A Happy Husband OR, Directions for a Maide to choose her Mate.
As also, A WIVES BEHAVIOVR towards her Husband after Marriage.
By Patricke Hannay, Gent.
To which is adioyned the Good Wife; together with an Exquisite discourse of EPITAPHS, including the choysest thereof, Ancient or Moderne.
By R B. Gent.
Printed at London for Richard Redmer, and are to be sold at his shop at the West end of Saint Pauls Church, 1619.
TO THE VERTVOVS and noble Lady, the Lady Margaret Home, eldest daughter to the Right Honourable Alexander Earle Home, Baron of Dunglas, &c.
THinking with my selfe ( Noble Lady) what I might present some way to expresse my loue in remembrance of those not to be requited fauours, which haue wholy obliged me to your House. It came into my mind that what is offered to gods, or great ones, ought rather to be apt, then equall: and that it was held absurd in [Page] old time to offer an Hecatomb to the Muses, or an I [...]y wreath to the god of warre. I thought no offering could be more cōformable to your vertues thē this Husband, which of due doth challenge a maiden Maecenas: and none so fit as your selfe, who euen in these yeeres by your budding vertues, doe well bewray what fruit your vpper yeeres will produce. Accept it then Madam as an acknowledgement of what is due by mee to your deseruings, which haue bound me to abide euer yours
in all dutifull obseruance,
PATRICK HANNAY.
To VVomen in Generall.
IN things of weight and moment, care and circumspection are to be vsed, with a truly grounded iudgement before resolution. Now in humane actions none is of more conscquence then marriage, where error can be but once and that neuer after remedied. Therefore in it is great caution required before conclusion, the sequell of staid deliberation, or vnaduised rashnefse, being a happy, or a wretched life. And therein is anothers counsell most necessary (though through the whole course of mans life it be safer then the selfe-conceiued:) for affection which in [Page] other affaires doth oft ouerrule reason, (euen in the wise) doth in this euer hide the faults of the affected vnder the blinding vale of loue. This hath caused me for the weale of your Sexe to produce this Husband to the light, not gaine, or glory; knowing well the vulgar and criticke censures in this age doe rather detract, then attribute: but I care not much for their opinion, who dislike, may freely abstaine if any giue better, I shall willingly absent take it as it is meant, for your good, to displease none, and to content all.
P. Hannay.
To Ouerburies Widow, wife of this Husband.
R. S.
To Master Hannay.
P. T.
To his Friend M r Patrick Hannay.
W. Iewell.
The Argument.
THE DESCRIPTION of a good VVife: Or, A rare one amongst Women.
AT LONDON
Printed for Richard Redmer, and are to be sold at his shop at the West end of Saint Pauls Church, 1619.
The Argument.
A good VVife,
The Authors choice.
To his 5 equally-affectionate Sisters all vertuous content.
Upon the Married Life.
Vpon the single Life.
REMAINS after Death:
Including by way of introduction diuers memorable obseruances occasioned vpon discourse of EPITAPHS and Epycedes; their distinction and definition seconded by approued Authors.
ANNEXED THERE BE diuers select Epitaphs and Hearce-attending Epods worthie our obseruation: The one describing what they were which now are not: The other comparing such as now are with those that were.
D [...]gnum laude virum musa vetat mori.
By RICHARD BRATHVVAYTE Gent.
Imprinted at London by IOHN BEALE
1618.
TO THE READER.
IT may be obiected (Reader) that small is the concurrence, lesse the coherence in the titles of these two Subiects, pleasantly concluding that it were pittie; Death should so soone seaze on a good-wife by the course of nature, as shee is had heere in pursuit by Deaths remaind [...]r. But this obiection may be answered by a twofold solution: First, the Printers importunacie, whose desire was in regard of the breuitie of the former part, to haue it by the annexion of some other proper Subiect enlarged; t [...] whose reasonable demand I equally condescended. Secondly, the Subiects propriety, which, howsceuer by the iudgement of the Critik censurer traduced (the pitch of whose knowledge aimes rather at taxing then teaching) concurres as well with the precedent Title, as Man with mortalitie, Time with mutabilitie, Life with death. And as the m [...]re vertuous the neerer ofttimes their dissolution, which no doubt proceedes from Gods mercy [Page] that they might haue of him a fuller contemplation; so we commonly see the best Wiues limited to the shortest times, approued by that Maxime:
Let this suffice: if not, let the Subiect it selfe write his censure, whose singularitie makes of each thing an error.
MVSOPHILVS.
OBSERVATIONS VPON Epitaphs: their Antiquitie and vse; with Authoritie from approued Authors of their deriuations; with diuers other memorable occurrences.
AS the memory of the dead consists vpon the life of the liuing: so their vertues or vices giue testimony of the dead, whether worthy the memory of the liuing, or to be buried in eternall obliuion? For this cause are Epitaphs (and euer haue beene) engrauen vpon the Monuments, Tombes and Sepulchers of the dead, either to expresse their fame, or by modest silencing what they were, to intimate how their actions liuing, deserued no great memory dying. Some I distinguish (Epitaphs I meane) of this nature, into Morall, others into Diuine, and other is prophane. Morall (to giue instances in each kinde) be such as include a morall or excellent vse to be [Page] made by the liuing of the Actions of the dead, by recourse had to their Monuments, where mortalitie is not onely liuely expressed, but their conditions sully and amply charactred. Such were the Epitaphs of Cyrus, Semiramis, Laomedon.
It is recorded Vide Quintum Curtium in Sup. & vit. cyr. when Alexander that great Monarch of the World came into Persia, and there chanced to see the famous Tombe of Cyrus whereon was engrauen this Epitaph or inscription: Whosoeuer thou be, or whencesoeuer thou shait come and beholdest this Tombe, know that I am Cyrus who translated the Empire from the Medes to the Persians: pray thee do not enuie me, for this little clod of earth that doth couer me. Alexander (I say) seeing this inscription, could not containe himsel [...]e from teares: making (without all question) this morall vse of it: That Princes (though neuer so potent or eminent, so victorious or puis [...]ant) but becomes subiect to the commo [...] doome and censure of Fate, and must of necessitie leaue all their conquests and victories (by a forced surrender) to the ineuitab [...]e command of death. So as Alexander when he beheld the Tombe of Achilles, cried out, Felix es, qui't al [...]m laudum tuarum praeconem habuisti (nenipe Homerum:) so heere he wept bitterly, saying. Infelix es Cyre qui tantis victorijs inclytus extitisti, tamen à m [...]rte te vinci patieris. We reade (that I may goe forward in prosecution of instances of this nature:) That Cyrus (also) [Page] when he beheld the Tombe of that memorable Queene Sem [...]ramis, and saw this to be writ vpon it: Whosoe [...]er shall digge vp this stone which now doth [...] me, shall finde an infinite masse of treasure vnder it, [...] the same to be taken vp; which being done (instead of Treasure) he found this morall vnder it; None but misers (or godlesse persons) would d [...]gge vp the Graues of the dead. An excellent caution for the couetous wretch, who is euer catchi [...]g by hoo [...]e or crooke, Quo iure, qua (que) iniuri [...], per fas nefasve; not regarding the meanes, so he may attaine the end; nor respecting pietie nor common humanitie publique causes or Countries benefit, so he may please his vnsatisfied desires. But this violation of the dead, thi [...] iniury done against those who sleepe in peace, hath been euen by the Pagans themselues esteemed execrable: so as the In the d [...]scourse of Asia and Affr. vid. Egypt Solem. Funer. Aegyptians are interred with their best gems, ornaments, and Iewels: which (so strickt be their Lawes in that respect) are neuer embezeled, but remaine with them; hoping (saith the [...]istorian) that their substance will deliuer them if any punishment or vnworthy censure should be inflicted on them. The tombe and monument of that perfidious Prince ( c Laomedon) had this Epitaph:
The morall thus expressed: When Hercules (in the deliuery of Troy from that deuouring monster, a Whale; and in the rescuing of Laomedons faire daughter Hesyone, should by couenant haue receiued two milk-white steeds: the king retiring to his (miserable Troy) commanded the gates of the Citie to be shut against him; infringing his faith and promise; which so incensed the ire and indignation of Hercules against him, as within few yeares his Citie was sacked and demolished, his Subiects captiued, his daughter to Telamon espoused; and himselfe (to extinguish the remainder of ingratitude, fully to appease the enraged furie of Hercules, was slaughtered. Whose monument was reserued (as a perpetuall remembrance of perfidious dealing to his posterity, with the inscription aboue mentioned.
Tombes The antiquitie of Tombes. haue beene aunciently vsed; as wee may reade in sacred writ: where one Sepulcher was kept solemnly for a whole familie, euery one returning in Sepulchra maiorum: but neuer so sumptuous before the erection of that memorable Tombe (or Shrine rather) of Prince Mausolus king of Caria: whose Queene Artemisia erected such a gorgeous Tombe in his memory, as all Se [...]ulchers since (especially of Romane Emperours, [Page] and Carian Princes) are called to this day Mausolea: the inscription this,
Two monuments we reade of to be famous, in that their erection was the foundation of many potent and puissant people: some also were taken for preseruers of that Region wherein they were planted and seated: as the Two auncient Monuments which were called Asyla patrizen. Tombe or Sepulcher of Aiax in the Rhetzan shore: and the Tombe of A [...]hilles in Sygaeum: Which two, euen to this day continue memorable: so as in the greatest depopulations and sackings of Cities, the ruinating of their Forts and Castles of defence, they were euer kept vntouched (as shrines and monuments inuiolate, obelisks consecrate, or statues deified: supposing (in their owne blindnesse deceiued) that their preserua [...]ion was deriued from them.
