Gen. 12.1 to 10. his fear to be such (amongst Barbarians not groundless) that he sacrifices this half of himself to their lusts, to keep his other half secure: this must need be a heart cutting act: how hard was his condition that whiles, think you, that was inforced upon such inconveniencies to seek his bread.
Trace him on in the passage of his life, and every step he treads, almost, is upon a thorne. Pregnant Hagar, from whom he hoped to have issue, must be turned out of doors; no fruitfull tree must stand in his Orchard long: Lot his kinsman and companion, growes to great to stay with him, they must part to prevent further mischeif. Hagar's receiv'd again, she brings forth an Ishmael, Abrahams joy; but of a sudden root and branch muh be pluckt up, and thown away, they must goe into perpetual banishment. But now the heart peircing affliction of all coms upon him; Isaac the son of the promise, the prop of his future hopes, the delight of Abraham; and Sarah's eye, the joy of their lives, and the very marrow of their souls, must now by the command of God be sacrificed, and who must cut his throat, but the Father that begat him.
[Page 26] Iob the Servant of God, none like him for piety, nor any like him for sufferings. He that was so rich in outward good things, was in a day bereftof all, and made poor even to a Proverb. But the soul peircing affliction was, the taking away his seven Sons & three Daughters with a sudden stroak; the staff and comfort of his old age was broken in a moment. Reflect a little, you that are Parents, upon this affliction. Would it not be think you, a sad sight to see one of your godly neighbours following ten of his childrens herses to the grave at once? Iobs case is yet worse, for he must first pull his childerns torn limbs out of the jawes of this cruell Lyon, he must repleive them out of deaths hold, before he could lay them in natures bed, the grave: he must go forth now to stare on grisly death drest in its most gastly shapes: Here he must pluck out one dear child in his gore blood, there another with his limbs broken and mangled, here a Daughter ded in her Brothers armes, there another, but which he knows not, her wounds have so disfigur'd her; perhaps another, or two anon he finds gasping out their last, and then expiring for want of timely succour▪ are not these things probable: but throw away these black surmises, and at the best, judge how sad would it be for a man to have Ten children all alive and lusty in thee morning, and all of these to be laid dead [Page 27] at his feet before night! this was holy Iobs case This to our purpose is observable as an aggravation of all his afflictions, they are brought in with a kind of behold, to the good man; one still is let escape, to bring the unwellcome news to him. read Iob 1.
David a man after Gods own heart, design'd for greatnesse from his youth: he had as fair a stock to begin with, as ever man had, he was both honoured and beloved at once of all the people, the city and the country, the army and the court, all they cry up David for the only Worthy, and high deserving man, they all put the garland upon his victorious brow, the King gives him his Daughter to Wife. Who in his condition would have dreamed of crosses? But alas! his rise is intended for his ruine. Saul intended to make a halter of his garland; the Court had like to have been Davids charnall house; Davids fingers did not play there so quick upon his Harp-strings, as Sauls envy plaid upon Davids Heart-strings. On a sudden the desire of his eyes, his new betrothed wife is taken from him, he banished the Court, and inforced to fly for his life; he that was yesterday the Kings son in law, is to day proclaimed Traytour. Thus tis evident, that God hath exercised his choisest servants, with sore and unexpected crosses and afflictions.
[Page 28] Reas. The second thing to be inquired into, is, Why God thus exerciseth them?
To give a reason of the various dispensations of his providences to men here below, is so grand a mystery that reason cannot find it out. This Iob excellently cleares. C. 28. v. 12. he propounds the question, and in the following verses answers it, that tis not by humane invention to be found out, the depth saith tis not in me, and the sea saith tis not in me, neither can gold or precious stones purchase this knowledge. That it should goe well with the wicked, and ill with the Godly, hath not only stagger'd the Heathens, but hath made sometimes the Saints in a pett to quarrell at it. Psal. 73. v. 2. to 13. it made David repiningly say, I have cleansed my heart in vain, for all the day long have I been plagued; and when he seeks to know the reason of this, v. 16. he confesseth 'twas to hard for him. What does he doe in this case? v. 17. he went into the sanctuary of God. So let us, to find a reason of these things, and there we shall find that the alwise and gracious Father, sees affliction necessary for his choisest servants, in order to their good. Nulla causa (saith August.) probabiliter occurrit, cur justi homines in hac vita laborant, nisi quia hoc iis expedit. Tis needfull for them to be afflicted.
Ther's a twofold good, Privative, and Positive [Page 29] that God aimes at in afflicting his servants.
1 In order to their privative good, a necessity of afflicting them ariseth from two evils that the best of Saints are infested with in this life: Sin within, and Temptations without.
1. Sin with in them: Originall sin is still an inmate in the regenerate; though it be pardoned & mortified that it shall not reign in them. They attain (saith Aug.) to a ne regnet, yet they doe not (as he saith) attaine to a ne sit of s [...]n: The reliques of the old man still remaine in us, it came with us from the womb, and 'twill bear us company to the grave, till death part us. Though the tree be cut down, the root remains, and will without diligent watching sprout, and bring forth bitter fruit to our sorrow: as it did in David and Pe [...]er, and other Saints.