But to proceed in Epitaphs (on which our discourse doth principally consist:) they are deriued from the Greeke [...] & signifie as much as an inscriptiō, or any thing which is placed or-fixed vpon the Tombe ( Quae in scitis & scutis quorundam Regum vidimus, saith Lipsius:) as Epycedion (deriued from [...] or lugubria canere) are writ before or after the corps interred, but not vpon the Tombe: being more dilated [Page] measures, either expressing the memorable actions of his life (or if nothing worthy in his life) at least modestly to shut vp his deser [...]lesse life, with a commemoration of humane frailty: silencing [...]he person, lest his description should minister either matter of offence or assentation: of offence, if truely expressed; of ass [...]ntation, if aboue merit praised. Hee that neither benefited himselfe nor his Countrie; (but vt Canis in presepi) was rightly demonstrated with this Impressa, Hic Vir diu fuit: This man was long, but liued not long: for life and being haue an essentiall difference. We are said to liue when we exp [...]esse our life by externall effects, knowing [...]or what wee were ordained; for what borne; not to retire our selues from publique affaires, for priuate ease: but to further our Countrie, and propagate her glory by serious and vigi [...]ant managements, both at home and abroad. This man is said to liue, that hath left some monument or testimonie behinde him that he liued.
We are only sa [...]d to be, when we only breathe, respectles o [...] either publique or priuate: imitating those Flies Ephemerae, which fli [...]ker a little with their wings (limiting their life within one day) & presently die. These as the Philosopher saith, spirant tantùm non viuunt. But too much of them, both die: Yet this is the difference: the one dying, leaueth a testimony behinde him that hee once l [...]ued; The other being dead, hath no [Page] hope that his memory shall euer bee reuiued.
Many pretie Epit [...]phs the Romanes vsed; briefe, yet ample enough to describe the nature of the person whom they would haue memorized.
Virgil writing on one Balista In vit. Nar. & frag. (a great sword and buckler-man) as I may terme him, frequenting places of aduantage to rob, and surprise passengers vnawares cheeres the poore way-faring-man with [...]his comfortable inscription on Balistas graue:
This Minos for his excellent iudgement and iustice in Crete, being seuere, and therefore his attribute was rightly giuen him: he was s [...]id to be [...], rough and seuere, exact and austere in all his censures: for which cause he was translated from the principalitie of Crete, to the tribunall of Hell: (as Poets faine.)
In the discourse of arguments of this nature: as we haue many write Ep [...]taphs (some panegyrick) in way of commendation and praise: others inuectiue to expresse the merite or defect of any person: we should be warie heerein, lest either by vaine Sicut lingua loquentis proficit in [...] [...]udientis, ita cala [...]s scribentis in ocul [...] le gentis, & ad interiora cordis peru [...]nit se [...]sus dirigentis, sicut verba instruentis: Albin. in pr [...]fatio: comment in Iohan. & adulatorie praise, we giue error a warrant, or by too detractiue inuection, wee seeme ( grauius in sepulchra mortuorum calcare, that I may vse the Philosophers saying. But to omit the vse of Epitaphs, which of themsel [...]es haue euer ministred occasion of imitation or detestation: I will proceede to the antiquitie of Epitaphs, and afterward descend to the seuerall branches which I haue before in my methode to my selfe propounded.
[Page] Epitaphs haue bene euer vsed vpon the Tombes of the deceased, to express their Vertues or vices. Of all the seuen Vide Laert. de vit. philoso. Sages of Greece, not one there is, but charactred to the ful by their especiall appropriates: and though diuers (in contempt of vaine glory or ostentation) haue precisely commanded vpō their death-beds, that no statue, shrine, nor inscription should be erected or engrauen in the [...]r memories: yet so gratefull was posteritie to so noble predecessors, as they would in no wise suffer so Valiant exploits either publique or priuate, to bee buried in silence and obliuion. Yea euer in those times, where fines imperij tueri magis, quàm proferre, mos erat: as in those Golden times, and empires of Verores King of Aegypt, and Tanais King of Scythia which Historians take to be the first Monarchs and sole Gouernours in the world; euen thē (I say) were Epitaphs of this nature verie frequent, and common: and in Ninus time, who succeeded, or rather dissolued their gouernment, we reade Epitaphs euen written vpon his Tombe; describing his nature and disposition at large, the manner of his discipline in warre, the continuance of his Empire or Gouernment, and the occasion of his death.
To speake of the effeminate Gouernment and principality of the Amazons (women of incomparable and incredible fortune, valour and resolution) wee haue yet those Tombes and Sepulchers [Page] of the T [...]muli Amazouum. Amazons celebrated to this day amongst those Pagans, for the infinite numbers slaine by Hercules, in his i [...]uasion of Amazon: where the worthie exploits of those (more then women) for their disci line and ex [...]erience in wartes, are in gold [...]n Characters registred and recorded.
We reade euen in those (who for their magnanimitie and resolution) were termed [...] or Heroes, men of heroicke dispositiō to haue had in former times insc iptions vpon their Graues and Monuments, to expresse what they were liuing, that deserued so exceeding commendation dying. Such were Alci [...]es, Theseus, Hector, Perith [...]us, and the renowne of Greece (the auncient Patroclus,) vpon whose graue whilst Achilles leaned, he imagined true valour to be charactred on his Graue, and a suffi [...]ient occasion of exciting and instigating the vnworthiest and vnresoluedst spirits to take in hand managements of greatest difficulty.
We reade of Tarina Queene of Saca, that she was no lesse memorable for her sepulcher, (surpassing both in bountie & specious edifice, then the Pyramides of Aeg [...]pt: Labyrinth in Crete, cō triued and inuented by Dedalus, or that sumptuous Monument erected by Artemisia in honour of her husband Mausolus.
If we should descend to the Persian Princes [Page] elected after the (premature death of Gladio sua sponte euaginato grauiter [...] occubuit Iust 1. lib: Cambyses) wee shall there more eminently surueigh the processe of their government, and their ends (some with glor [...]e and renowne) others with no lesse infamie and reproch attaind.
Yet to vse decencie in the celebration of funerall rites and solemnities: for I know (that I may vse the morallists opinion) there is a vaine [...]glorie euen in death; and as the pompe of death doth more terrifie then death it selfe, so doth the pompe of death more excite men to die willingly then their expectance after death. For this all the Romaine Emperours would haue their Tombcs erected in their life time, with all externall osten [...]ation, and popularitie: to intimate a kind of Empire euen in death: which may appeare by that (which Suctonius speakes in the life of Augustus) that before his death, the statue which was erected and set vp in his memorie being strucken with Thunder [...] lost the first letter of his Name (to wit C.) which signified as the Augurs diuined, that within a hundred daies immediatelie following, he should depart the world.
Cato in dede (who tooke it nobile lethum to die for his countrie and the preseruation of her libertie) would haue no shrinc, statue, nor inscriptiō set vp in his memory; supposing his vertues to be sufficient annals and records to eternise his name.
Of this minde was Phocion the Athenian (both [Page] Stoicks for their discipline) seeming vnwilling to imitate the popular in exterior rites: being (as they deemed) able to expresse their owne liues by their deaths, their deaths by their li [...]es. Which may be the cause that moued Flaccus to contemne all monuments, with this resolued security: Vnde mihi lapidem &c. What auailes it to haue Monuments, Stones, Shrines or Statues to memorise Vs? what skils it to haue labels hung vpon our Sepulchers (as those siluer swords of Greece ouer the Sepulcher of Philip; those golden Archers of Persia ouer the memorab [...]e tombe of Artaxerxes? as the same Poet saith,— N [...]n datur em [...]sso reditus [...]ibi—It is true: yet so respectiue should man be of the demerited & praise-worthy acts of his Ancestors ( [...]o ceremoniously careful that their monuments be not in obliuion smothered) as no time should be omitted (wherein we may as the Orator saith, defunctorum memori [...] seruire) but with all instance to perfect & accōplish the same.
We Vid. des [...]r. Af fric. Qui sepul [...]ra maiorum ut propria domicil [...]a [...] resque existimarunt. reade that the Pagans haue been so respectiue hereof, that the monumēts of their parents & kinsfolkes haue been no lesse deare to them, then their own houses, their owne habitations and dwellings: Esteeming their reputation (to be purchased) by the purchase of their Auncestors glory, and augmented by the preseruation of their memory.
Agathocles Prince of Syracuse (willing to erect [Page] a Monument or Statue in his owne memory, to expresse humane frailtie) commanded that the head and vpper parts should be made of solid gold, but the feete of earth; with this Impresse: Sic omnia firma. An excellent obseruation and caution to put Man in minde of his substance and subsistence, constitution and dissolution: that standing on no firmer feete then earth, no stronger arches (then staies of mortality) he should euer feare lest so proud a building shou [...]d fall, being supported by so vnstable and vnable props.
But for Antiquitie (as shee is said to be the warrant of things done, the confirmer of things present, and president of things to come; so ofttimes vi [...]es haue beene bolstered by her, impieties authorized by her, and a direction to greater laid open by her. I will descend therefore briefely to particularize such Epitaphs (vsed by the Ancients) which remained for caueats or obseruations in succeeding times. As others (likewise) that moued and excited men to vndertake valiant and couragious exploits in hand.
We reade that Augustus (when he died at Nola, being a Towne s [...]ated in the middle part of Campani [...]) his souldiers to expresse and manifest their loue to him dying, as they had done their allegeance to him liuing, burst out in seuerall passions of sorrow, griefe, and pensiue distractions, with these speeches: O God, that he had either neuer beene borne, or that he had neu [...]r died: For th [...] [Page] one Alterum enim pessimi incepti, exitus praeclari alterū &c. is an occasion of our misery, the other a president of his glory. For so great was his loue towards the Citizens, that by his owne care and diligence, he commanded great abundance of graine to be brought out of Aegypt to sustaine his people welnie consumed with famine.
Few of the twelue Romane Emperors reade we so excellent and exquisite commendations of: saue Titus, who receiued this Impresse euen vpon his hearse, to be Amor & deliciae generis humani: Mans darling, the Worlds mirror, and the flower of all Romane Emperors either before or since; being directed and enlightned no further then with the beameling of nature. For to recapitulate the natures of all those Princes, twixt Augustus the first of the twelue (saue one) to Titus, the last of the twelue, saue one, we shall see their dispositions variable, inconstant, dissolute, and generally vicious.