God whose spirituall eye lookes through and through us, sees in the best of us many secret enormous lusts, as pride, covetousnesse, luxury, spirituall sloth, hypocricy, security and the like, which we in our prosperity discerne not; that lye in our breasts secretly and hiddenly, like Toads and noisom vermin in dark sinks and sells, which we walk over unconcerned, because we see them not. Now God calls to Saints in their prosperity by his providences, (for they have a voice) and by the ministry, to clense [Page 30] these hearts and cast out these vermin, that are a provocation to the pure eyes of his holynesse. How oft has God by his word called to us, Love not the world, nor the things of the world; Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouthes, No vnclean person shall enter into the kingdome of heaven, Remember thou & all thy family to keep holy the Sabbath, Pray more constantly, Be more fervent in prayer: God calls but we turn the deaf ear, and slight these calls of God, and God observes it. Ier. 22.21. I spake to thee in thy prosperity, and thou saidest, I will not hear: Now God in mercy for prevention is inforced to take his rod into his hand.
2. God is necessitated to afflict his people for the prevention of evil that would arise from temptations without us; for Saints are not free from temptation neminem prorsus Dei gratia facit intentabilem, saith Gratian.
There are two Tempters, the Divil and the World, without us.
1. The Devil, 1. Pet. 5.8. He goes about like a roaring Lyon seeking whom he may devour, like a Lyon he's greedy, subtill, active, and powerfull, he lies alwaies at the catch for us; but because he has not immediate power over us, he useth, as his bait,
2. The World, the other temptation, which [Page 31] holds out, as a rich Marchant its guilded ware, the lust of the eye, the lust of the flesh, and the pride of life; this holds out the baite, that layes the snare: the Divel baites his hook with that he thinks our constitutions will soonest bite at, and so catches us: So he caught David with the lust of the eye, so he caught Solomon with the pride of life, and lust of the flesh.
These pleasures, and profits, and honours of the world, are usually the Saints greatest tempters; for the concomitants of ease and plenty, are luxury, carnall confidence, security, which draw off the heart from God, dull their appetite to spirituall things, take off their hunger after a Sacrament, and make them neglect coming to it, coole their affections, and allay that ardency which should be in prayer. As the best ground brings forth the rankest weeds in the heat of sommer, when the Plow is still & comes not over it; so many times, doth the warmth of prosperity, cause many lusts to break forth in the lives of the Saints. Raw fruit breeds worms in healthy persons: so doe worldly pleasures excite lusts in the best Saints many times, as loosnesse, wantonnesse, and pride; let David have but a little ease, and his mole-hill presently growes, in his proud fancy, to be a mountaine. I said in my prosperity I shall never be moved; what ranck blood, did a little prosperity breed [Page 32] in this holy man? his successe in warre, and strength of allyes raised in him presumption, that nourish'd lust, lust stole his ardency of affection from God, and that intercepted his confidence; and now his mountaine has stole his heart from God, was it not time for God to set his mountaine on fire about his eares, in raising Absolom against him, that he might fly back to the rock of his salvation. You see God is necessitated f [...]om the evils that are within the Saints, and from the tempters without them, to afflict them for their good privatively.
Now from Gods afflicting the Saints, there ariseth a threefold privative good.
1. God by afflicting them, redresses sin in them, it makes them feel what an evil and a bitter thing it is to sin against the Lord, it makes the Saint to search his waies and turn unto the Lord; so it wrought upon David, before I was afflicted I went a stray, but now I have learned thy word; afflictions like hard weather kill those sinnes, that the warmth of prosperity nourish'd.
The Devill by pleasures and profits invites us, as Absolom did the Kings sonnes to his banquet, purposely to murder Ammon: So he invites us to our ruine in the gluttonns language, eat, drink, and be merry, thou hast enough, wealth enough, time enough, opportunity enough, rejoyce o young man and let thy heart cheare thee: Now God in mercy to us, when he finds we are [Page 33] sate down to banquet, riot, and frolick it in the world, he by a rousing affliction unexpectedly comes amongst us, as Absoloms murderers came in, when their hearts were merry, and made all the Kings sons fly to the King their Father to Jerusalem; so God sends afflictions to drive us from our Lusts and deceitfull pleasures, unto him, oculos quos peccatum claudit, poena aperit,
2. Another privative good that comes by Gods afflicting of the Saints, is, hereby sin is prevented, he like a mercyfull Father and most wise Physitian knowes our tempers, and what our spirituall diseases are, better then our selves, and therefore to prevent them he bloods them in the right vein; when a Saint immoderately loves any earthly injoyment, so that God seeth it drawes his affections from heaven and glory; and from himself (which he takes grievously) then God in wisdome and mercy takes away that earthly comfort that his affections may turn into the right channell again; hereby God shewes us the mutability, inconstancy & vanity of these things, and that there is no safe footing for our affections upon them. God many times dashes our designs all in peices, to prevent that security and carnall confidence, which he wisely foresees would follow, if they should take. God in mercy provides a thorne for Paul to prick the tympany of Pride, if it should rise in him. 'Twas an excellent pious speech of [Page 34] our King Henry the Sixth, I thank God, saith he, that hath given me a weake, and infirme body, that it might not be a lustfull body. A Saint has as much cause to blesse God for his afflictions, as for his ordinances, we shall never be able to understand the one half of our privative mercyes which afflictions have been the cause of, till we come to heaven to account them there, to the praise of his grace and wisdome that mercifully did inflict them: Lord whether would our lusts haue carried us, hadst not thou by thy corrections called us back.