Tiberius taxed for his subtiltie, Caligula for his insolencie, Claudus for his effeminacie, N [...]ro for his cruelty, Galba for his intemperancie, Otho Vita omnis turpis, maxime adolescentia &c. vid. S [...]xt. Aur [...]l. de Oth. for his inhumanitie, Vitellius for his prodigalitie, Uespasian for his misery: These haue wee charactred (which the Romane Annals haue expressed to l [...]e) such as either merited eternall infamie by their vicious gouernment, or due commendation for [Page] their many morall vertues wherewith they were endued and inuested. Vita mortuorum est in memoria viuentium (saith one very well:) for it renues and reuiues the memory of the dead, and makes him liue in name, honour and reputation, when the sithe of Fate hath pruned him.
For this all the Romane Emperors haue laboured, desiring to become memorable after death: Curtius throwing himselfe into the lake; Vtican purchasing his liberty by voluntary death; Horatius C [...]cles throwing himselfe violently into Tyber to preserue his Countries libertie; In capite eius v [...]luti cornua eme [...]se runt &c. Valer. Max. lib. Genitius Cippus subiecting himselfe to death to propagate his Countries glory; P. Decius who rushed into the fore-front of the enemies (encountring a whole Armie) to make his owne memory more famous and illustrious: The like of Scipio Affricane, who to extinguish that menacing fire of H [...]nnibal deuoted himselfe to death for the safegard of his Country. These and many more, who illustrated their Names by atchieuements done liuing, expected (without question) no little celebration of their name and memory dying: and though their opinion reached not to the soules immortality; yet they could extend their imaginations thus farre, as a famous and memorable death surpassed an infamous and ignominious life: wishing rather to die in fame, then liue in eternall obscu [...]ity. Which [Page] caused some (of disposition vnequall to the former) to perpetrate some hainous and en [...]rmious crime, whereby they might purchase fame euen by infamie: Such was Herostratus who burned the Temple of Diana at Ephesus, to purchase himselfe a name. Such was Turulius who hewed downe the groue that was consecrate to the Temple of Aesculapius, to erect him a ship, that once Religion (as he himselfe auowed) might ride on the water: And such was Q. Fuluius who to enrich himselfe (by sinister meanes) tooke from the Temple dedicated to Iuno Lucinia, tegulas quasd [...]m marmoreas, for which he sustained condigne punishment; amongst which we may insert that sacrilegious Prince or Tyrant rather (for his Empire of Syracuse as it came vnto him by an vsurped succession, so it was gouerned by as cruell and tyrannicall a disposition) bearding the Gods, and afterwards robbing the Altars and Temples (of their sacred ornaments.) For coming one day to the Temple of Iupiter Olympius, and seeing his Image gloriously beautified with a Quo cum Tyrannus Hiero &c. [...] Cartha [...]. orna [...]erat &c. vestment of gold (of an exceeding weight and inestimable price) commanded it to be taken from him, and a woollen garment to be giuen him in the stead of it: saying, A coa [...]e of gold was too heauy for him in Summer, too cold [...]; but a woollen garment was fitter for both [...]. Many o [...] these haue we [Page] recorded by Historians, whose liues were no lesse prophane, then their ends miserable.
Vpon all which (if we might insist vpon this argument) Epitaphs very answerable to their infamous and despicable liues might be produced. But we must proceed, because this summarie discourse, (which I haue heere placed and prefixed (as a preamble or fore-runner) to our Epitaphs following) is but intended onely to demonstrate the vse and effect of Epitaphs, with their first institution, & their distinct kinds arising from their primarie vses.
It is true that there is no necessitie in Sepulchers, or specious monuments; for coelo tegitur, qui non habet vrnam: which moued Diogenes the Cynick to bid his friends cast his body vnto the dogges when he was dead: and being answered by them, that the dogges would teare and rent it: Set a staffe by me (quoth he) and I will beate them from it. Yet in this seeming contempt of buriall, we shall reade in most of the liues of the Pagans, that they were respectiue where they should be interred, erecting (as in part hath beene mentioned) very goodly and glorious Sepulchers in their life times to eternise their memory after death: with whom (it fared many times) as it fared once with Shebna sibi tumula condit, quem fata negarunt. Shebna, who made himselfe a Sepulcher in one Countrie, but was buried in another.
[Page] The first that buried such as fell in warre. Hercules (we reade) to be the first that euer buried such as fell in warre. Many ancient Epitaphs we haue by transcript [...]on, engrauen vpon the monuments of the deceased: as in the Northerne parts especially, where in the very ruines of time, we may see some monumentall inscription inserted, to reuiue the memory of the dead. As in the warres of the Saxons, Picts, and Danes: no coast being mo [...]e frequent then the North, to expresse the memorable acts done in former time, as also to set out the very places and circumstances of things atchieued, with the manuscripts traduced from former occurrents euen to these present times: many curious and serious Antiquaries hauing viewed and particularly set downe the especiallest records heereof with diuers memorable inscriptions happily occurring to their surueigh, I will ouerpasse the same, lest I should seeme to trifle out my time with an imp [...]ent discourse.
It is true that a Souldiers resolution eue [...] fixed on braue attempts, and the inlarging of his Countries glo [...]y, should rather aime at fame after death, then to erect for himselfe a curious monument in his death: which moued Caesar in the plaine of Pharsalie to s [...]y,
[Page]And againe that martiall straine of valour:
And so concludes the Declamour in Seneca: Nature g [...]es euery man a graue: seccnded by old Anthises resolution:
Yet humanitie requires these finall obsequies, not onely in remembrance of our dead friends, but euen to manifest the sinceritie of our loues, in erecting monuments ouer them dead, which might preserue their memory, and confirme our affections in their deaths.
The friends of Cleombrotus (surnamed Ambrociat) seeing his much lamented end, desired much to expresse their loue vnto their dead friend; yet withall to conceale the infamie and reproach of his death: yet Callim [...]chus plaied the Epigrammatist vpon his graue, whilest his deare friends deplored his vntimely end. The Epigram (inscribed after the forme of an Epitaph) being fixed on his Tombe, whence all Epitaphs haue their denomination, was this,
This booke which mooued Ambrociat to this precipitate attempt, is imagined to be Platoes Ph [...]do of the immortalitie of the soule: which also (by a misconstruction) Cato V [...]ican apprehending, laid violent hand vpon himselfe, to free himselfe from the tyrannie and illimited soueraignty of the vsurping C [...]sar. But to our argument propounded.
We haue shadowed briefely the first branch (or kinde which we proposed in the beginning) to wit, morall Epitaphs, being such as conduce to instruction either publike or priuate, wherein (by the very inscriptions or titles engrauen vpon the Tombes of the deceased) some haue beene moued to imitate their memorable liues in actions and attempts of like nature; as Caesar in the surueigh of Mithridates, Augustus in the surueigh of C [...]sar, Alexander by the monument of Achilles, Achilles by the fame-engrauen monument of Patroclus, Aenaeas by the renowned Tombe of the matchlesse Andromach in Hom. called Hector Troiae [...]. Hector, and Hector by the eternized memorie of Antenor: These were morall, inducing or exciting Impresses, drawing the mindes of the beholders [Page] to the management of the like approued and redoubted acts.
We will now proceede to Epitaphs (comming neerer a [...] composition) excellent for their graue and diuinely mouing sentences; pithy for their effect, and profitable for their vse.
That is an excellent one of Scaligers: Scaligeri quod reliquum est: and that no lesse diuine of Ca [...]us: Fui Cai [...]s.
Epitaphs of this kinde seeme little affectiue, yet include so exquisite a straine, as they may rightly be termed diuine: surpassing moralitie in description of our mortality; they delineate the state of man, extenuate his pompe, and shew to what end man was created, not to be onely, but to liue: there being an essentiall difference (twixt being and liuing) as I haue before specified. We haue some of these which set out vanity in her naturall colours: and imply diuinely, what they propound morally.
Diuers we reade of, that fearefull (it seemes) to commend the writing of their Epitaphs to posteritie, would euer be prouided of one in their owne time: which (to expresse their worth better) did not shew or character their worth, but in a modest silence describe their owne frailtie, shutting vp their fame and memory, with a farewell to Earth and Vanitie. These be soueraigne cordials to cheere the drouping and deiected spirit: such as liue iniuried by time, oppressed by [Page] greatnesse of enmity, and slaued to penurie: Such I say, as liue obscurely in the eye of the World, neither noted nor reputed.
When the rich-man seeth nothing vpon Croesus graue, but a Fui Croesus: nor the poore-man vpon Irus then, Fui Irus: what difference at the [...]r dissolution? though in the eye of vaine and popular accompts, there be a maine difference.
These diuine Epitaphs moue the intellectual part to an apprehension of humane condition; to consider that we are al made ex Homo ex humo. Ter [...]a à terendo. Cadauer à cadendo. Vermis quia inermis. eadem argilla: & as no difference in [...]rame & module, so no differēce in the end and period; only that which was writ vpon the Bauarians graue shal either confirme our hopes, or make vs eternally miserable:— Sit comes intermer [...]ta fides: or that which was engrauen on the Tombe of a Venetian Lord:
One no lesse diuine then the other, distinguishing betwixt being and liuing: where our actions must be poised, our intentions discussed, and the vniuersalitie of nature discouered. We are drawne by these Epitaphs to disualue the pompe and port of this World; lesse to pamper the inordinate and distempered affections of the Flesh: holding as the Platonists held, onely the Soule to be Man, and the body to be a [Page] case or couer to put it in: And as Sene [...]a termes it, a rinde or barke: so to fixe onely the light and splendor of the internall part vpon that soueraign end, by which we may ende in glory, as we were borne in misery.
And miserable did the Philosopher account that man, whose best of memories consisted in faire & eminent obsequies; vertue being the best shrine, the exquisitest monument which can be erected to honour man. How should we best describe our selues, and the excellencie of our owne natures, but by the contempt of death, expresse our owne affections euen vpon our graues, shewing our selues to be Christians?
The memorable inscriptions of the ancient Princes (who died in their Countries right) may excite vs to managements of no lesse cōsequence. The Inscription vpon Qui pannosus sarmenla collo gerens, castra hostium ingreditur. Iust. s [...]cundo lib. Codrus Tombe, who was Prince of Athens, was— Nec mors mihi nomen ademit.