3 By afflictions God prevents our damnation 1 Cor 11 32 We are chastned of the Lord, that we may not be condemned with the world: God hates the men of the world, and therefore chastens them not here so often as his children; he throwes the reignes in their necks, and bids them fil up the measure of their iniquity: which is the greatest curse that can befall them; in this sense that saying is true, tum Deus irascitur cum non irascitur. The Heathen could say, nothing is more unhappy to a man, then to be free from affliction, nihil mihi videtur infoelicius eo, cui nihil unquam evenit adversi, Senec. de Provid. Here it is true, there can no greater evill befall a man, then to have his heaven here. Son remember that thou receivedst thy good things in this life (saith Abraham to Dives in hell) and [Page 35] Lazārus evill: now thou art tormented and he is comforted. God gives his Saints their hell here, but their heaven hereafter; purposely casts them into the furnace of affliction here, that he may keep them out of the firy furnace of hell hereafter. A Saint may take this for his Motto, Periissem nisi Periissem, had I not been undone in this world, I had been undone to eternity: The Prodigals poverty brought him back to his Fathers family.
Thus you see a necessity for the best Saints afflictions in order to their good privatively.
2. God exerciseth his Saints with smart afflictions, in order to their Positive good, and that, these three waies.
1. As they are instrumentall to the turning them to God. 2. As they are exercises of their graces. 3. As they are the meanes of increasing grace.
1. God useth them as a meanes to call home and convert the Elect to him. I doe not say they Physically operate, for many men are the worse for affliction: but they by the gacious ordination of a divine hand, have a morrall influence upon men to their conversion. Acts 16.26, 27, 30. by an earthquake on a sudden that shooke the foundations of the prison, and threw open the prison doores, and knockt off all the [Page 36] prisoners fetters; the keeper at first apprehension of this astonishing providence would have killed himself, his conscience was so overborn with fear, but when his Judgement had got the throne, he considers this could be no other but the mighty hand of God, and in the full conviction of this his will is resolved to fall down to the command of God, & now with trembling he askes what he shall he doe to be saved. Oh blessed earthquake, might the goaler say, that wrought such a heart-quake in him as to make him turn to God.
Thus Saul Acts 9.3, 4. by a sudden stroak from heaven, which struck him to the ground, v. 6. and filled him full of trembling & astonishment, it was the instrument of his conviction: hereby conscience being fill'd with fear, made the mind serious, and being under full conviction, it in an instant raised his will to a resolution, and that resolved, now commands all the affections to attend its motion, & now he cryes Lord what wilt thou have me to doe? Thus afflictions, they are like a gun discharged amongst wild fowles, it startles all but it makes some fall into the fowlers hands, into Christs, that by these afflictions brings them to his hand. God by sudden and unexpected afflictions comes upon a soul, as Samuel came upon the Bethlehemites, 1 Sam. 16.4. he makes them [Page 37] tremble at his comming, but he makes a King in the family ere he depart.
2. God hereby tryes and exercises his Saints graces. Although God doth never afflict any, but where sin is, yet he hath other ends besides afflicting them for sin; therefore Gen. 22.1. God tempted or tryed Abraham, tis not said he corrected Abraham, when he said offer up thy Son Isaac. So God permitted all those afflictions to come upon Iob, for the tryall of his graces and the exercise of them: you have heard of the patience of Iob, saith the Apostle, had not God exercised him with such great afflictions, we had never heard of such an eminent Saint, he would have stole to his grave without being taken notice of. Therefore Peter saith (1 Ep. c. 1.7.) to the afflicted Saints, ye are now in heaviness for a time throw manyfold temptations, for what purpose? that the tryall of your faith might be found to praise, and honour, and glory; the Saints that shall hear and see your heavenly, meek, self-denying frame of heart under all your afflictions shall praise you, & praise God for you, you shall honour the gospell, the cause you suffer for, and God shall be glorified by you, and in you. As Mutius Scaevola got more renown & glory to the Romans by his Sufferings then by his Actions. So doth a Saint to the cause of the gospell. A Saint by sufferings seemes to say to all the world, as he, tam vile est corpus gloriam spectantibus. [Page 38] So contemptible are all those terrene things to us, who seek after eternal glory. If God should not thus try a Christians graces, we should never come to know half their worth, nor they their own. Senecae counts him an unhappy man that never was in affliction; because neither he nor any other could know his worth. Miserum te judico quod nunquā fuisti miser, transiisti sine adversario vitam; nemo scit quid potueris, ne tu quidem ipse. As sharp incounters prove who are valiant, who cowards; so do afflictions, who are sound, who rotten, who are built upon the sands, who on the rock. A Saint has cause, as to praise God for bestowing grace, so for sending him afflictions to try the truth of his grace, for this brings him in unspeakable comfort that he is sincere. If the heathen could say, egi gratias fortunae quod experiri voluisset quanti aestimarem fidem, I thank fortune that she would try me, how much I esteemed honesty; this I ought (saith Seneca) to prize at a high rate, non debet mihi parvo res tanta constare; if he a heathen could say thus, how much more ought we to praise God, that hath been pleased by his tryals of us to manifest to our own consciences and the world, that our faith and patience and selfe denyal is sincere; a tryed Christian is a happy Christian, and God by afflictions tryes them.