The like we reade of Attilius Regulus, who rather then he would infringe his faith, willingly returned vnto his enemies the Carthaginians: where, after he had endured intollerable torments, and vnworthie of so great and equally disposed minde, he commanded this Epitaph to be engrauen vpon his obscure Tombe, Nec sine sp [...] perij. Many such may we reade in the memorable Annals of the Romanes, specially in the warre [Page] twixt Carthage and Rome: in which warres, no man of esteeme or ennobled ranke died, that was not graced with some inscription vpon his monument.
Yet Pompey the Great, whose prudence in gouerning, sinceritie in disposing, promptnesse in attempting, and firme resolution in seconding, got him an eternal fame, both at home & abroad: abroad in following Scylla, at home in bearing vp the main building of the State with his graue and discreete supportance: euen this P [...]mpey had but a short Epitaph writ vpon him, Hic situs est magnus. Heere lies the pompe of a puissant and potent Pompey: heere lies Romes Atlas, the Easterne terror, and his friends aduancer: one whom neither imminence of perill, nor mutation of state, nor occurrence in fate could alter or dismay: Euen that powerfull Columne is now ruin [...]d, his glory dazled, and the mansion which was made glorious by him in Rome, becomes reduced to a poore and homely S [...]pulcher in Aegypt.
One chancing to come where king Dennis was buried: being depriued of crowne and dignity by reason of his tyrannicke gouernment, and before his death had retired himselfe to a simple Schoole, where he taught scholers; saying, Et regam inui [...]is fatis: vnderstanding the course and processe of his gouernment, writ this short Epitaph vpon his Tombe:
In Epitaphs of this nature, a more then morall instruction or institution is to be required: expressing onely the intellectuall part without any prophane or heathenish inuention, being transcendent to the vulgar reach or apprehension of humane vnderstanding: many diuine and holy escripts of the ancient Fathers may be comprehended heerein: being such as treated aswell of the life and discipline of the dead, as especiall motiues of imitation; or cautions of detestation to the liuing. Here Ambition pourtraied in her colours, occasions her owne end by her owne vnbounded desires. There Couetousnesse (with the [Page] misers Mo [...]to) is exemplified, and how many euils are continually attending her, according to the definitiue censure of Flac [...]us, Semper a [...]arus [...]get. Heere Sacriledge instanced in our ancient Albane Br [...]nnus; on whom we reade, that after his many conquests and victorious attempts in Gaul [...], and the sacking of Rome, with many rich booties and spoiles obtained in those warres; at last attempted the beautifull and rich Temple of Delphos consecrate to Apollo, being excited and instigated by Euridanus and Th [...]ssalonus to aduenture so difficult a Prouince, on [...]ly in hope of obtaining inestimable treasures, reserued (say they) for such as would boldly attempt, and with [...]ut feare of the gods, or prophana [...]ion of Religion, durst attempt the rans [...]cking and rifling of such sacred treasures. But behold, the purpos [...]s of the wicked were confounded (and euer may Sacriledge haue the like succ [...]sse) [...]or suddenly Brennus with all his populous Armie, were discomfited, their execrable deuices frustrated▪ and themselu [...]s (all or most) subiected to miserable ends: the [...]articulars whereof are more sully and amply dilated on by the Romane Historian Tro [...]. P [...]peius. Their Epitaph we finde t [...]us, (being extracted out of ancient Anna's) concording wel [...] [...] the nature of their crime, and mise [...]ie of their end:
[Page]In English thus,
These kind of Epitaphs may include or comprehend all such, as for any excellent part or management domestike or publique, haue beene accounted worthy memory: or such, as for eminence of place haue beene no lesse markeable, then singular in discharge of their authoritie: for acts of puissance & renowme that Epitaph engrauen on the Tombe of Willina [...] Marshall Earle of Pembroke, in the time of Henry the third:
And that Epitaph writ vpon Theobald Blois Earle of Champaine (too diuine for any mortall creature: Non hominem possum, non audeo dicere num [...]n. And that of one Clare expressing (in one man) an Epitome of all vertues:
That memorable one also vpon the Sepulcher of Maud mother to H [...]nrie the second: describing the excellencie of her descent by her Father, the greatnesse of her s [...]lfe by her match, and her renowmed i [...]sue which (of all other) made her [Page] most admired, and after death the especiallest motiue of her eternall memorie.
Ancient times haue esteemed these Epitaphs sufficient in themselues to perpetuate their names, being records euer true: for as the Orator saith, Quis tam inf [...]lici genio, leuique ingenio qui mortuis assentari cupit? and as the Poet saith, Lucan. Quis Busta timebit? Herostratus was charactred aswell for his infamie, as [...] for his renowme and chiualrie. Euen Metellus modestie, Lentulus leuitie, Publicolas▪ pietie, Cethegus crueltie, Appius affabilitie, and Ciceroes constancie had their true lineatures: euery one mouldned and moulded after their deserts: for these, as examples, be of more power and efficacie to the practise and prosecution of vertue, then any instructiō or document whatsoeuer; draw men more attentiuely to their imitation, whose vertues they see merit admira [...]ion, as I haue in part before touched. It is the Historians obseruation, that such as had worthy and vertuous Parents, were wont to repaire vnto their Tombs ( Quasi ad propria vitae documenta) and by their memory to be excited to the like meanes of atchieuing glory and renowme, that their ends might [...]nswere such exemplarie par [...]nts. Though it was Lycas conclusion in the Tragedie, to attribute all merit [Page] to ones proper action, and not to the honour of their Auncestor. True it is indeed, that our predecessors glory cannot properly be entitled ours, their actions being onely as monuments of their fame, presidents for vs to follow, and indeed proclaimers of our bastardy, if we chance to degenerate from such rare and exquisite mirrors. Yet was Sextus Pompeius honoured for his Fathers worth: and such as descended from vertuous parents, were onely thought fit to match with Patricians. Those foure Aureli [...], Mutiae, Laeliae, Corneliae. ancient families in Rome, whose vertuous and modest demeanures got them the name of chast matrons, were well portraied by proper Epitaphs, and in their memory were these sentences engrauen: He [...]re Romes honour lies buried: H [...]ere lies the foundation of Auncient families:
By these memorable Impresses, were their successors ennobled, and to their imitation more ardently excited then by any precept or instruction whatsoeuer: the cause may be drawne from that affectation of honour naturally ingraffed in vs from our birth, whereby we vse to be spurred and instigated to the imitating of such as by any proper [Page] demerit either inherent in themselues, or traduced from others to themselues, haue purchased [...]enowme: whence it is, that the Poet saith: Im [...]ensum calcar gloria habet: neither hath it beene accounted a little glory, or slender honour for the successors of so noble and famous Auncestors: whose monuments were as Annals of their worth and proclaimers of their glory; which that they might preserue the better, they vsed to solemnize their Funerals with exceeding honours, and to erect their Sepulchers with all state and magnifificence, deputing Surueiours (which should look to the erection and preseruation thereof▪) calling euer their graues Accommodatissima vitae specimi [...]a, Without which the memory of their vertues might seeme obscured, their glory darkened, and a great many of those excellent parts wherewith they were endued, buried in silence and obliuion. True it is, that gorgeous Sepulchers little auaile the dead: which moued the Philosopher to say, that they were not so much made for the dead, as for the liuing. The Orator termed them mirrors of humane frailtie, characters of our glory, and vndoubted Arguments of our mortalitie. Another examplifying this more fully saith, They are Glasses wherein we may contemplate our selues and others, motiues of imitation wherein we may follow others, and images of affinitie being of the like nature and substance with others. No better or more perfect Resemblance can be made twixt man and his [Page] creation, the image of his li [...]e, and necessitie of his dissolution; the state of his birth, and occa [...]ion of his death; the forme of his beginning, and fashion of his end, then twixt a dead-mans Sepulcher, and the Worlds Theatre. Heere many Actors (some whereof like your Pantomimes in Rome, are generally approued in all parts) play on this terrestriall stage of humane frailtie. Some absolute Machiauels (irreligious politicians) shrouding vicious purposes vnder vertuous pretences: other simple-honest soules, who (like your obscure Actor) stands either not at all obserued, or else so generally derided, as he wisheth rather to be a doore-keeper in the mansions of Heauen, then a disgraced Actor on this stage of Earth. There your light Curtizan (who like another Salust▪ Semp [...]ronia, tanta est libidine accens [...] vt v [...]ros saepius petet, quâm petetur, prostitutes her body to ruinate her soule, exposing herselfe to all, that she might become hatefull to all: to be briefe, in the surueigh of all sta [...]es and conditions ( [...]or euery particular vice incurres a peculiar shame) we may bring the Miser to his graue, who while he liued, was subiect to his vice: The Curtizan from her brothell of vanitie, to her fellow-pupils hearse, there to contemplate her owne frailty. The Ambitious skie-soaring thoughts, to Ambicions fall, reducing his aspyring spirit▪ to a more retired centure, the period of a great mans hopes; which moued Praxatiles [Page] Sceptrum pe [...]it, in centrum vergit. to limne an ambitious man reaching at a Scepter, and rowling below his Centre. Not a vice either occurrent to state publique or priuate, obnoxious to themselues or others, but was expressed in that flourishing time, when Rome labored of her owne greatnesse; so as Catilines Tombe became a caution for aspirers; Seianus a president for Flatterers; Vitellius an example for Rioters; Iulian for apostates and prophaners; Marke Antonie for adulterate meetings; Caligula for tyrannike designements. Quod meruere tenent post funera: their liues being set out in liuely colours, either in expression of their worth, or the description of their illimited gouernment. Many we reade (and those worthy memorie) who throgh want of these inscriptions had their liuing names shut vp in eternall silence, as the Plutarch. in vit. mothers of Demosthenes, of Nicias, of Lamachus, of Phorm [...]on, of Thrasibulus, and of Theramenes which excelled in modestie, and well deserued to be mothers of such rare Captaines, eloquent Orators, and discreete States-men as they were▪ We reade in Plutarch, how Alcibiades assisted by Nicias, was to take his expedition into Sicilie, the very same day of the celebration of the feast Adonia, on which the custome was, that women should set vp in diuers parts of the Citie, in the midst of the streetes, Images like to dead coarses, which they caried to [Page] buriall in remembrance of the lamentations and disconsolate passions which Venus expressed for the death of her Adonis: where in this solemnitie, their imaginarie hearses were set ful of Impresses, that their Funerall might be with more state and magnificence celebrated. But hauing discoursed before of the antiquitie of Epitaphs, with their especiall vses appropriate, as well to ancient as following times, I will descend to the third Definition of the third Branch. branch, which in my first diuision I propounded my selfe; to wit, Epitaphs Prophane, being such as haue beene vsed to anatomise vice satyrically, (with an Inuection against the manners of the dead: which seemes different to the Philosophers instruction, aduising vs rather to treade lightly on the graues of the dead, and to passe ouer their obliquities with a modest pace, a conniuing eye, and a charitable iudgement; that our pace might not presse them, our eye pierce them, nor our iudgement poyze them, but in the skale of amitie, with the eye of pittie, and the feete of lenitie. But now to our discourse, and that briefely, whereby the shortnesse of our Volume may concord with our intention.