[Page 39]3. God exerciseth his choice Servants with great afflictions for the increase of their graces. As strong and great winds and stormes make trees fruitfull, so doe sharp afflictions make Christians. Every branch in Christ must bring forth fruit, and God by afflictions will prune them that they may bring forth more fruit.
Christians that have grace in the habit, St. Bazil compares to the earth, which though in its nature it be fruitful, yet unlesse the Plow and harrow break and teare it, it will not only not be fruitful, but it will bring forth bryers and thorns: so will Christians, unlesse God exercise them with afflictions grow secure, lazie and sensual. This made Chrysostome say, that affliction is the mother of Christian virtues, because it exerts the habit into act.
Christians that have grace in the habit, are like an Organ that is well in tune; but for want of bellows to blow, and an hand to play, they make no musick. Therefore God raiseth his east wind of affliction to blow, and layes his hand upon them, and then they are melodious. As Birds sing sweetest in wet weather, so doe the Saints sing most melodiously amidst the storms and showres of afflictions.
Sharp sauces doe best quicken the appetite, Heb. 12.11: noe chastisements seem for the [Page 40] present to be joyous, but grievous, nevertheless afterwards it yeildeth the peaceable fruits of righteousnesse unto them that are exercised therewith; like soile thats unpleasant in the carrying forth, yet returnes a fruitful crop.
By affliction a Saint gets this farther advantage of increase, that not only the habit of grace is excited into act; but by those frequent acts the habit also is inlarged. What St. Hierom sayes of the Cedar (may be said of the Saint) that for every branch it sutes out above, it sends forth a root beneath, and this advantage it hath from the strong winds which by shaking the body, loosens the earth and makes way for the root to spread.
So that by one storme it gathers strength to stand against the next. Thus tis with the Saint in the valley of Bacor, he grows from strength to strength; afflictions make him increase both in the habit and acts of grace; he grows downward in the habit as well as upward in the acts of grace by affliction.
Thus God sees afflictions good for his Saints both privatively and possitively; give me leave briefly to add this one more.
3. God sees afflictions necessary for his Saints in order to their eternal good, and that upon a twofold account.
1. By afflictions he fits and prepares them [Page 41] for glory, and that by drawing up their hearts and affections where their treasure is; should not God imbitter Egypt to us by heavy burdens, we should never long for, nor prepare to goe into the promis'd land, God makes our good things here mutable and fading, that we may set our affections on things above, which are permanent and unchangable.
2. Afflictions sweeten and the more indear glory to come: the sharper our sorrows here, the sweeter our glory hereafter, 2 Cor. 4.17. Our light afflictions work for us a farr more exceeding and eternal weight of glory.
Since we find this doctrine to be an evident truth, and this vast congregation are sealing it with their teares; God hath taken away an eminent Servant of his by a stroak, a stroak to the rich, and a stroak to the poore, a stroak and a heavy one to Stanton Harcourt; but especially to the family of the Harcourts, what should this teach us? let not me, but the Apostles exhort you, Heb. 12.5; My Son despise not thou the chastning of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him. This exhortation branche it selfe into two heads. 1: despise not, 2: faint not: the first you may think needlesse, and at this time I may think so to; but such is the deceitfulnesse of our hearts, and the hardnesse of them, that though they now drop tears [Page 42] like rocks in a sudden storm, yet when the storm is over, they are soon dry again, and as hard as ever; therefore the first branch is not unseasonable: despise not, [...], ne parvi facito. [...], is as if you should say, [...], parvam curam habere, to slight and never mind a thing, to make light of it, as Servants doe of their Masters chiding: they stand demurely and look sadly for the present; but when the Masters back is turn'd, they laugh and make light of it. Of all things beware of this; God hath a farther end in such dreadful stroakes as these, than to make us hang down our heads for a week or two, and then forget all; this is indeed to make light of God's correcting hand upon us. There are a sort of Epicureans in this age, that professedly against all sense and reason, indeavour to deface what of man they have in them, natural affection; like the brutish Stoick that made no more of the death of his Son, than of the breaking of a Jugg; heri vidi fragilem frangi, hodie vidi mortalem mori; they contemne God and his providence, they say all things come alike to all, and sooner or later we must all dye, and what should we sorrow for that we cannot remedy. Upon such mens foreheads you may write fool (if the rule hold true) without injuring them; for consideration, and fooles are alwaies contraries. [Page 43] Well let us in the fear of God learne this wisdome, not to despise or disregard God's judgements and chastisements upon us.
Then a Christian may be said not to despise God's Corrections, when he learnes those lessons God points him to by the chastisement; as 1: seriously to search after the cause why God afflicts us, 3 Lam. 39.40: this the Holy Ghost points us to, why doth living man complain, i. e. repiningly, man for the punishment of his sinne? while 'tis for his sinne that he is punish'd; 'tis but just that he should be punished: lets therefore search our ways and turne unto the Lord our God; thats the lesson punishment should teach us: so in the 7th Iosh. 6. Up says God to Ioshua, search for the sinne that hath caused me to smite you; thus a Christian should search when God's hand is on him; what personal sins, what relation, what family sins, as a husband, master or father he is guilty of, and stone those Achans, that so God may graciously return in his favours again to us.
2. In a humble submission to vindicate God's justice in all that befals us, and with the Church to say, thou hast smitten us lesse than our deservings, and o Lord thou art righteous in all that is come upon us, Isay 9.13.