Epitaphs of this sort we haue too frequent, being forged out of the braine of vnseasoned Satyrists, that without distinction bend their wits to asperse imputation vpon the deserued memorie of the dead: men of basest nature, d [...]faming such [Page] whose silence giues them freer scope and priuiledge of detraction: impious violaters of burials, commentors of imaginarie vices, wrongers of the dead, enuious libellers, who write either incensed through spleene, or hired for price: drawne on by others, or voluntarily moued by their own depraued and distempered inclinations; of which kinde we may reade euery Nation (euen in their flourishingst and successiuest times) to haue had their part: Athens her Eupolis, Sparta her Alcae [...], In Cyrus time. Persia her Aristeas, Rome her Cherilus. These trode not with easie pace on the graues of the dead, but mixing their inke with more gall then discretion, instigated more by splene then charitable affection, ransacked the Sepulchers of their dead enemies, deblazoned their vices dying, which (through a slauish pusillanimitie, they durst not vnrip nor discouer liuing; these remorselesse censurers of Vices, these corrupters and stainers of well merited liues, these foes to vertue, and foments of vice, were well set out by the Tragike Poet: who brought in the Ghost of the wronged person, pursuing the detractour and menacing him with eternall reproach for his labour. Yet this digression may seeme not so much impertinent as directly repugnant to my first definition of Epitaphs and Epicedes, the natures of both which I haue in part described: where I defined Epitaphs to be nothing else then Testimonials of the Vertues or [Page] Vices of the dead: how they were affected, or what especiall occurrents happened them in their life; it is true, but these Descriptions are to bee shadowed and suited with modest allusions, equally disposed Allegories as their vices, though in part discouered, yet that discouery so intangled as may minister matter of obseruation to the iudicious, and leaue the ignorant in a continuall suspence. And because we produced no authority before (touching the difference twixt an Epitaph and Epiced [...]) wee will vse Seruius opinion heerein: the difference is betweene an Epic [...]de and Epitaph, as Seruius teacheth, that the Epicede is before the corps be interred, and Epitaph or inscription vpon the Tombe: the etymologie of the word, [...]— curare inferias, or funeris officia peragere. Scaliger in his authoritie of Poets, confirmes the deriuation as proper and genuine to the nature of funerall celebrities. This distinction may (serue as a threed to guide the illiterate Poetaster (who perhaps otherwise would confound these two words) out of the labyrinth of error, in which more writers now adaies wander, then euer in any time before. So that it may seem the paradox of Erasmu [...] in t [...]e praise of folly, and that booke whi [...]h Agrippa writ De vanitate scientiarum, are sub [...]ects onely in request; where euery M [...]uius will write (and ofttimes be approned) aswell as Maro. Aiax in Euripides said: [...], [...], To know nothing is the [Page] sweetest life Which sweetnes this age hath attained, where it may be truely auerred, that Neuer Age had more writers, and fewer Authors: those onely being admitted of as Doctorum dict [...] indoctos do [...]iores reddunt. Authors, whose workes merit approbation and authoritie in themselues: experience being reduced to ignorance, and a desire of knowledge to a fruitlesse desire of writing: Littora bobus arant, & arenae semina mandant. But I omit them: these prophane Epitaphs sinisterly aiming at the detraction of such who rest in peace, as they are vtterly to be condemned, so their Authors as presidents of such obliquities should be seuerely censured, whereby an example of punishment in one might minister cause of reformation in all: yet because sin should in some sort be vnmasked, lest vice sue out a priuiledge, and purchase her selfe a monopoly amongst our world-statists (whose best of traffique is to be the Diuels factors, whose eminentst degree is to be Hels purueiors, and whose onely office in request is to be Mammons collectors) I haue instanced diuers Epitaphs, some inuented others translated & traduced from others, which with a tollerable sharpnesse, and a well tempered bitternesse alluding to the persons on whose Tombes they were engrauen, modestly discouer vi [...]e in her natiuest colors. As, first in description of Auarice, a vice most incident to Age, and therefore most inherent to man. Hermo [...] dreaming [Page] he had disbursed money, died for woe, o [...] which dreaming Miser we reade this written:
And that of Phedon who wept not for that he should die, but that the charge of [...]is buriall should come to foure shillings.
at And that of Hermocrates, who would not be se [...] charge for a purgation: and dying made himfe sole Executour:
And that of None, whose Name and nature had relation one to another, being only to himselfe without respect of publike good, or compassion to others want:
[Page]And that of one Hic situs est sitiens atque Ebrius Elaertonus; quid dico hic situs est, hic potius sitis est? Elderton, (an inscription too bitter) yet to disauthorize that sin, (which like that powerfull ointment whereof Apuleius relates, amongst the Thessalonians, transforming and metamorphosing men into bruite beasts) to wit drunkennesse, whereof he was taxed, nothing can be too vehement or violent:
I will end this last part of my diuision (fearing much I haue insisted too long vpon the preamble, and incurring the Mindian censure of making my gate so spacious, and the maine building so contracted:) I will end (I say) with that vniuersall doome and home (with which mortalitie must of necessitie end) to wit, Dust: of which name we reade one to haue beene, and ceasing to be, had this inscription:
¶ A Description of Death.
Epitaphs vpon sudden and premature deaths: occasioned vpon some occurrents lately and vnhappily arising.
Another Epitaph vpon the same subiect.
An Epitaph of the same.
¶ Vpon a vertuous young Ladie lying in child-birth.
¶ Vpon a Souldier, for resolutiō worthily affecte [...] and aduanced by his Country, yet interred an [...] by (vnworthy Fate) obscurely.
¶ An Epigram vpon Alphonso Prince of Naples, and vpon his Crest, whereon was engrauen a Pellican with this Impressa;
¶ An Epitaph vpon one who died confined.
¶ Vpon a Iustice worthily deseruing of his Countrey.
¶ Vpon a Iustice of lesse demerite.
¶ Vpon a bragging Souldier.
Vpon Peter see me.
¶ Vpon a Captaine which in the Low Countries was hanged, and afterwards taken vp againe.
[...] his throwing.
¶ Vpon one Span.
¶ Vpon one Flower a hopefull yong Student.
¶ Vpon a Reuerend and honourable Iudge of this land, was this Epitaph inscribed.
¶ Distichon funebre in obit: princip. ob eximiam & corporis & mentis temperiem. qua licet, nos reliquit, altiora petit.
¶ An Epitaph vpon the Sonne buried in his Fathers graue.
¶ Vpon In hunc ferme modum prop [...]nitur à Mart. [...]pigramma. one who louing honour, died ere hee possest it.
¶ Vpon Master Laurence Death, an Epicede accommodate to his Name.
¶ Vpon one Merie.
¶ Vpon one Hogge.
¶ Vpon a vaine-glorious Student that would needes be called Aristarchus.
¶ Vpon an ancient Tombe was this In Monast [...]is septentri [...]: com pertum crat. inscription found.
¶ Vpon my Lady Woodb [...]e.
¶ Vpon the same Subiect extracted.
¶ Vpon an Adulterer extracted.
¶ Vpon a Sexton an Epitaph.
¶ Vpon Kempe and his morice, with his Epitaph.
¶ Vpon one Skelton.
¶ Vpon one Babylon.
¶ Vpon a spare Patron.
¶ Vpon a cashered Souldier.
¶ Vpon the death of one Vid. Martial: in nom. Thet. & Nympham, & p [...]storem hoc nomine inducit in Elegijs & E [...] pigrammat. Thete who died, and was cast in a great tempest vpon the Sea, into a straite of that part of the Sea which diuides Mysia from Hell [...]spont.
¶ Vpon Synon that villaine which sacked Troy.
¶ Vpon Argus.
¶ Vpon Gold a dissolute Hac [...]ster.
¶ Vpon a Quackesaluer Doctors graue in Venice, by Transcription we reade this Inscription as followeth.
¶ Vpon Croesus and Irus.
¶ Vpon Delia.
¶ Vpon a Broaker.
¶ Vpon Tacitus.
¶ Vpon one Holofe [...]nus an vnconscionable Vsurer.
¶ Vpon one Gnat.
¶ Vpon an Actor now of late deceased: and vpon his Action Tu quo (que): and first vpon his Trauell.
¶ Vpon Loues champion.
¶ Amor This inscription writ vpon the tombe of a memorable Patrician of [...]ome and may be transcribed, vnto one of ours no lesse memorable for eminence of place, and sinceritie of gouernment. viuat & crescat honor, inuitis fatis resurgat virtus, augeatur pietas, & foueatur sanctitas: altera harum miserijs subuenimus, altera Reip. saluti prouidemus.
¶ A funerall Ode.
¶ Vpon the death of the vertuously affected S r Thomas Bointon, a Knight so wel-meriting, as his vertues farre aboue all Titles, enstiled him worthy the loue of his Countrey.
¶ Vpon that memorable Act atchieued by an Auncestour of the Cogniers in the discomfiture of a Winged-worme or Snake,
Whose approach was no lesse obuious then mortally dangerous to the distressed Passenger;
His Monument remaineth in the body of the church at Antiquae & nobilis fam [...]siae de Cogniers domicilium. Camd. in Britann. Sockburn, where hee lieth crosse-legged, (which inferreth his being before the Conquest) hauing his Fauchion by his side, his Dogge at his feete,
Grasping with the Snake, the Snake with the Dogge: the renowmed memorie of which Act addeth no lesse glory to the houses Antiquitie, then the worthy Meaning Sir Iohn Cogniers, now deceased, [...] Knight no lesse generous then gracious in the eye of his Prince and Countrey. Knight who now possesseth it, gaineth harts by his affability.