3. Patiently to submit to the hand of God upon us. I was dumbe (says David) and opened [Page 44] not my mouth, because it was thy doing, 10 Levit. 3. When God took away two of Aron's near relations, his Sons, with a dreadful stroak the text saith, Aron held his peace; proprobably Aron was faulty in not restraining his Sons presumption, and therefore think it but meet & just, that he that had been sinfully silent under Gods dishonour, should now be submissively silent under his displeasure.
4. To buckle on our Armour, and to stand always prepared to incounter afflictions; Through many tribulations we must enter into the Kingdome of Heaven, not through two or three but many, God knows what our next tryal will be; lets therefore by this affliction, be so Armed with faith and love, and patience, and selfe-denyal, that we may be able with more facility to stand against the next: Iob now finding the world to ring none but changes, and sad ones too, in his eares, hath learned to wait all the days of his appointed time, 'til his chang come.
5. Often and seriously to reflect upon our soules, what privative or positive good they have got by afflictions; for they make us better, or leave us worse.
These are some of the lessons God sets us to learne by our afflictions; which who so learns may truly be said, not to despise the chastisements of God.
2. The last clause of the exhortation speaketh [Page 45] to us thus [ nor faint when thou art corrected of him] this is the other extreame we must avoid. Extreams are dangerous, fly not one so as to fall into the other, this nature condemns as folly, Stulti dum vitant vitia in contraria currunt, saith Horace. Aristotle defines virtue to be [...], the middle of two evils; nature teacheth us to grieve, let not the sensual facultes swallow up the rational; Let not the Servant overtop his Master. 'Tis a wise mans character, that as he seeth farther into evils than other men, so he can better command his passions than others: hence Aristostle l. 4. c. 3; [...], he saith that [...] cannot be [...]; a magnanimous man cannot be overcome with sorrow and passion, because the rational faculties keep the sensitive within their bounds. Should I goe about to stop your eyes for so great a loss; I should but indeavour contra torrentem brachia: but let me perswade you to mourne as Christians: though the chastning be greivous, yet 'tis no worse than what God's Saints and Prophets of old have undergon. Are we better than they? or have wee deserved better than they? lets comfort our selves in the text, that God owns us for Sons under all our afflictions, and intends our good by them; let us then take courage that God is our Father still, and [Page 46] though death like a Lyon hath come amongst us and devoured our glory; yet out of this eater there will come forth meat, and out of the strong sweet; if we by faith and patience can wait upon the Lord, in this his way and method of dealing with us.
A Funeral speech.
ANd is this Scripture fulfilled this day in our eys? is the Crown of our glory, the Lady Anne Harcourt, that curious piece of grace and nature taken from us by a stroak? And must her virtues be closed up with her eyes? must they be coffin'd up with her corps in the silent grave? Was not her name as precious oyntment? & must it not be powred forth to give a fragrancy to posterity? shall we let her goe unmention'd, unlamented? it may not, it cannot be; The Country and the City too, yeild praficae aboundant, to ring aloud in all mens eares her funeral knel in doleful threanes: besides, each sad face in this doleful assembly, seems to bespeak it selfe, should I be silent, her funeral Orator. 'Tis pitty we have not here an Eloquent Ambrose to performe so lofty an undertaking. I am sorry I have not skil answerable to my affections; but must, when I have done my [Page 48] utmost, leave her, as that Painter left Antigonus, drawn, Imagine lusca, with a halfe face. I must acknowledge with the Comedian, de illâ non possum ita magnificè loqui, id virtus quin superat sua, so that you that knew her, will have just cause to say, much like that of the Queen of Sheba concerning Solomon, the one halfe hath not been told us of what we know; to which I can only thus reply in the Poets words;
In order to what I have to say, I must goe one step retrograde; For when I consider what two glorious luminaries have successively rose in this noble & ancient Family of the Harcourts, & how suddenly, & unexpectedly they have set, I cannot but adore the goodness, and tremble at the severity of God towards it; I am at a stand with Valer: Max: on the death of Cornelias husband, whether to say, it was more happy in the once injoying of them, or unhappy in the losse of them.
The first was a Daughter of the right honorable family of the Pagets, and wife to the Famous Souldier Sr. Simon Harcourt (to whose Tutelary sword the Protestants in Jreland owe much) she set at high noon, in the prime of her age, and left only one Son as the inheritor of both their virtues and honors.
[Page 49]This last (being the Wife of the now sorrowful Sr. Philip Harcourt) she set in the morning of her youth, before she had compleated twenty yeares, and hath likewise left one Son behind her, God make him the inheritor of her virtues. Both of these Ladies for beauty, breeding, parts, prudence, and piety, were eminently known to be as honourable and Princely Dames as have trod the Stage of English earth for many ages; each of their goodnesse which made them great, was as high as their extract, which made them honorable. This last was in all probability like to outshine the first, from whose raise she received her first light and heat. Her natural and moral indowments of body and mind were both amiable, and admirable; what is sayd of King David's Darling, 2 Sam. 14.25: was the voge of all who e're had seen her; that in all the Land there was not one to be so much praised for beauty as she; from the sole of her foot to the crown of her head there was no blemish in her.
And as her Person, such were her parts: her deportment was courteous, humble, and affable, yet with all, majestick; she was skild in every thing that became so high a Lady; she was knowing in History, in Physick, in Musick, in what not, she was more full of spirit and life than language; yet was her discourse for the [Page 50] most part weighty and witty: she perfectly hated idlenesse; she was all the day time either retir'd in her closet at her devotions, or else writing, or reading, or playing on some musical instrument, or ordering the affaires of her house, or busied in making medicines for the poore that had no helper: Her apprehension was so quick, that a worthy gentlewoman her neighbour, with whom she much conversed, told me that she admired her above all persons for her exact knowledge in all domestick affaires; There was nothing within or without doores that concerned a family, but she had an insight in it. But oh! this heart cutting word (she's dead) has shipwrackt all our hopes, and fild us full of deep despondency; like a new rigg'd ship richly freighted, no sooner is she lanched forth into the world, but sinks with all her store; she had but newly shaken hands with childhood, and now, behold! grisly death like a churlish and (may we say) unwelcome Sargeant arrests her, and she must forthwith shake hands with husband, child, kindred, and bid us, and all the world eternally farewel. What heart relents not here? 'tis worse than marble if it doe not: marble it selfe will weep at change of weather, and shall not we at such a change? especially we that knew how sweet her disposition, how gracious her conversation was among us. Wonder not then if I your Orator make [Page 51] teares my fluentest Rhetorick at this funeral; broken sentences, [...]nd inconsistencies may passe, at this time excus [...]ble, if not commendable, from him, whose eyes make up the paragoge. The Person that here lyes in state before us, and is thus become the sad object of our sorrow, was of no low extract, she was the daughter of the honourable Sr. William Waller. On the Mothers side, she descended of the Right honourable family of the Finches, the Earles of Winchelsie. But these things she counted but membrana dignitatis, she no more valued the gaudy pageantry of the world, than her body now minds this her pompous funeral, being dead, and herein she shewed her selfe, like that honorable Lady and St. Marcella (of whom St. Hierom thus speaks) quod facta est contempta nobilitate nobilior, that she did the more innoble her selfe in disregarding her noble birth. That which she most delighted, with a holy kind of boasting, to triumph in, was the truly noble and religious education she received from her Mother in law, (for her own Mother dyed in her infancy) of whose excellent virtues she never thought she could spake enough; I have oft heard her most devoutly blesse God for that Mother in law: like Alexander the great that praised his Instructor beyond him that got him. 'Tis highly probable she was the instrument of instilling grace into her heart in her tender years, which made [Page 52] her, so hartily praise the God of grace for her; nor was there any love lost betwixt them; for so highly did the Mother in law prize this her Daughter in law, that she bestowed the chiefest jewel she had in the World upon her, her only Son; as conceiving her Son could be in none more happy, than in this Person: she really being for sweetnesse of nature, amiablenesse of Person, quicknesse of wit, solidity of judgment, noblenesse of Spirit, innocency of life, & heavenlinesse of affection, the crown and glory of her age and Sex. What single excellencies made other Ladies eminent, as this for wit, that for beauty, one for modesty, the other for affability, you might have found them all concentred in this single Person, and shining there in their full lustre. Take her in any, in every of her relations, as a Daughter, Sister, Wife, Mistresse, Freind, she fild up each of these to the top. I must but touch on these. As a Daughter how full of duty and affection? who can come forth and tell the time that ever she willingly displeased either her Father or Mother in all her life time? As a Sister from the nurses brests to natures bed, the grave, she lived and dyed top-full of hearty love and tender respect to them, their teares for the losse of her, sufficiently testify to the world this truth. As a Wife she was so full of respect, tendernesse and overflowing love to her Dear, (as she call'd [Page 53] her husband) that you would have deemd their whole life to have been but one wedding day. There was no ebb to be seen in the tide of her affections, 'twas always high, they seemd always ravisht in each others love, she was to her Husband as the pleasant hynd, the desire of his eyes, and the joy of his heart. I may truly say of them, as David said of Ionathan and Saul, they were lovely and pleasant in their lives, and I may adde this too, in their deaths they were not divided, for at her departure, his soule as unwilling to stay, now strugled in a tyde of teares to launch out after her. This current runs still too strong, which cals rather for our pitie than our blame, and of the two extreames, this is the more alowable, as bespeaking the Person, generous and noble hearted; for none but fooles, and sordid Cowards are hard-hearted. Therefore Homer describes his valiant men, his Heroes, to be, [...], tender hearted compassionate men, men full of teares: but what need excuses here? she was his Wife, the one halfe of him selfe, the comfort of his life, the crown of his glory; how many losses are comprehended in this one? the losse of a good and gracious Wife? none can tell but they that feel it. As a Governesse of a family, her prudence and piety was eminent, she had such a provident and diligent inspection into every thing, that she seemed to be every [Page 54] body in it: and with such facility and sedatenesse she ordered all things, as if she had been no body in it. I know many great families, but never yet did I see any that was govern'd with so little noise or tumult, and so free from disorders; no oathes, no drunkennesse, no railing or dissentions to be heard or seen amongst any. 'Tis true, the family was extraordinary happy in a stock of civil, knowing, faithful, and religious Servants; and 'twas her goodnesse made them so. Such was her pious care of her family, that she desired that all her Servants might be the Lords; and therefore twice a day she commanded every one (all businesse lay'd aside) to be present in her chappel at prayers, and the hearing of God's word read; and once a week every servant from the chiefest to the meanest, she had chatechized in the principles of religion by her Chaplain in the open Chappel. On the Lord's day her care was, that she and her house might serve the Lord, therefore she strictly commanded all that possibly could, to attend her to the publick ordinances, whether she constantly resorted to hear the word of God; and if any Servant were negligent or tardie, I have heard them sharply rebuked. After the publick ordinances were over she commanded all her Maid Servants into her chamber, where she examined them all what they remembred of the Sermon, and would incourage [Page 55] the diligent hearers. After this she would repeat the Sermon for the help of their memoryes, & then She would conclude with prayer. Thus this Princely Lady, to her eternall honour, disdained not (as too many great Ladies doe) to become the hand-maids of the Lord in using all good means to save others souls as wel as her own.