Paraphrastically translated.
¶ Epitaphs vpon diuerse of the Sages of Greece, translated, omitting Thales and Solon, and beginning with the rest, originally traduced from Laertius.
¶ Vpon Pittacus, whose Tombe was erected by the Citie Lesbos wherein he liued; beautified with this inscription to perpetuate his memory.
¶ Vpon Bias whom Priene with all solemnitie and magnificence, at their owne proper cost interred: Engrauing these verses vpon his Tombe, for the continuance of his Name.
¶ Vpon Cleobulus, who was buried in Lyndus, which boundeth on the Sea-cliffe; the situation whereof is shadowed in this inscription vpon his Tombe.
¶ Vpon Periander of Corinth was this Epitaph ensuing found to be engrauen, which through the iniurie of time, and want of Art in the impressure▪ was so defaced, as by the testimonie of Laertius it could scarce be reduced to Sence: yet now according to the Originall faithfully translated, including a Christian resolution in a Pagans dissolution▪ reposing a more true happines in his end then in his Birth, his exit or passage, then his intrat to this Theatre or transitorie Pilgrimage: making his diem fatalem, his diem natalem, the day of his death the day of his birth; where Man by an imputatiue goodnesse, deduced from God not inherent in himselfe, may in his death be rather said to be translated then departed.
Continued by Laertius by way of an Epigram,
¶ Vpon the much lamented death of the truly honourable (eminent patterne of vnblemished Iustice) Sir Augustine Nicholls one of our Iudges of the Northerne Circuit, who died at Kendall the third day of August. Anno 1616.
Another Dialogue▪ wise: Eubaeus and Tymaeus.
Silence, awake not Iustice.
Who can keepe the eies of Iustice closed?
Death and Sleepe.
Death cannot do it.
Cannot! pray thee see What Death hath done then.
"Lasse! how mortally lies Iustice wounded?
Wounded! no, shee's dead.
Dead!
Yes; see tong, pulse, arme, eie, heart, hand head all motionless [...]; come nearer:
I'me too near.
Doest weepe?
I offer to her Shrine a teare.
Thou art too childish.
No, if I could more, I would expresse it.
Why, didst nere know b [...]fore Iustice lie speechl [...]sse?
Yes, but nere did know despaire of her recouery till now.
No, th [...] hast h [...]ard that saying [...] growne common.
What might it b [...]?
That Iustice's like a Woman;
In what respect?
In this it may be [...]'ed
When she lies speechles, shee is neerly dead.
Most true in both
It is, but doe not weepe;
Let's vanish hence, & suffer Iustice sleepe.
¶ An Epitaph reduced to the forme * Epitaphium in Dialogi form [...] compositum. of a Dialogue; consisting of two Persons and two Parts, representing in the Persons, Affection and Instruction; in the Parts Passion and Consolation: prepared at first for the memory of his neuer-sufficiently remembred Father by the Authour, emphatically shadowed vnder the name of Philopater.
Sleepes my deare Father?
Yes, my Sonne I sleepe:
Wh [...], then I wrong'd your quiet rest to weepe; Sith Christians should not any difference make Twixt Death and Sleepe;
O pardon then my teares.
Where you are blest:
Indeede I am.
Heauens grant my Soule like rest.
¶ A Diuine composition, stiled The Pilgrimes Petition.
¶ The Sinners Cymball.
¶ In obitum De Ambleside. Thomae Brathwaite optimae spei, indolis generosissimae, vitae probatissimae, fidei integerrimae, omni ex parte parati peri▪ ti (que) R. B.
Memoriae eius studiosissimus lugubria ista Poemata grati animi pignora diu meditata & iam serò sed seriò in publicam lucem prolata (Dialogi more) ccmposuit.
Quò redis?
In gremium matris:
Quos quaeris?
Amicos.
His moriendo [...]ares:
His moriendo fruor.
Tunc tibi mors lucrum:
M [...]hi lux, via, vita, leuamen.
Tunc non amissus;
M [...]ssus at ante meos.
¶ In Anagramma quod sibi ipsi composuit & Annulo inscripsit.
- Brathwaite
- Vita vt herba.
¶ Vpon the late decease of his much lamented friend and kinsman, Alle [...] Nicholson, a zealous & industrious member both in Church and Common-weale.
¶ In obitum generosissimi viri L. P. genio quàm ingenio minus faelici, Franciscus Ridgeway eius memoriae studiosissimus hosce th [...]eneticos modos composuit.
¶ A Funerall Poeme vpon the death of the hopefull yong Gentleman Mast. Will. Horsey, who deceased the 24. of Aprill, Ann. Dom. 1615.
¶ The Author vpon his selected and euer to be remembred E. C. Parragon for beautie and vertue: who died the 5. of Decemb. Ann. Dom. 1615.
¶ Vpon the much lamented Death of the vertuous virgine A. T. in Scarborough, lately deceased, and of her sorrowfull Parents incessantly moned.
¶ Vpon the Tombe of. . . . . lately erected.
¶ Vpon a late deceased Pinch-gut.
¶ This the Authour wrote vpon an excellent Bowler and his Friend, aptly resembling Mans life to a game at Bowles.
¶ Vpon a singular Irishman.
¶ Vpon the death of one Cookes wife, an Inscription allusiue to her name.
¶ In Actorem Mimicum cui vix parem c
[...]rnimus superstitem;
Quaecun
(que) orta sunt occidunt. Salust.
¶ In vultum incredibili lepore respersum.
¶ Vpon a Traueller, who taking Inne in a village at the signe of the Boore was lamentably murdered by his Hoast.
¶Vpon certaine Bones found of late buried in the ground, supposed to be some murder committed by the Hoast, in whose yard these Bones were found; but as yet only suspition is grounded, no apparancie of Fact discouered.
¶ Vpon a Gentlewoman who died in Child-birth.
Vpon an Infant (his fathers first borne) was this written:
¶ Vpon one Gray.
¶ Vpon one Grau [...].
¶ Vpon one Winds towards the North-borders is this written;
¶ Another.
Hoc Epitaphium [...]re insculptum vidimus cathedrali templo Ebo [...]acensi, pulcherrimo more (in aerea quadam lamina) consitum, sed [...]rbarie temporis magis excusanda, aut ineptia Auto [...]is non satis [...], parum condite dispositum in Orientali fa [...] prope me [...]iam partem Are [...] erigitur.
¶ Vpon old Mammon.
¶ On a Cobler at Cambridge.
¶ Vpon an Eminent STATESMAN in this Land, absolute for his generall suruey in all knowledge, his approued iudgement in all Learning.
¶ In the memory of that famous Professour of Physicke▪ M r Butler, generally renowmed for his approued practice.
¶ On one Mor [...].
¶ On one Pricke.
¶ Vpon Sir Ignorance.
¶ Vpon Gregorie Cade.
¶ The Prodigals Glasse.
¶ A compendious Discourse annexed by the Author, touching Moderate Weeping, behouefull for euerie tenderly-affected Reader, who many times offends in the extremitie of this Passion; vsing such Immoderation, as if D [...]ath were no Passage but a Parting; this life no Pilgrimage, but a dwelling, and our bodies of no fraile substance, but euerlasting.
WHen the Roman Princes, in their Conquests and publique Triumphs were with acclamations re [...]eiued, and by the generall applause of the people extolled, there stood alwayes one behinde them in their Esseds or triumphant Chariots, to pu [...]l them by the sleeue, with Memento te esse hominem. The like we reade of Philip, Caesar, & that (and in that onely memorable) of Agathocles, commanding his Statue to be made with the head and body of Brasse, but the feete of Earth, implying on what infirme ground this specious Littleworld (the beautcous Epitome of the grea [...]er world) subsisted. True it is, that we are to glory in nothing, hauing of our selues nothing but Sin, which should rather occasion our Shame then our Glorie. And this it was which moued that deuout [Page] Father to call our life, A perpetuall and continuall Repentance, habitually if not actually, hauing such euident Arguments of our Shame, such spirituall eye-sores of sin annoying vs hourely. Therefore did Cicero terme it, a Punishment, Seneca a Bondage, Maro a Dreame, Pindarus the shadow of a Dreame, Plato a Game at Chesse, Canius a medley of Cares, Mimus an Enterlude of Feares, and Zen [...] a Deceiuing hope of Yeares. Thus were the Ethnickes conceited of this life, discoursing more diuinely then our imagination can extend, considering the palpable darkenesse of that Time wherein they liued. Yea if we should but suruey the generall Opinions of all the Pagan Philosophers, Poets, and Orators, we might finde many Christian-like perswasions for our Liues indifferencie, singular obseruations to caution vs of our Mortalitie, with impregnable Arguments of this lifes infelicitie. Yea, that I may vse the words of Cicero, giuing his opinion of the Tragedies of Euripides, As many Verses, so many Testimonies be there, mouing a Morall by way of Christian Instruction. Where for indifferencie (because nothing can be taught without examples being ocular and personall, and therefore more perswasiue then Precepts) we shall see a Theodorus, Leena, Hiero, Phocion, Vtican, Merula, Scapula, Petreius and Catulus, like generous and true-bred Romans expresse their contempt of life by their free and forward acceptance of Death. Nor were [Page] women of a lesse resolute temper, though more soft and delicate by nature; for we shall find them likewise wel read in Platoes Ph [...]do, of the Immortality of the Soule; where Alcesta chearefully embraceth death for the loue of her Admet [...]s, [...] damia for her Protesila [...]s, Paulina for her Seneca, Arria for her Cecinna, Halcyone for her Ceix, Iulia for her Caesar, Euadna for her Clorio, Portia for her Cato, Panthia for her Susyus, Artemysia for her Mausolus: esteeming it a noble death, where the act of death purchaseth memorie after death. Secondly, for Mortalitie, we shall reade how the eminentest Princes had the Portraitures of their Progenitors and Auncestors liuely expressed (as moouing Resemblances of their owne frailtie) which they caused to be curiously engrauen in small portable Tables, to represent the intimacie of their loue, and breuitie of their life; As for example, that of Mithridates reserued by Pharnaces his sonne, as a Mirrour of humane mutability, bearing this tenour: Mithridates that victorious Prince, who had discomfited in diuers set battells, Lu. Cassius, Oppius Quintus, and Manius Acilius, at last ouer come by Sylla, Lucullus, and vtterly by Pompey, for all his infinite treasure in Talauris; those many confederate Princes admired his valour, and the ample Boundiers of his Kingdome so largely extended; for all this, his body (the poore remainder of so great glorie) was buried at the charge of the Romans, being sent by Pharnaces in gallies to Pompey. [Page] The like of Cyrus, who translated the Empire of the Medes to the Persians, whose Epitaph so passionately was it composed) drew teares from Alexanders eyes, reading how A clod of earth did co [...]er the Translator of an Empire: and that emphaticall one of the Souldan Saladine sealing vp his graue with a Tandem victus; commanding a little before his death, that the Generall of his Armie should come vnto him; One that had beene his Leader in al the successiue and victorious encounters (wherein he euer departed Conquerour) during his time, to whom he vsed these words; Goe (sai [...]h he) to the great Citie Damascus, and in stead of a Banner take this sheete, this shrowde, which thou shalt wa [...]e in the ayre, and crie: This is all that the victorious Saladine hath left him of all his Conquests. Thirdly, [...]for the infelicitie of this life, diuers Ethnickes haue spoken worthily, as Thales, who affirmed no difference to be at all, betwixt Life and Death; and Crates reply, who being asked what was the greatest happinesse could befall man; answered, Either not to be borne, or to die soo [...]e where the entrance to life is Shriking, the middle Sorrowing, and the end Sighing: and better is it to haue no Being, then to be miserable by Being; confirmed by that sentence of Cneus Dentatus, I had rather be dead then liue as o [...]e dead (vacancie from affaires being the graue of a liuing Soule.) With especiall reason may I seeme to approoue (which a spirituall man approues in himselfe) of that diuine [Page] Oracle; The houre of our death is better then the houre of our birth: since at the best we are but here in the state of Grace, and that is only a glorie inchoate; but after in the state of Glorie, and that is a grace consummate. It might seeme that the Cusani had some superficiall taste of this, in bemoning their childrens birth, and reioycing at their death: but the experience of worldly griefs made them so desi [...]edly approach their ends; for certaine it is, Mori velle non tantùm fortis aut miser aut prudens, sed etiam fastidiosus potest: where our liues▪ louing falles to a loathing, and the sacietie of delights (being externall, and therefore farre from reall) breedes a d [...]staste.