As a Neighbour, she was so familiar, humble, courteous and compassionate, that you need not wonder to see Stanton Harcourt so full of teares for the losse of her. Such was her charity to any in distresse, especially to those that were religeous, (and therefore modest,) that when she heard or supposed they were in distresse, she would send privately to them, not pence, but pounds. Such was her privasy in it, that nothing, but the gratitude of the receivers, since her death hath informed me of this truth. By this we may guesse at her inlarged noble heart; we shall never hear all her good deeds of this nature, till God call her out & reward her openly.
That of her publike charity, you that hear me of this parish can witnesse, and my eyes have seen, that there was not a day in the week, but severall hungry bellyes were filled from her Kitchin▪ once a week there was purposely made provision for them, and once a year Six of the poor of the parish were new cloathed by her, [Page 56] so that we may aply Iobes words to her, the blessing of those that were ready to perish came upon her. How oft has she sent and come to your houses when you have been sick to visit, succour and comfort you? what good office did she ever neglect amongst you? she was as eyes to the blind, feet to the lame, a physician to the sick, and a mother to the poore. I may apply St Hieroms words of Nepotian to this Lady, ita curam gessit pauperum quasi ab eos genuisset, ita servivit quasi ab iis geni [...]a fuisset; she wasso tender of the poor as if she had been their mother, so serviceable, as if their daughter.
As a private Christian, she was (by report of her Chaplain and others most intimate with her) one of a thousand, her discourse would be so spiritual & heavenly, that the Godly hearers have profess'd themselves even ravish'd with it. She was much in fasting and prayer, in reading, meditation, & searching her heart. I might here insert all which that learned Oratorin his funeral speech hath said of the Mother in law, so exactly did she tread in that holy Lady's steps.
She kept in her Cabinet a large paper booke, so privately that none, no not her husband knew of it; since her death I have seen it, and only seen it. Twas a book, I perceived, designed to be her souls looking-glas, or rather her souls recreatory, both; In this book (I perceived by the [Page 57] severall heads in it) she laid up het spirituall Cordials, to refresh her soul in time of need: Here she had set down Gods gracious and remarkable providences to her and her family, to excite her soul to thankfulnesse: Here she laid up spirituall directions how to order her life. One paper being loose I obtein'd it, I will give it you word for word, & by this you may guess at the rest.
April 14, 1664. I have this day upon serious examination of my heart, found this to be my condition. 1. That I doe desire to love God, and to love him for himself above all things. 2. That I am (if my heart deceive me not▪ extreamely more in love with the wayes of God then ever. 3. That I find my heart unfainedly sorry for all my frailtyes and sins committed, and duties omitted, and I doe here in the presence of God promise, & engage to strive against all my beloved sins, and serve him more constantly then I have done, & I hope through Gods grace, that as he has begun that good work in me, so he will according to his promises perfect it in me. Thus I have given you a glimps of this young Saints Closet works; she was not perfuming her self with essences, painting her face, or trying where a black patch would set with most advantage, and best insnare the eye of the wanton; but she was tyreing her soul for her Lord the Bridegroomes comming. Oh thou blessed [Page 58] Soul! hee whom thou hast served so secretly, will one day reward thee openly.
I cannot omit one remarkeable thing, which happened a little before God called this young Saint to her sick bed: I received it since her death from a Person of good credit, who heard her tel it: She had a dream that an Angel came to her, and told her she must suddenly dye, whereat she was affraid and trembled, but the Angel told her, she need not fear, she should goe to heaven to Christ, who would wellcome her there, whereat she was fill'd with joy.
Now though I lay little stresse upon dreames, as knowing it to be dangerous, it being hard to discern them from Diabolicall delusions; the Papists ridiculously impose upon the world their Fryers dreames, to prove their fopperies, and erronious opinions, as if with the Heathen, we were to believe. [...] every dream came from God, whe [...]eas the Devill many times is the Authour of them: A wicked man may dream he shall goe to heaven, Caesar a little before his death, may dream he shall goe to the immortal God, but no wicked man, shall ever goe thither. Yet for all this it must not be denyed, but that God doth many times foretell to his Saints their deaths in dreames: Polycarp that Saint and Martyr (you may find him in the book of Martyrs) had his death foretold him, & [Page 59] the kind of it▪ He dreamt that his bed was on fire under him; and St. Cyprian foresaw in a dream the Pro-Consul writing his sentence to be beheaded, Pont. Diaco. in vit. Cyp. whereupon he desired him to set his house in order, and twas granted him; and just so it fell out as he had dreamed. We might instance in many more if it needed. For my part I believe this dream of this holy Ladys, was a favour extraordinary from God to such a precious young Saint. And I the rather think so, because it so fell out as she had dreamed; for soon after this, she unexpectedly fell sick of a violent feaver, which was the forerunner of death at hand. And although she did not dye of that feaver, yet before she had recovered her strength she lost by it, God in his wise providence (resolving to exercise her graces before she went hence) call'd her back again to her sick bed, which at last proved her death bed. In this Sicknesse God exercised her with more tormentive pangs, both in her back and bowels then before; which inforced most bitter groanes and sighs from her, to the peircing of the hearts of those about her: yet under all those heavy pressures she did not charge God foolishly, though she groaned, yet she did not murmur or repine, but in the midst of those pangs she still lifted up her hand and eyes to the God of her salvation: That time of ease God gave her between her fits, she [Page 60] was carefull to redeem by prayer, and other holy exercises with her Chaplain, whom she highly prized in her health, for his singular good parts and piety. Some few dayes before her death, when her excessive pangs had so devoured her strength, that they left her speechlesse, and the company gave her up for a dying, departing person, I came to her bed side, and perceiving her to move her head and her eyes, which was more then she had done for some hours before, I asked her Ladyship whether she were capable of discourse, and she answered me, yes, but let it be good, let it be heavenly: So carefull was she to redeeme her sick bed time; you may guesse where her treasure was by her heart. The day before her death was (to all our joy and admiration) the most refreshing day she had had in all her sicknesse. Sic Phoebi j [...]mj [...]m cadentis dulcius esse solet lumen: As a fair day often rears exhalations into a cloud, which next day returns in showers upon us, so did this pleasant Monday returne its dark clouds of sorrow and showres of teares on Tuesday; for then her disease seizing her head took away her speech, and so depriv'd us, no doubt, of many gracious speeches which would have fallen from her dying lips. Yet what she could not doe in words, she did in signes. She some houres before her death took her woman by the hand, and shooke it, to let [Page 61] her know she was heartily reconciled to her notwithstanding some tart words, that had some dayes before passed betwixt them. In the afternoon of Aug. 23. 1664. God was pleased graciously to release her of all her pangs: Her soul willingly and joyfully departed, and hath left behind, what of mortality it had for us to lay up in the house of all the living.
And now, what can alleviate our sorrows for so great a losse? But, is she lost? no, the losse is ours, she's the great gainer. As L. Florus saith of the City Alba, twas pulled down, to be set up in Rome to its higher honour & advantage: this Lady is but taken down here, to be set up in heaven to her unspeakeable honour & advanceme [...]t. Let us not then too deeply lay [...]o heart this blessed Saints Translation; could we but stil our sorrowes a little while, & lend an ear to listen what the Saints on the otherside the lake of death do say, it would not be the voice of those that cry for being overcome, but the voice of those that sing, the voice of those that shout for victory, that we should hear.
Doe we believe the person that's departed was a true servant of God? I think you doe: and we may as confidently say of her, a St. Hierome does of Nepotian, Scimus Nepatianum nostrum esse cum Christo; we verily believe she is with Christ. Why then doe you so immoderately [Page 62] grieve? Cur doleas (saith Tertullian) si periisse non credis, cur impatienter feras subductum interim quem credis reuersurum esse? So say I, why doe we so take on for her who we know is not gone to be lost, but only with drawn for a time, and we believe will return again? did the Church mourne when Peter was delivered out of Prison, and his shackles knock'd off? A Saint at death is freed from prison, and all his fetters are then knockt off. Did Mordicai weep and grieve, or had he cause, when the Emperour of the world tooke his Niece from him out of love he bare her, to advance her above all other weomen, and make her Queen? This This is the case (only the former paralel is too short) the great Creatour of the world in great compassion and tender love to this young Lady, has taken her betimes from the dirty country to preferre her at Court, he has called her early from this beggarly low earth, to advance her amongst the mighty in the heavens.
The Heathen Menander could say [...], whom God loves best he [...]akes soonest. Her soul being fledg'd betimes, tooke wing for heaven, and this curious robe of mortality, which she put off at her departure, we now are carrying with all solemnity into the suburbs of heaven after her; for Saints graves are no otherwise, they are next door to [Page 63] heaven. They are the Saints sleeping Chambers for a little while, till God call them up again. The silence of the grave is but a kind of Pythagorean [...], a restraint only for a time, and that but a little time, the time is short. Death the last enimy, shall reign but a little longer; he must resign his keyes ere long. When the trumpet sounds, death triumphs cease, till then the Saints bodyes in the grave are in the safe custody of Christ, as their Souls in heaven, and Christ at his coming will as certainly unite them and clothe them with immortality and glory. Wherefore let us comfort one another upon this sad occasion with these meditations.
One living relict of this Lady, now with God, remaines still with us, (her Son) and is her lively picture; for whom I pray, as Eloquent St Ambros at the death of Theodosius, the Emperour, (only changing one Article) Tu solus domine, invocandus, tu rogandus es, ut eam infilio repraesentes. That he may resemble her in soul, as well as in countenance. God make him virtuous, as she, in this life, and let the glory of his famous Ancestors rest upon him. That he may keep up religion in the family (which is the crown of its glory and the true innobling of it) as his Mother, his Grand Mother and other his ancestors have done before him: that so after a happy and holy life here, he may goe with [Page 64] honour, to them, who are now with Christ, God blessed for ever, in unspeakable glory.
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