The consideration of these and many more anxieties whi [...]h attend man in his Soiorne of Flesh, hath (no question) moued sundry of those diuine Fathers to contemne this life, reioycing much in the remembrance of their Dissolution: but more especially, that ardent and vnfained Loue which they bore to their Redeemer, whose glorie that it might be promoted and furthered▪ death seemed to them a singular fauour, confirming their loue by the testimony of their faith: and such (to illustrate our Discourse by instance) appeared the affec [...]ion of blessed Hierome, when he publiquely protested; That if his mother should hang about him, his father lie in his way to stoppe him, his wife and children weepe about him, he would throw off his mother, neglect his father, contemne the lamentation [Page] of his wife and children, to meete his Sauiour Christ Iesus.
The like appeared the loue of all those glorious and victorious Martyrs, during the Ten Persecutions, shewing euident proofe of sanctitie in their liues, of constancie in their deaths; where neyther promise of preferment could allure, nor extremest punishment deterre; remaining (to vse the words of Cyprian) as an impregnable rocke amiddest all violent assaults; assailed indeede but not surprized, threatned but not dismayed, besieged but not discomfited, appearing like starres in the darke night, like greene Baies in the midst of hoarie winter, and like liuely fresh fountaines in the sandie Desert. I could amplifie this Discourse by instancing the exercise of that Monasticall and Eremeticall life in former time professed, and by an austeritie (too rigorous for flesh and bloud) continued, abiding sequestred not onely from all mundane pleasures, but euen enemies to humane societie; so as rightly might Damascene terme it, a kinde of Martyrdome, being dead as well to men, as to the world: but I intend to be short, speaking rather by way of admonition then discourse: to caution such whose Desires seeme planted on this globe of frailtie, accounting death the greatest infelicit incident to man, as men incredulous of future good: These haue their treasures on earth, where they haue indiuidually fixed their hearts, for where their treasure is there is their [Page] heart also: Like [ I si [...] Asse] idolatrizing their owne gainesse, ignorant (poore makes) how soone they shall b [...] stript of their imaginarie glorie; but these are those filij deperditi, sencelesse of Sinne in the Desert of Sinne, little knowing how mans securitie is the diuells opportunitie; but crying with the Horse-leech, More, More, are not to be satissted till their mouth be filled with grauell; whose speedy Conu [...]rsion I wish before their Dissolution, lest Desolation second their Dissolution. Yea may this effect worke in them before the day of forgetfulnesse receiue them; Moriatur Paulus persecutor, Viuat Apo [...]tolus & Praedicator; Moriatur Magdalena pe [...]cans, viuat poenitentiam agen [...]; Moriatur Matthaeus Publicanus, viuat fidelis Dei seruus: So shall Death be a passage to a life subiect to no death; so entire consolation shall receiue them, where their sincere conuersion reclaimed them, euer applying this as a chearefull receit to an afflicted Consciēce, [...] est hominis errare, nullius nisi insipientis perseuerare in errore.
True it is that neither Homers vnde [...]standing (though he could reduce what memorable thing soeuer he had read into a golden verse,) Platoes [...]it Aeschynes art of Oratory, nor Ciceroes tongue shall preuaile, when wee become [...], a breathlesse Corps: then the hearts sincerity, not the excellency of any outward faculty shall bring vs to the inheritance of glory, which Saint Augustine compare [...] to the Sun: Pascuntur omnes, & non [Page] minuitur. Whence it is that Plato in [...]is Timaeus saith; If a man lose his eyes, or feete, or hands, or wealth, wee may say of such an one, hee loseth something; but He who loseth his Heart and Reason, loseth all: for in the wombe of our Mother the first thing that is engendred or participates forme, is the Heart, and the last which dieth, is the [...]ame Heart; and the gift which God craueth of Man is his heart. But we haue too farre digressed, let vs now returne to those zealous Professors of true Mortification, those who laboured in the Spirituall Uineyard and fainted not, were persecuted, yet failed not; were put to Death, yet desist [...]d not from glorifying their Master in their Death. All which may appeare by those pregnant places of Scripture; I desire to be d ssolued▪ saith Paul, and to be with Christ, ( Phil. 1. 23. 24.) Neu [...]rthelesse for me to abide in the flesh were better for yo; Neither doth He desire to bee dissolued as weary of suffering vnder the Cr [...]sse of Christ, but [...]or the feruent desire he hath to see God in his glorie. Againe, the faithfull crie euer for the approach of Gods Kin [...] dome, the reward of immortality, which with assurance in Gods mercies and his Sonnes passion they vndoubtedly hope to obtain, with vehemency of spirit inuoking and inuiting their Mediatour, Come Lord Iesus, come quickely, ( Reuel. 22. 20.) Nor doe they ground on a weake Fo [...]ndation, Knowing how they that die in the Lord shall rest from their Labour. ( Iohn 5. 24. Re [...]el. 14. 15.)
O that Man would consider (s [...]ith a religious [Page] Father) what a sinner loseth (to wit) Heauen, what he getteth (to wit) Hell; whom he offendeth, Gods Iustice; what he incurreth his vengeance; for vengeance is his, and he [...] will repay it. Briefly, Magna est [...]bis indicta necess [...]as (saith Boaetius) to correct and rectifie our liues, least our owne prau [...]tie depriue vs li [...]e: so by auoiding Sin ma [...] w [...]e auoide the pun [...]shment of Death due vnto Sinne, possessing the reward of eternall life, summarily comprized in these two; To liue in his feare, and die in his fa [...]our.
Now (wormeling) let mee speake to thee that so much lamentest the losse of thy friend, as if he were gone from his home to a strange Countrey; Doest Thou weepe that thou hast lost him, or that he hath left thee here behind him? Too incredulous thou if thou weepe for the first; lost he cannot be, for thy losse is his aduantage: if for the last, prepare thy selfe so in thy life, that thou may [...]nioy thy Friend aft [...]r Death; meane time beare with patience thy friends d [...]parture, beleeuing that he hath purchased rest from his labour. Neither doth this life which moueth and acteth with all her sensitiue operations, proue that wee are aliue, but dead, if the Spirit o [...] Grace did not quicken vs: which Christ seemes to con [...]irme▪ saying; Let the dead bury the dead, implying such as bee dead in Sin: for if the vitall motions were dead and extinguished in vs, it were impossible we should burie, or doe any such offices to the deceased. Hence [Page] may Thou be comforted whosoeuer thou art, that conceiuest immoderate sorrow in the Death of a Friend seeing him liue worthy thy friendship here, and translated hence to bee ioyned in the Vnion and Communion of the Saints elsewhere. To be short, if hee were of approued conuersation, his happie passage may occasion in thee ioy rather then griefe, being exempted from this vale of teares, this Surplusage of sorrow, and translated to the Port of rest, the Harbour of tranquility, bringing his sheaues with him. If he were euill, why doest thou call him Friend? for no true friendship (saith the Ethnicke) can be amongst naughty men. But suppose him a friend, yet being of a vicious life, ciuill societie is well rid of him, being so apt of himselfe to depraue them: for true is that axi [...] as well in Minds Physicke as the Bodies: Initium morbiest aegris Sana miscere: Mans nature being euer prone ( Medaea-like) to haue free [...]lection of the best, but to follow the worst. Let this then serue as a Position to limit thy affection: If wor [...]hy the stile of Friend, bee sorry not so much for that Death hath taken him, as that thou art left here behind him: If vnworthy, grieue not that thou hast left him, but that so much precious time should be lost by him. But in these extrem [...]ies there is no receite more soueraigne then recourse to Him, who disposeth of vs liuing and dying, euer meditating how [...], Honor Dei bonum maximum; and to r [...]commend withall the whole course of [Page] our Actions to his gracious Dispensation that can bring light out of darkenesse, and turne our bed of sorrow to the soule solacing repose of eternall rest. Receiue therefore this Resolution which I for some yeeres haue to my selfe proposed, The Authors resolution. and by the Almighties helpe may continue it. I haue no friend too deare for my dear [...]st friend, nor will I grieue at my friends departure, being ( as my hope assures mee) gone to his Sauiour; at least if natural affection force me weepe, af [...]er a while shall my faith renew my ioy: for sorrow may la [...]t for a night, butioy commeth in the mor [...]ing.
A restraint wee reade of amongst the Romans in their Funerall Solemuities, for immoderate Mourning: so many dayes being limited, after the end whereof, the Blacke habits were left; expressing all other friendly offices in the erection of their Statues curiously engrauen in Marble, Iuory, artificially carued with many Thracian, Lydian, Ionian, and Paphian workes, diuersly beautified with Inscriptions and Impresses to preserue their memory: which seemed a [...]ruitlesse vanity to many of the grauer Consuls, who reposed more trust in the vertues of the mind (hoping thereby to become more memorable) then in the exteriour beauty of Tombes, which were oft times the natiue Emblemes of them they couered, being (those Rotten S [...]pulchers I meane) Ex [...]rius nitida, interius faetida, Handsome without▪ but noysome within; whereas those eminent vertues made their [Page] Possessors truly memorable, hauing Acts and valiant Exploits insteade of Statues to recommend them in succeeding times; whence it was that the Poet in the person of Cato said;
For true Honour as it is essentiall to man that merits it, so must it haue an internall monument to preserue it: for these corruptible things are subiect to decay, which Honour (if deseruedly purchased) [...]annot admit (though many haue merited it who liuing could neuer enioy it;) which if time would suffer, might be instanced in the renowned Asdrubal, an [...] many other▪ who to pre [...]ent the malice and fury of the people, fled to his Fa [...]hers Sepulcher, and [...]illed himselfe with Poyson: whence (so violent is passion i [...] once [...]xcited) they dragged out his carkasse▪ and cutting off his head, put it vpon a speares point and bare it about the City. Plenty of like examples will Histories affoord, as Bysi [...] the Graecian, Osyg [...]s the Lac [...]demonian, Bracaras the Theban, Scipio th [...] Roman, with many others: but I hast to an end, purposing to weaue vp the body of this Discourse with a prescrib [...]d forme of sorrow, yet not so (as if Stoically-affected) through the obd [...]acy of my nature I could not weepe with those th [...]t weepe, or so experienst in Mortalitie as to seeme incapable of [...]umane [...]assions▪ nor such a disciplinarie Heraclytus as to teach men how to make a sorrowful face; but by a Christian instruction, (the singular motiue [Page] to the zealously affected) to perswade such immoderate Mourners as exceede in passion to more Temperance; telling them withall how farre they decline from that godly sorrow which appeared in the faithfull Saints and Seruants of God, who were not grieued at the Handie worke of the Lord, but referred themselues to his disposing: who vsed now and then to trie them by aduerfities, losse of friends and other afflictions, that by these exteriour trialls (which Seneca termeth Exercises) they might like pure gold be purged and refined, to shine afterwards like polished corners in Gods Temple, like Oliue-braunches round about his Table.
We may reade (kinde Christian brother) that Christ approued of [...]eeping, for he A prescript [...]orme in w [...]eping. wept ouer [...]erusalem, and Peter his beloued wept bitterly; and Samuel the Prophet wept for King Saul; yea there is a Blessing pronounced to Matth. 5. 4. those that weep, and we are expresly Luke 6. 21. inioyned to weepe. Briefly, we may Rom. 12. 15. reade of many holy men that wept, but this their weeping was for their sins; it was a religious sorrow: for Peter wept for denying his Maister, regaining that place by w [...]ping that he had lost by denying: Christ wept in the consideration of Ierusalems Fall▪ and her miserable blindnes not to see her fall: Likewise ouer his dead friend Laz [...]rus, shewing friendly compassion before his [Page] miraculous restauration, raising him from death to life; and Samuel wept for Saules wickednes▪ but we are now to argue of weeping, touching those that be asleepe, of moderate weeping, and of the inconueniences which proceed from immoderate Sorrow and Dolour.
Moderate weeping is most highly commended, for it expresseth a naturall Affection we had to the Departed, with a Christian-li [...]e Moderation of our Griefe, whereby our Faith to God-ward is demonstrated: the reason is manifest; Since the Departed rest from their labours, and their workes follow them; corum imò opera praecesserunt eos, They haue gone before them. Why should wee then weepe since they are receiued into the Throne of Blisse, and are made partakers of Aeternitie? and therefore Saint Cyprian saith, Praemissi sunt, non amissi, Those that depart in the Faith of Christ, They are sent before vs, not lost from vs: They shall receiue Immortali [...]ie and be heires of Christs Kingdome. Againe, they who attain to the glory of Gods Kingdome, are to be thought happie, and in ioy, not in sorrow, vex [...]tion, or woe; and therefore not to be grieued for, in that they are Departed from vs; for of necessitie it is, we must either Depart from them, or They from vs. O happie were we, if we were receiued into that ioy, that glorie, that aeternit [...]e whereof the Saints in Christs Kingdome be Partakers: Dispar est gloria singulorum, communis tamen laticia omnium, A Glorie distingu [...] shed, [Page] but a ioy communicate; O admirable mysterie! O ineffable mercy! a mystery onely to Those [...]euealed whom He in his mercy hath reserued to be Inheritors in the Couenant of Peace established by his Promise, confirmed by his Power, and conferred on his Elect Israelites, glorified by Iesus Christ our Lord in the highest Heauen, euen where the Cherubims and Seraphims make melody and solace to the Lord of Heauen and Earth.
Touching the inconuenience of immoderate [...]orrow, the blessed Apostle▪ Paul, 1 Thess. 4: 13. gi [...]eth vs a taste, where he saith; I would not Brethren [...]aue you ignorant, concerning them which are asleepe, [...]hat yee sorrow not euen as other which haue no hope: whence it appeareth, that excessiue and immode [...]ate sorrow, implieth a diffidence or distrust wee [...]aue of our Soules immortality, resurrection, glo [...]ification, whereby wee seeme to derogate from [...]hat written verity, who said; Verily, verily, I say vn [...] you, the houre shal come, and how is, when the dead shall [...]are the voice of the Son of God, and they that heare it [...]all liue: Ioh. 5. 25. But many carnall men there be, [...]hose spirituall eyes dazled, or rather blemished [...]ith terrestriall Obiects, can extend their intelle [...]tuall sight (the eye of their Soule) no further then [...]e exteriour Obiect of Sence leades them: and [...]ese (like Nicodemus) will not let to aske, How [...]n a man be borne againe which is old? Can he enter to his mothers wombe againe, and be borne? Little [...]e these con [...]ider how, Melius est non [...] [...]n renasci: Nor know they how ther [...] be children [Page] by Procreation, and children by Regeneration: of which sort might Rachel seeme to be, who wept for her children, and would not be comforted, because they were not: So strangely doth the violence of Passion transport These, as they become stupid and sencelesse in the depriuall of a friend, pithily expressed by the Poet:
This was pleasa [...]tly shadowed in the Morall of Niobe, Alcyone, and sundry others with singular delight, illustrated and very accommodate to ou [...] present purpose; but our intended breuity preuēt [...] vs: and rather would I moue by way of Precep [...] then Discourse; for the latter tastes of Affectation where the other ministers argument of vse without Ostentation.
To conclude, I wish euery immoderate and dispassionate Mourner to reflect to these two considerations: The first is, to conceiue the matter or composition where of hee was made, for whom hee mourneth The second is (which by a necessary consequenc [...] depends vpon the first;) The necessity of his dissol [...] tion, being enioyned by that vniuersall doom which cannot be protracted, much lesse repeale [...] to returne to that Moulde from whence He ha [...] his Beginning. In the first (to wit) his Composition thou shalt finde the matter where of He was mad [...] vile, sordide, and contempti [...]le, where that Beau [...] wherein consisted the eminent part of his luster, [Page] but Earth, which wee make our inferiour Center; yea, though He were ennobled in the highest rank of Descent, yet, Non luti melioris, the matter whereof he was composed is but equall with the obscurest vassall. In the latter, (to wit) his Dissolution, as the time or instant is doubtfull, and to the knowledge of man illimited; so is the necessity of the Doome not to be auoided: it was the Pagan Poets Maxime, Earth must to Earth; and it is Pittacus saying; That the immortal gods themselues could not [...]truggle against Necessitie: Seeing then the frailty of his Composition, the necessity of his Dissolution, haue recourse to him in the depth of thy Affliction, who will infuse into thy teare-distilling wounds th [...] Balme of his Consolation: acknowledge thou thy infirmities with the Publican, and He will play the faithfull Samaritan; restraine thy too-tender affection, as one that is beleeuing; so shall not the death of thy happy-departed friend grieue thee, but by the wings of Faith transpose thee from cogitation of Earth to Heauen; tran [...]late thee (a skilfull and cheerefull Builder of Gods Temple;) as a faithfull Bezalie from Idolatrous Babel to saintly zealous Bethel, from Edom to Eden; from the Tents of Kedar, and the Habitations of Moloc to those princely Cedars of Lebanon, from the Son of Syrac, from Marah the water of bitternesse, to Bethesda the Poole of Solace: finally, from this exile of teares and miserie, to the Syloe of ioy and eternall Glory.
This the Author presently composed vpon this occasion; being with sundry Gentlemen at Waltham exceeding merrily disposed, one Cooke a neighbour of the Hoasts where he lay, came suddenly in, pitteously lamenting the death of his [Page] wife, being newly departed: euery one laboured to allay his sorrow; but by how much more instant were their comforts, by so much more violent were his Passions: at last the Author percei [...]ing by his Hoast that he expressed a dissembling sorrow, being impatient of her life, and therefore (by all probabilitie) inwardly content with her death, being an old decrepite woman, and He in the Prime of his age, in stead of all vnnecessarie comforts, applied this soueraigne Discourse as a salue to his griefe, without further premeditation.